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re: Dad's letting daughters date.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:16 am to djangochained
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:16 am to djangochained
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No 13 year old, with the attention span of a goldfish, is actually watching a movie, when a 3 minute youtube is a "long show", dummy
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:18 am to Breesus
Yeah, sorry OP, there's no keeping the genie in the bottle. Just have to let nature take it's course. The more resistance you apply now, the worse the decisions she makes later.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:24 am to Bullseye
quote:Rut Roh. Mark this day down as the starting point of about 10 years of chaos and misery for you. The good days are officially OVER!
OK baws......my daughter (13) asked to go to the movies with a boy (14) earlier today. I said NO!
So now she's not talking to me and my wife says I am being harsh. WTF?
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:24 am to Breesus
I dont see how it’s overbearing to have them chaperoned. They can sit a few rows away, but within sight.
There’s no reason for kids that young to be alone. That’s not unreasonable. Some parents wouldn’t allow dating at all.
There’s no reason for kids that young to be alone. That’s not unreasonable. Some parents wouldn’t allow dating at all.
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 8:25 am
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:33 am to LordSaintly
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dont see how it’s overbearing to have them chaperoned. There’s no reason for kids that young to be alone.
Yeah she's going to be an absolute staple for frat bro toss around.
Good luck with that. Hope she uses protection.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:45 am to tiggerthetooth
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I think its wrong to assume all teenagers are sneaky manipulative just because of age alone.
This is kind of like saying “I think it’s wrong to assume all strippers are whores” you assume based on the observed behavior.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:50 am to djangochained
My baw. Me too. That shite used to pop off on a Friday.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 8:51 am to tiggerthetooth
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think its wrong to assume all teenagers are sneaky manipulative
Posted on 12/3/17 at 9:07 am to FreddieMac
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Not like he is going to try and hump her in the theater.
I'm in my 30s and pretty much harass my wife in every theatre and dressing room we go to.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 9:13 am to Floating Change Up
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quote: Scruffy thinks you are being harsh. Scruffy believes that practice makes perfect, and she needs to have that fiya before her body goes to shite.
quote: TSLG Did scruffy just out his alter?
Posted on 12/3/17 at 9:40 am to X123F45
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I'm in my 30s and pretty much harass my wife in every theatre and dressing room we go to.
Not likely with her mother sitting one row behind you in the theater and if you where 14. Newsflash, your daughter will have sex no matter what you do. Been my experience the more intractable you become as the parent, the worse it will be when she acts out.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:08 am to Bullseye
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OK baws......my daughter (13) asked to go to the movies with a boy (14) earlier today. I said NO!
She is going to whore it up if you keep being over bearing.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:15 am to tiggerthetooth
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If his daughter does not respect him already then she will do that.
If he doesn't treat his daughter like a human that has agency then she will not respect him. These things are tied together. That's the point. Not letting your children do things within reason will drive them to having other issues.
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 10:16 am
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:41 am to FreddieMac
quote:Shhhhiiiiiddd... theater head and bathroom pussy is some of the best around. The adrenaline makes it great.
Not like he is going to try and hump her in the theater.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:46 am to Peazey
I don't have kids but back in the day the girls that were putting out at the movie theatre at that age had divorced parents
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:48 am to cssamerican
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13 is too young to date.
He's right. When I was 14, I took a 13 year old on her first date.
I ended up marrying her when we were old enough.
It's easy to get way too attached at that age. You don't have the wisdom to combat the feelings you start getting.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 10:52 am to Bullseye
Why do y'all restrain your kids from early responsibility especially at a time when the consequences matter the least? My wife and I are both the most responsible adults I know and we both got a really early start on life in general. We both started working at a really really young age, we both started dating at a really young age, driving, partying, Etc. This teaches you responsibility early so you don't make those mistakes later on in your twenties when you should be trying to get your life in order. Your teenage years are there for you to be an early adult and feel out the world and find your place and develop your personality and you can't do that without Life Experiences. There's been a trend since probably about the thirties or forties in this country to keep pushing adulthood back. Now we're in a place today where you have 35 year olds living with their parents still and in college with no kids. That's a lot of wasted years in the prime of you life
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 11:05 am
Posted on 12/3/17 at 11:01 am to Bullseye
At that age, I wouldn't consider anything besides group activities.
Posted on 12/3/17 at 11:02 am to Bullseye
The wildest girls I knew in college were the ones who had super overbearing parents. They can't be trustworthy unless you give them the opportunity.
Tell her she can go if an adult also goes (and let them sit in another part of the theater). Or at the very least tell her she can go only after you've met the boy. But she should be allowed to go.
Tell her she can go if an adult also goes (and let them sit in another part of the theater). Or at the very least tell her she can go only after you've met the boy. But she should be allowed to go.
This post was edited on 12/3/17 at 11:04 am
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