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re: I never really grasp term gaslighting (NSFW)
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:28 pm to Honest Tune
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:28 pm to Honest Tune
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I feel like you’ve met my ex-gf.
It’s a particular insidious accusation within relationships, especially when it’s hurled at someone who is defending themselves. e.g.:
“You do/don’t do this thing I hate/want you to do”
“No I don’t/yes I do”
“Stop trying to gaslight me!”
Unless, you know, the person is actually trying to gaslight them
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:35 pm to Joshjrn
It’s like being on the back of a pissed off bucking bull. Seriously, I’ll never go through that hell again.
That description he gave that I quoted was dead nuts accurate.
That description he gave that I quoted was dead nuts accurate.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:37 pm to thelawnwranglers
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I never really grasp term gaslighting (NSFW) by thelawnwranglersIt is used a lot I don't get it
I have explained this to you before and you clearly understood.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:40 pm to thelawnwranglers
That reminds me of an old episode of Wagon Train. Whores only get you so far.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:43 pm to GoldenGuy
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I have explained this to you before and you clearly understood.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:45 pm to gizmothepug
You don't have grasp it, I think you're smart. It's probably just all in your head.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:52 pm to cattus
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Yes, it's a tactic that was highlighted in a 40s movie that the Left/Progs and allies of the New World Order are using today to question your sanity.
I know someone that forces you into believing what he says now is what he said earlier even though that wasn’t what he said exactly. And you can’t argue with him as he always believes he has the upper hand.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 9:55 pm to DVinBR
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we have rules around here
I won’t say anything negative about her. She’s still a great mother and I hope she will always be.
I think she is a good person and while I don’t agree with her decisions and how she handled “us,” that is her choice and life to do as she pleases.
My main focus is my children. She exited and never looked back. Not even a real discussion. But I’m not surprised either. My counselor called this from the very beginning.
This post was edited on 8/13/23 at 10:00 pm
Posted on 8/13/23 at 10:17 pm to GoldenGuy
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have explained this to you before and you clearly understood.
The tranny on 90 day said boyfriend who was unsure about telling producers he sucked a tranny dick was gaslighting her. I didn't get it.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 10:19 pm to Will Cover
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My counselor called this from the very beginning.
Sounds like you got gaslighted.
J/k. Sorry about everything you went thru but it sounds like you have your priorities in check.
FWIW, with a moderately stable woman the term may be helpful if used by saying something like: “I don’t think you’re intentionally trying to gaslight me, but when you say/do “X” it makes me feel that way because it’s not supported by our actual experiences.”
Posted on 8/13/23 at 10:22 pm to thelawnwranglers
It's an overused term used by women when they are wrong about something. If anything, women gaslight the most.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 10:24 pm to thelawnwranglers
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It is used a lot I don't get it
The term originated from an old play where a husband convinced his wife that she was crazy by continuing to change the intensity of their gas lamps when she wasn't looking.
Posted on 8/13/23 at 10:39 pm to thelawnwranglers
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essage
I never really grasp term gaslighting
Lying
Posted on 8/13/23 at 10:58 pm to thelawnwranglers
I aspire to one day gaslight people any time they come over in the evening, but alas I’m still all electric for now
Posted on 8/14/23 at 3:07 am to Will Cover
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The even funnier or ironic thing is … knowing what the word means was/is exactly what she does to me.
I believe your wife. Look at your sig picture. That is gaslighting to the extreme.
This post was edited on 8/14/23 at 3:08 am
Posted on 8/14/23 at 3:40 am to Cosmo
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You cant be partially gay
Posted on 8/14/23 at 5:03 am to Joshjrn
quote:YUP
It gets horribly overused at this point
Not sure who used the term in the mainstream but now its thrown out there improperly in just about every political argument.
Posted on 8/14/23 at 5:30 am to thelawnwranglers
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Shakira gif for your trouble
You would need a 24” -30” peewee to take full advantage.
The problem with that is when you are taking a shite, you would be dangling in the bowl.
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