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re: Beef with girlfriend. Curious to hear from both genders about who's right/wrong.

Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:33 pm to
Posted by jrodLSUke
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Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:33 pm to
I can see why so many of those dudes are divorced.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
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Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:33 pm to
Your friend can hire movers by the hour to come box up and load a truck.

Posted by Ernest T Bass
Member since Jul 2023
87 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:33 pm to
quote:

I have a hard time believe no movers are available on a months notice. I call absolute bull shite on that.


More like a couple of weeks.

I think he was so happy to get a full price cash offer that he caved and gave them whatever they wanted.
Then when he started calling movers was like "Oh, sheet".
If he can't find a mover then he can renegotiate occupancy date.
That's between him and the buyer, not my problem.
My knee jerk reaction was to help him move, that it's just a stupid party, and that she is just being a bitch about it.
She texted me a little bit ago saying that the reason she was upset is because there are going to be friends/family that I haven't met that she wanted to introduce me to.
So now I kind of get why it is a big deal to her.
My friend should have stipulated occupancy date dependent on his ability to find a mover, instead of caving and agreeing to whatever they wanted.
Not my problem, I'll help as much as I can and then go to party.
Posted by LootieandtheBlowfish
Houston/BR
Member since Aug 2021
573 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:34 pm to
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buyers get occupancy 7 days after closing.


Wow. Sounds stressful….

Every property I’ve sold the buyer takes occupancy the second they sign…
This post was edited on 7/30/23 at 6:55 am
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
Reseda
Member since Feb 2007
18970 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:35 pm to
Ditch her
Work out
Eat right
Sleep well
You’ll do better

It ant be said enough
Posted by 0x15E
Outer Space
Member since Sep 2020
12894 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:41 pm to
quote:

I was supposed to attend her sisters birthday party in a few weeks.


Girl code: If you choose a friend over her family. You are always in the wrong.

Keep your chin up young blood. You’ll make plenty of mistakes along the way. Apologize and tell the friend to hire a moving service, or another friend.
Posted by Eli Goldfinger
Member since Sep 2016
32785 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:50 pm to
quote:

I told her that he has helped me move before, and I'm going to help him , period.


That should be the end of it.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
67051 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:53 pm to
I wouldn’t take any advice of any kind from anyone who says there is more than 2 genders. Those people are not to be taken seriously.
Posted by lsusa
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Member since Oct 2005
4748 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 6:55 pm to
There is lots of poor advice in this thread.

#1 OP made a commitment to his gf to attend a scheduled event.

#2 The “lifelong friend” created his own situation by hastily agreeing to a short time period to move - that does not constitute an emergency.

#3 How good a friend is the guy if he knows that going back on his word
To attend the party will cause the OP grief, and doesn’t just say “don’t worry about it, I understand”.

I’ll also point out that the friend has seven days to move. What’s the timeframe on the party? Is it a day long / evening long affair? So get the ball rolling on the move now. Take a day off work during the week.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
55236 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:00 pm to
quote:

A lifelong friend just accepted an offer on his house that stipulates that the buyers get occupancy 7 days after closing.


This means that my friend has to move out the same weekend as her sisters party.


Pics of her sister?

Tell you friend to hire a mover with the cash from closing, once you are out of college you do adult things.

If worse comes to worse, bang your girlfriend's sister and let your girlfriend bang your friend as payment for you not helping move.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
4539 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:01 pm to
quote:

Ok, now I want this story



There really is no story. I knew from the first time I saw my wife that I was going marry her, don't know why but I just knew.

Anyways we start dating in high school then breakup for a bit and get back together. By this time we were both involved in the Greek system. I'm doing exactly what every other frat guy is doing during sority pledge week. When I get a text from my wife who is in charge of helping setup for pledges. Somehow she forgot to grab bread and the girls were about to start showing up so she asked me to run and grab chi o some bread and I respectfully declined. She got mad and yelled at me and I was drinking so I broke up with her and told her I wasn't getting the bread and I did not.

Posted by Ernest T Bass
Member since Jul 2023
87 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:03 pm to
quote:

There is lots of poor advice in this thread.

#1 OP made a commitment to his gf to attend a scheduled event.

#2 The “lifelong friend” created his own situation by hastily agreeing to a short time period to move - that does not constitute an emergency.

#3 How good a friend is the guy if he knows that going back on his word
To attend the party will cause the OP grief, and doesn’t just say “don’t worry about it, I understand”.

I’ll also point out that the friend has seven days to move. What’s the timeframe on the party? Is it a day long / evening long affair? So get the ball rolling on the move now. Take a day off work during the week.


After giving it some thought this is exactly where I am.

Damn, where were you 150 posts ago ?
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
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Member since Oct 2010
105547 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:04 pm to
Exactly right
Posted by ptra
Member since Nov 2006
1430 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:05 pm to
Girlfriend…dump her and find a new one. She will continue to get pissed at you about shite for the rest of your life.
Posted by Bernie Bierman
Member since Mar 2019
1235 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:05 pm to
quote:

I was going to show her results of this thread

That’s a tremendous idea.
Posted by Ernest T Bass
Member since Jul 2023
87 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:07 pm to
quote:

I was going to show her results of this thread

That’s a tremendous idea.




Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34551 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:10 pm to
I thought man code was bros before hoes.
Posted by Baldy
Member since May 2020
367 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:10 pm to
Birthday girl won't. But girlfriend will 'til the day she dies.
quote:

She won't even remember that you weren't there
Posted by ugasickem
Allatoona
Member since Nov 2010
10814 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:13 pm to
Depends on how much you value the puss with your girlfriend. If you value that enough then read next sentence. Your friend needs to hire a moving company if it’s going to cost you a relationship.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164615 posts
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:33 pm to
Unless you’re in college not hiring movers is extremely trashy
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