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Married couples renewing vows, does it just mean someone cheated?
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:56 am
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:56 am
I’m being forced to go to a vow renewal this Saturday and not too happy about it. The couple has been married for just over 3 years.
It got me thinking, what’s even the point of these things unless there’s been infidelity going on? And if there has, why would you want to draw attention to it with some big arse production? Were the original vows you made on your actual wedding day not enough? Were you just kidding the first time? Do some people just do this for attention?
Will someone help me understand?
It got me thinking, what’s even the point of these things unless there’s been infidelity going on? And if there has, why would you want to draw attention to it with some big arse production? Were the original vows you made on your actual wedding day not enough? Were you just kidding the first time? Do some people just do this for attention?
Will someone help me understand?
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Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:56 am to Jeb Busch Lite
Pessimistic much?
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:57 am to Jeb Busch Lite
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The couple has been married for just over 3 years.
Jesus. I’ve heard of people doing this on 25th or 50th anniversaries but 3 years?
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:57 am to Jeb Busch Lite
3 years seems odd to me. 10 years maybe 15-20 years absolutely.
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:57 am to Jeb Busch Lite
10 years? Maybe. 15 and beyond, I think it's a sweet gesture. 3 years? 
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:57 am to Jeb Busch Lite
If it’s a couple that’s been married 30+ years I can see doing it just to “relive” the wedding experience. But if it’s within 10 years, yeah. Someone 100% cheated or got caught flirting with other people 
Almost as big of a signal as joint Facebook accounts for couples under 40
Almost as big of a signal as joint Facebook accounts for couples under 40
This post was edited on 7/12/24 at 8:58 am
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:57 am to Bamboozles
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Pessimistic much?
Yes
This post was edited on 7/12/24 at 8:58 am
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:59 am to Jeb Busch Lite
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I’m being forced to go to a vow renewal this Saturday and not too happy about it. The couple has been married for just over 3 years.
It’s pretty egotistical for a couple married just three years to expect people to show up. Pure attention seeking.
ETA. I’d rather deal with the fallout of not attending.
This post was edited on 7/12/24 at 9:00 am
Posted on 7/12/24 at 8:59 am to Ash Williams
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Jesus. I’ve heard of people doing this on 25th or 50th anniversaries but 3 years?
And it’s not even their anniversary. They got married New Year’s Eve of 2021. I had to go to that too
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:00 am to Jeb Busch Lite
Needing to renew vows seems like it’s defeating the purpose of a vow in the first place.
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:00 am to Jeb Busch Lite
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I’m being forced to go to a vow renewal this Saturday and not too happy about it. The couple has been married for just over 3 years.
What the frick? Who would possibly feel “forced” to go to something this absurd?
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:00 am to Jeb Busch Lite
You should ask them directly, in the presence of whomever is making you go. “So does this mean one of you cheated?” Lol
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:00 am to Jeb Busch Lite
My parents did it for their 40th anniversary
It was just them & me & my brother
It was just them & me & my brother
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:02 am to Jeb Busch Lite
She's needy.
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:03 am to LSUJML
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My parents did it for their 40th anniversary It was just them & me & my brother
That’s different and respectable/understandable
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:03 am to Jeb Busch Lite
there is no chance I would go to that, even for a sibling or best friend.
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:03 am to Jeb Busch Lite
3 years lol. That’s a perfect encapsulation of modern marriage and culture, lol. 3 years.
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:03 am to Jeb Busch Lite
Let me guess, the couple is in their twenties?
Posted on 7/12/24 at 9:04 am to Oilfieldbiology
My mom and stepdad renewed theirs back in May for their 30th anniversary. 3 just seems a little quick to me.
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