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re: Indiana parents warn nation after child is removed from home for improper pronoun usage

Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:19 pm to
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
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Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:19 pm to
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Seems the child was removed due to abuse/eating disorder more than the trans thing, but that would be harder to claim victimhood over.


Per your quoted article...

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“The court emphasized that it was not removing A.C. from the parents’ home due to a disagreement or ‘a child having a certain lifestyle that the parent[s] don’t agree with.’ … ‘There ha[ve] always been issues’ when ‘children do things that the parents don’t agree with,’ the court explained, and those disagreements are ‘not a reason to remove a child from a home,’” according to the state’s brief.


So why was he removed? It stops short of saying the specific reason. According to the Fox article, the family sought treatment for both disorders PRIOR to the child being removed. What did they do wrong, exactly? How in the hell can you claim these people are trying to glamorize their "victimhood"?
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
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7160 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:20 pm to
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So why was he removed? It stops short of saying the specific reason.

because they stopped taking the kid to court ordered therapy and withdrew him from school
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:23 pm to
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“The court emphasized that it was not removing A.C. from the parents’ home due to a disagreement or ‘a child having a certain lifestyle that the parent[s] don’t agree with.’ … ‘There ha[ve] always been issues’ when ‘children do things that the parents don’t agree with,’ the court explained, and those disagreements are ‘not a reason to remove a child from a home,’” according to the state’s brief.

I only read what you quoted and not the article, but it only tells us why the kid was NOT removed but it doesn't tell us why the kid was removed?

ETA: I see that was answered later in the thread
This post was edited on 2/20/24 at 3:31 pm
Posted by VADawg
Wherever
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Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:23 pm to
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Corinthians420


For someone who claims to be one of those worthless centrists, you sure as shite defend one side of the aisle a whole lot more often than the other.

Those who sit on the fence will eventually become impaled by it.
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
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7160 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:25 pm to
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For someone who claims to be one of those worthless centrists, you sure as shite defend one side of the aisle a whole lot more often than the other.

maybe theres a case here of an overzealous DCS employee and 2 biased courts, or maybe the parents aren't telling the entire story. I dont know, I'm not gonna just automatically assume the parents are saints and the courts were wrong.

It's just as likely that the parents were the cause of the kid turning crazy as anything.
This post was edited on 2/20/24 at 3:29 pm
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:28 pm to
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because they stopped taking the kid to court ordered therapy and withdrew him from school


First of all, court ordered therapy? Why is the court inserting an order on a family issue where no crime has been committed?
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
10708 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:28 pm to
I admit I thought this was Fake News when I read about it, but...my God it's true. I would not think this is possible in the USA but there it is.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114197 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:28 pm to
I can't even imagine telling my parents "refer to me as a girl and I am not joking"...
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
7950 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:31 pm to
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tells us why the kid was NOT removed but it doesn't tell us why the kid was removed?
Could both accounts be true?! Abuse and disorder were called in by the school because they made comments about killing themselves or not wanting to live. Court orders therapy. Court ordered therapy is re-affirming the identity and pushing the parent's beliefs as the main culprit. Parents remove child from school to homeschool or private school to get them away from the people who called CPS and out of an environment they see as fostering the behavior and stop going to therapy. Court removes child because kid is not in school and they stop going to therapy. So child wasn't technically removed for parents not affirming the gender, but parent's not affirming the gender is what caused the incident to begin with.

I've had people I am close too have to jump through hoops over CPS investigations that were the subject of teen angst and hyperbole. It is very possible this all started because of teenage angst and spiraled when the court ordered stuff started pushing against the parents.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111249 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:33 pm to
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First of all, court ordered therapy? Why is the court inserting an order on a family issue where no crime has been committed?

FWIW, that's pretty normal as I understand it.
Posted by NOSTRODAMUS
Prairieville/Dutchtown
Member since Dec 2003
16268 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:34 pm to
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disagreement with the child's gender identity because of their religious beliefs.


