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Ive never played golf before and was invited to play a round with avid golfers

Posted on 8/16/18 at 11:35 pm
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18605 posts
Posted on 8/16/18 at 11:35 pm
I feel like I should politely decline. I know some people would think I'm insulting them for it, but I also feel I'd be throwing away $100 to walk around with them and make myself look a fool by not being able to hit a golf ball. I would drag the group down.

Someone's taking me to a driving range tomorrow. Any chance I can be in any shape for it to not be a disaster Saturday if I do go? Anyone got good beginner videos or anything?
Posted by UAH_Tiger2
Pacific Northwest
Member since Mar 2016
391 posts
Posted on 8/16/18 at 11:59 pm to
Glad you are declining because you would be miserable and the other golfers on the course would be miserable as well. If you want to pursue golf head to the range for a few months and then head to a par 3 course and try that. If you like it then head out and start playing after work and work your way up to the weekend. That's my advice.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
15971 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 5:14 am to
It is a game that requires mastery of several different skills.

I doubt there are many people who could break 100 their first time out.

IF you go, play quickly. No one cares what you shoot.

Show up and keep up.
Pickup after 7 shots.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
19853 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 5:58 am to
Don’t go politely decline
Posted by The Johnny Lawrence
Member since Sep 2016
2162 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 6:21 am to
You won't be good in a day.

Go anyway.

If I'm out to grind and try and post a good score, I dont invite people who aren't good at golf, much less never play golf. But if someone invited you, knowing you've never played, their expectations aren't very high. Don't be scared to pick up on holes, drop by one of your buddies, or just putt on holes.

Just make sure you drink your fair share of the beer.
Posted by KillTheGophers
Member since Jan 2016
6223 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 6:33 am to
Go - have fun

Throw a little money around just for the helluva it

Buy the group some beer

You don’t have to play every hole

Pick up after 7

Let the guy know you have never played but you want to go and enjoy the beautiful day outside with friends

Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
58190 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 7:10 am to
quote:

I feel like I should politely decline. I know some people would think I'm insulting them for it, but I also feel I'd be throwing away $100 to walk around with them and make myself look a fool by not being able to hit a golf ball. I would drag the group down.


This!
Posted by tiderider
Member since Nov 2012
7703 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 7:48 am to
i would defriend them ... they are stupid to a degree that is unbearable for anyone ... and they are self centered ... you don't ask someone to play a round of golf if that person is not a golfer ... ride in the cart and hand out for a cart fee, that's fine ...
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 9:01 am to
You should go and have fun. Just drop your ball with your cart buddy like you’re playing best ball so you don’t hold anyone up. Invent little games like if you hit a better shot than him or drain a putt that he doesn’t he has to shot gun a beer, etc.

I did the same thing a few years ago, enjoyed it, and started hitting the range and playing regularly. Now I’m addicted and play 3 times a week.
This post was edited on 8/17/18 at 9:34 am
Posted by lsu13lsu
Member since Jan 2008
11488 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 9:02 am to
quote:

I feel like I should politely decline. I know some people would think I'm insulting them for it, but I also feel I'd be throwing away $100 to walk around with them and make myself look a fool by not being able to hit a golf ball. I would drag the group down.

Someone's taking me to a driving range tomorrow. Any chance I can be in any shape for it to not be a disaster Saturday if I do go? Anyone got good beginner videos or anything?


Go and enjoy yourself. Buy a bunch of used balls. When you hit a bad shot don't even go look for it, just take a drop next to your partner and keep moving. When you get to 8 just pick up your ball and put it in your pocket and at that point pull the flagstick and hold it for the rest of the group. Don't waste a lot of time.

Avid golfers typically like teaching new people the game and growing it. Just watch and learn the game.

$100 to be outside with friends is a good day no matter how I shoot.
This post was edited on 8/17/18 at 9:04 am
Posted by 81Tiger
LSU Alumnus
Member since Sep 2009
6629 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 9:19 am to
It shouldn't be a problem.

You will fit right in.





Posted by hiltacular
NYC
Member since Jan 2011
19688 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 9:24 am to
I definitely wouldn't want to drop $100 at a nice course if I literally can't hit the ball.

If it is a scramble for fun, there is nothing wrong with playing IMO. No one can expect someone who doesn't play golf not to be terrible
This post was edited on 8/17/18 at 9:26 am
Posted by SaturdayTraditions
Down Seven Bridges Rd
Member since Sep 2015
3284 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 9:46 am to
Tell them that you don't know how... so hey are fully aware of the situation. Then if possible just ride along, drink beer, and maybe take a few hacks every once in a while. Don't try to play every shot. Bring a putter only and just putt once they are on the green.
Posted by JGTiger
Member since Aug 2007
2941 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 10:06 am to
Pick the best golfer and say you are going to scramble with him.
This is exactly how I got into the game. Friend was getting married and wanted the groomsmen to play in the morning of the wedding. I went to range a few days before, then when we played, I would just pick up and hit from the best shot of the group. Had a ton of fun and was addicted from then on, been 10 years.
Posted by Warfarer
Dothan, AL
Member since May 2010
12132 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 11:08 am to
quote:

Ive never played golf before and was invited to play a round with avid golfers



are they friends or work related?

If they are friends, invite one of them to go to the range with you and decline playing a round. They will respect you more after they see you on the range. Feel free to go hang out with them on the course or clubhouse if they just want some time to hang out.

If it is work related, not sure what the correct answer is. Suck it up and go, be as cordial as possible and pick up if a hole gets rough and you seem to be slowing things down too much.
Posted by TigerCruise
Virginia Beach, VA
Member since Oct 2013
11898 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 11:13 am to
Also it's possible these dudes are also terrible at golf.

I've known guys who brag about playing 4 times a week and then when we played it was embarrassing how fricking terrible they were.
Posted by namvet6566
Member since Oct 2012
6768 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 12:40 pm to


pickup when you score 8 on a hole
Posted by RB10
Member since Nov 2010
43927 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 2:23 pm to
Is this for a bachelor party or pre-wedding thing? If so, just ride along with your buddy and get hammered.

ETA: If you show up without clubs most courses will let you ride along with the group as long as they don't see you hitting any shots.

ETAA: Or as others have said, if you're willing to drop $100 and have a good time go for it. The group should be aware that you are there just to hang out and make a fool of yourself.
This post was edited on 8/17/18 at 2:30 pm
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 8/17/18 at 11:36 pm to
If it’s a scramble format be sure to fudge your score by 10-15 strokes.
Posted by HubbaBubba
F_uck Joe Biden, TX
Member since Oct 2010
45850 posts
Posted on 8/18/18 at 3:18 pm to
Go play under these conditions:

1. Drinking is involved and the course has hot beer cart girls.

2. Bring money. Tell the guy you play with that you'll go, but you have to play two-man best ball against the other two, but they have to give you a shot a hole on the four hardest holes on each nine. This way, you play your shot where your friend plays from, unless you get a great shot (blind hog, acorn, you know the rest).

Your buddy can get a read on the greens from you and you might drop one or two to win or halve the hole.

I think you'd have a lot of fun and not feel out of place.

Be prepared to lose... graciously, and buy at least one round on the course and one round in the clubhouse.
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