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Divorce Attorney Advice
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:25 am
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:25 am
I know I don’t post much but I’m here for advice. After 20 years I never thought I’d be asking this question. About to go through a divorce that I do not want. I’ve tried everything to avoid it but it’s coming. I’ve never had to deal with any of this before and I’m totally lost. I am trying not to get messy and want it to go as smooth as possible. My question is does it go better with both parties using the same lawyer or should I get my own? I pretty much k ow that answer but just looking for suggestions. Also, any recommendations on a good one in the Baton Rouge area. Have two young kids involved but we have agreed on a custody schedule.
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Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:27 am to Beaued up
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My question is does it go better with both parties using the same lawyer or should I get my own
Don’t do that. Your going to get fricked either way but maybe less so if you go get our own lawyer ASAP
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:27 am to Beaued up
Judicial Separation Board
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:27 am to Beaued up
What do you think caused it? Do you share any blame?
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:27 am to Beaued up
Pics of her, sir.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:28 am to Beaued up
Who cheated on who baw.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:29 am to Beaued up
Read/Listen to “If you’re in my office it’s already too late”, quit posting here, and breathe.
But seriously don’t post anything here. Or social media.
But seriously don’t post anything here. Or social media.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:29 am to soccerfüt
Don’t use the same Lawyer. My brother was in your shoes and got fricked by the female Lawyer and his wife. He’s still paying for it 10 years later. Get a Bulldog and don’t give an inch.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:29 am to Beaued up
Love these threads as sad as they are.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:30 am to Beaued up
Get your own attorney. She will go back on everything she has agreed on up to now - bank on it. This will get ugly. Be ready for this.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:30 am to Beaued up
Using the same attorney can be done but legally the attorney has to have one client. The ONLY way this works is if you trust your spouse 100% with zero wiggle room. Most attorneys won’t take this on regardless. Good luck, man.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:31 am to Beaued up
Your situation sounds like a giant mess. Under no circumstances should you and you ex have the same attorney.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:32 am to Beaued up
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About to go through a divorce that I do not want.
Things are already messy then.
Get you a good legal representative and dont get screwed anymore.
This post was edited on 6/4/25 at 9:32 am
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:33 am to Beaued up
Get a good attorney.
Don't think of it as a cost. It's an investment. You'll save money in the long run with a good attorney who fights for you instead of rolling over.
Don't think of it as a cost. It's an investment. You'll save money in the long run with a good attorney who fights for you instead of rolling over.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:34 am to SneezyBeltranIsHere
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Get your own attorney. She will go back on everything she has agreed on up to now
This.
Once she starts meeting with her attorney and he/she tells them all they can get she'll go back on everything you've agreed to in regards to custody and the money, IMO.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:34 am to Beaued up
So divorce attorneys don’t make $ when things settle quickly. They want the clients to think they are fighting for them. And make more $$$$.
It will easily run 5 figures.
It will easily run 5 figures.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:34 am to Beaued up
quote:these are always fun
Divorce Attorney Advice
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:35 am to thegambler
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Don't think of it as a cost. It's an investment.
lol. It’s a cost. You’re just giving money away, but that’s divorce in a nutshell.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:36 am to Rex Feral
quote:dude offered basically no details and you come up with this opinion. jump to conclusions much clown?
Your situation sounds like a giant mess.
Posted on 6/4/25 at 9:37 am to sidewalkside
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dude offered basically no details and you come up with this opinion. jump to conclusions much clown?
Well, he said that there are kids involved, and that he doesn’t want the divorce. I’d say that it doesn’t sound pleasant.
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