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Why spend so much money on a wedding?
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:16 am
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:16 am
This past weekend I attended a family member's wedding and I must say it was real nice. The reception had a live band, open bar and the food was pretty good. Probably around 100 people attended, it was pretty packed. I understand it is a big day for the bride and groom and they want good memories of their wedding day, but why waste so much money on one day and five years or less down the road the marriage may end up in a divorce?
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:17 am to GreyWhiskers
How else can you show up your friends on your parent's dime?
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:17 am to GreyWhiskers
Why worry about what other people are doing with their lives? Enjoy the free booze and food and pass a great time.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:17 am to GreyWhiskers
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it is a big day for the bride and groom and they want good memories of their wedding day
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why waste so much money on one day and five years or less down the road the marriage may end up in a divorce
That's a pretty pessimistic way to go into marriage
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:18 am to GreyWhiskers
Why spend money on anything at all other than food and shelter?
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:18 am to GreyWhiskers
Would much rather go to courthouse and have a party/reception afterwards
Too much made about a 15-30 min deal. Poor money management.
Too much made about a 15-30 min deal. Poor money management.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:18 am to GreyWhiskers
Why do you care how much money people spend
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:18 am to GreyWhiskers
Girls are stuck on a Cinderella mindset
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:18 am to GreyWhiskers
How much do you think they spent? You didn't even say what you thought was an expensive amount...
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:19 am to GreyWhiskers
Agreed.
Biggest waste of $$$ in your lifetime IMO.
Biggest waste of $$$ in your lifetime IMO.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:19 am to GreyWhiskers
completely agree. never let your wife have anything nice, especially early on. that way she wont ever expect anything from you.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:20 am to Steadyhands
Probably around 10k on the reception alone.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:20 am to SportsGuyNOLA
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Biggest waste of $$$ in your lifetime IMO.
Money is not nearly as important as time. And it is a waste of time to worry about what other people are doing with their money.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:20 am to GreyWhiskers
It should be a once in a lifetime event. Celebrate with all your family and friends. Enjoy.
Look at it long term. Mine now comes to less than $300 a year.
Look at it long term. Mine now comes to less than $300 a year.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:21 am to GreyWhiskers
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big day for the bride and groom
From my experience the grooms don't give two shits about the wedding day. It's all about the bride feeling like a fairy-tale princess
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:22 am to GreyWhiskers
Narcissism, mainly, and typically on the bride’s part.
A lot of the psychology involved is the bride wanting to feel like a princess and have a day all about her.
The groom could typically care less as long as he gets laid.
A lot of the psychology involved is the bride wanting to feel like a princess and have a day all about her.
The groom could typically care less as long as he gets laid.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:22 am to PrivatePublic
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Why spend money on anything at all other than food and shelter?
what about hookers and blow?
This post was edited on 12/5/18 at 9:35 am
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:23 am to GreyWhiskers
I'm more of a Goldie Hawn/Kurt Russell type, but to each his or her own.
The only important thing is that the two people in the relationship agree on it all.
The only important thing is that the two people in the relationship agree on it all.
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:23 am to GreyWhiskers
My ex and I had an agreement with her father that we would do justice of the peace and pocket the wedding money
Posted on 12/5/18 at 9:24 am to Bullfrog
quote:Your friends and family don't live forever either. It's worth the celebration if done right.
It should be a once in a lifetime event. Celebrate with all your family and friends
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