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How much of your non essentials spending is influenced by the Joneses?

Posted on 6/18/25 at 8:40 am
Posted by Artificial Ignorance
Member since Feb 2025
1424 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 8:40 am
A. None
B. Some
C. A lot

JONESES INFLUENCE:
Your friend buys a boat.
Your neighbor takes a nice trip.
Your relative lives in that big, nice house.
Your drinking buddy steps up their bourbon of choice.

NO JONESES
You may or may not be able to afford all the above JONESES, yet you do what you do.

For example:
Income - savings/investments = expenses
(You put your financial health as high priority)

You take non essential purchase decisions by this or similar way of thinking.
Posted by I Love Bama
Alabama
Member since Nov 2007
38420 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 8:51 am to
0%

My life does not resemble any of my friends or family in any form or fashion. But looking from the outside in, I would say at least 50% of my friends are influenced by those around them and 25% of my family.
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
21214 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 8:51 am to
A.

My household nonessential spending comes from wife having the amazon app on her phone and too much free time.
Posted by beaverfever
Arkansas
Member since Jan 2008
35298 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 8:52 am to
This is the money board. The overwhelming majority here don’t give a shite about that if I had to guess.
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
2886 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:00 am to
A. None
Although, it's actually just close to and approaching zero. I like to think none but realize we are all to some degree susceptible to social and commercial influences.

My math is more like
Income - investments - expenses - discretionary spending (frugal/reasonable)= additional investing

When my checking balance exceeds approx an additional month or so of expenses I invest it.
At this point, we need to work on spending more but only things that would really move the needle enjoyment wise at this point are large expenditures like home improvements and finding it hard to get motivated to research, find contractor and disrupt our routine.
This post was edited on 6/18/25 at 9:04 am
Posted by Fat Bastard
2024 NFL pick'em champion
Member since Mar 2009
87270 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:02 am to
ZERO

always been that way
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
24964 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:11 am to
None. We can afford whatever we want but choose to be disciplined for longer term goals. At the same time, we don’t worry about money if we spend more in a month because we need something.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
57604 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:13 am to
quote:

A. None


We live within our means and weigh purchases of big things (boats, trips, new home, etc) on how much actual utility we would get from it versus how much it costs (including maintaining, insurance, etc. like with a pool or RV).

Whether our neighbors, friends, etc. have or are doing something is irrelevant to us (beyond being happy for them if they can afford it or shaking our heads if they can't).
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
26990 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:22 am to
0% mine

One of my good fiends spent the last 20 years showing out, buying boats, Range Rovers, sending their kids to private school.

He had an unexpected job interruption and within 3 months the whole house of cards fell to pieces.

They are now divorced and he lives in a trailer.
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
10678 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:36 am to
I don't care what other people do. I avoid depreciating assets. Its that simple.
Posted by DrrTiger
Gulf of America
Member since Nov 2023
2249 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:47 am to
Zero.

I drive a nearly 15 year old vehicle that most people would have replaced long ago. And I’ll drive it another few years if it holds up.

Don’t get me wrong. I do splurge on some things I enjoy, but how it looks to other people never crosses my mind.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
39992 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 9:49 am to
What a dumb thread lol
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
147697 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 10:37 am to
quote:

My life does not resemble any of my friends or family in any form or fashion.
im sure you are in their thoughts and prayers during pride month, even though they don’t celebrate it
Posted by barry
Location, Location, Location
Member since Aug 2006
51267 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 10:53 am to
A. None because i am the Jones

Not really, there is a little truth in that, but there are just some areas that i like to spend money in and when i do buy nice things i tend to by a REALLY nice version, but i also love to look for a deal when i do buy something. The Home is the easiest thing you overcook to put yourself in a bad spot and luckily we live in a relatively low cost of living place and got in early.

Disclaimer: My wife keeps our spending in check as she is thrifty, i would be significantly poorer without her
Posted by BillyGibbons
St. Somewhere
Member since Mar 2020
778 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 11:13 am to
A. Sometimes I feel like maybe there's something wrong with me because I don't want to spend $ on cars, toys, gadgets but the Joneses of the world can't get enough of em... I just get 0 satisfaction, enjoyment, dopamine, or whatever you want to call it from things.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72512 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 11:16 am to
0%

IDGAF what my peer circle or relatives spend on stuff, rather that their happy.

Somebody will ALWAYS have more or newer stuff or experiences, bad rabbit hole to be concerned with.
Posted by The Scofflaw
Metairie, LA
Member since Sep 2014
1889 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 11:27 am to
None. We make great money, but live below our means. The only splurging I do is for the kids.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
12733 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 11:28 am to
I guess B, if you consider 0% of my money is spent that way, but 90% of the child support I send is being spent with the Joneses in mind. And sometimes the Joneses just live in people's heads, not on the same block.
Posted by Artificial Ignorance
Member since Feb 2025
1424 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 11:32 am to
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What a dumb thread lol


The first Joneses lemming has arrived.

Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
39992 posts
Posted on 6/18/25 at 11:53 am to
Your thread is dumb because everyone is going to respond the exact same way.


Who is going to respond and say they buy shite to impress their neighbors?
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