Religious beliefs? How about because once a male ALWAYS a male. The English language doesn’t change just because you wish you had a pussy. Clown fricking world!!!
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
7160 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:35 pm to
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Could both accounts be true?! Abuse and disorder were called in by the school because they made comments about killing themselves or not wanting to live. Court orders therapy. Court ordered therapy is re-affirming the identity and pushing the parent's beliefs as the main culprit. Parents remove child from school to homeschool or private school to get them away from the people who called CPS and out of an environment they see as fostering the behavior and stop going to therapy. Court removes child because kid is not in school and they stop going to therapy. So child wasn't technically removed for parents not affirming the gender, but parent's not affirming the gender is what caused the incident to begin with.

I've had people I am close too have to jump through hoops over CPS investigations that were the subject of teen angst and hyperbole. It is very possible this all started because of teenage angst and spiraled when the court ordered stuff started pushing against the parents.

yeah. its a big problem when kids learn threatening to commit suicide can get them their desired results as well.
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
10620 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:35 pm to
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maybe theres a case here of an overzealous DCS employee and 2 biased courts,


You think?

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or maybe the parents aren't telling the entire story.


Well you found the case study. Shouldn't that state what the parents are "not telling"?
Posted by Tempratt
WRMS Girls Soccer Team Kicks arse
Member since Oct 2013
13572 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:38 pm to
This is what happens when the scum of the earth have actual real power.
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
7160 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:39 pm to
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Well you found the case study. Shouldn't that state what the parents are "not telling"?

the court said the child was removed due to medical issues (anorexia) that needed to be resolved and that the home environment was contributing to them.

According to the state, at the final dispositional hearing, DCS explained that its goal was reunification but that A.C.’s medical issues needed to be resolved.
Posted by tigersmanager
Member since Jun 2010
7566 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:40 pm to
Democrats ladies and gentlemen
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
50534 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:41 pm to
OT Moderates and Progressives approve, especially since the family admits to being Catholic.

The OT Moderates and Progressives would support a Muslim family's objections to this, however. Please do not ask to explain the difference. You are too stupid to get it.
Posted by AwesomeSauce
Das Boot
Member since May 2015
7950 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:43 pm to
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its a big problem when kids learn threatening to commit suicide can get them their desired results as well.
This is true in all 50 states. Even in rural counties/parishes. If a threat is deemed as 'credible' which is a very low bar today then CPS will take the kid for psychological evaluation and depending on the leanings of the psych and case worker it can lead to months of therapy and an open CPS case, even if the child says "I was just venting, I want to go home." I have seen it when a child of some good friends of mine got upset over something and threatened this in a message and snap story to get attention from friends and throw a 'woe is me' pity party. Friends showed to parent, parent called CPS, kid was picked up at school the next day, and parents found out after the child was already in state care. This was probably a year ago in a rural/red county and it took weeks for them to get their child back and they still get pop-in visits from CPS.
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
7160 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:43 pm to
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OT Moderates and Progressives approve, especially since the family admits to being Catholic.


everyone should disagree with a child being removed from a home over pronouns. the question is whether or not a child should be removed from a home over medical issues? I think as long as the parents are trying to solve the medical issues the child should remain home. if they stop trying to solve the medical issues, that is neglect.
Posted by Corinthians420
Iowa
Member since Jun 2022
7160 posts
Posted on 2/20/24 at 3:45 pm to
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This is true in all 50 states. Even in rural counties/parishes. If a threat is deemed as 'credible' which is a very low bar today then CPS will take the kid for psychological evaluation and depending on the leanings of the psych and case worker it can lead to months of therapy and an open CPS case, even if the child says "I was just venting, I want to go home." I have seen it when a child of some good friends of mine got upset over something and threatened this in a message and snap story to get attention from friends and throw a 'woe is me' pity party. Friends showed to parent, parent called CPS, kid was picked up at school the next day, and parents found out after the child was already in state care. This was probably a year ago in a rural/red county and it took weeks for them to get their child back and they still get pop-in visits from CPS.

it's definitely a slippery slope situation.

I was raised in a home where an arse whooping wasn't considered abuse. CPS is also a job full of Karens. I would trust the courts over CPS
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