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re: Living With Your SO Before Marriage. Smart or Sin?
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:11 am to PropofolPapi
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:11 am to PropofolPapi
Smart. Who cares if it is a sin, we all sin. This one isn't any worse than any number of sins we commit on the daily.
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Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:11 am to fallguy_1978
We bought a house together years before we got married.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:12 am to PropofolPapi
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Living With Your SO Before Marriage
You're only a "sinner" if you make the secks. You had best figure out if you can cohabitate with the person and all of their personal shite they're hiding under the rug while they're in dating mode before she's locked in. For example, my first wife never farted or passed gas in front of me one time while we were dating, after we were married, that gassy bitch was blowing the doors off. Find out if you're future wife is a lazy slob when it comes to house work, or if she nags the frick out of you for petty shite before you put the ring on it.
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 10:13 am
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:12 am to Winstonscrabfingers
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This is 2022, not 1922.
And what are the divorce rates in 2022 compared to 1922.
We’re in a failing, decaying culture, and y’all’s advice is “Yeah, double down on that”.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:12 am to GEAUXT
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Crucial.
It is idiotic not to imo
Same goes for sex
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:13 am to BluegrassBelle
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Crucial. I’ve found out through living with exes that it wasn’t going to work out.
Agreed. I lived with a girl who was as dirty as any guy I know. You also get to see the crazy they may have been able to hide.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:14 am to PropofolPapi
There is no hell, so you’re good.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:14 am to PropofolPapi
Do it but only for a couple of months.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:14 am to PropofolPapi
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I get told by other people my age and people as old as my grandparents that it is a terrible sin to live under the same roof with my lady before making the commitment of marriage before God.
Do people really still take religion this seriously?
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:15 am to LSUBogeyMan
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You also get to see the crazy they may have been able to hide.
Every bitch is crazy, but you have to find how far they're pushed before they snap, and the level of crazy when they actually break.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:15 am to PropofolPapi
I would recommend it, but there are other ways to gauge your compatibility with a future spouse without living together. My wife and I didn't and we've been married 11 years. Seeing how each of us lived was enough reassurance to know we would be compatible living together.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:15 am to Grateful Reb
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Do people really still take religion this seriously?
Judging by this thread... seems like some people do.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:16 am to PropofolPapi
Crazy is easy to hide for a couple days at a time, which is usually the longest people who don't live together will be in the same company. Living in together is the only way to get the full perspective of who a person truly is.
You'll see how an argument is radically different when you cant "escape" to your own home base.
Add to the list of "must dos before you do":
-attend multiple family gatherings (both sides) and really focus on things they said AFTER.
-watch them interact with non family pets/children
You'll see how an argument is radically different when you cant "escape" to your own home base.
Add to the list of "must dos before you do":
-attend multiple family gatherings (both sides) and really focus on things they said AFTER.
-watch them interact with non family pets/children
This post was edited on 3/8/22 at 10:17 am
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:16 am to Grateful Reb
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Do people really still take religion this seriously?
We were all born sinners, you have to repent your sins to enter heaven.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:17 am to PropofolPapi
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my grandparents
Grandma was a reverse-cowgirl rodeo champ before she said I do.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:17 am to DesScorp
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We’re in a failing, decaying culture, and y’all’s advice is “Yeah, double down on that”.
divorce rates are at a 50 year low
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:18 am to PropofolPapi
I believe the last time this thread came up that the statistics of divorces was pretty similar between those that did live together before and those that didn't.
We chose to live together before. 9 years later it still worked out for us.
We chose to live together before. 9 years later it still worked out for us.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:18 am to PropofolPapi
You should date, have 3 kids, move in together and wait a year to see if you are serious.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:19 am to Cajun367
I didn't live with my wife before marriage but I fully accept that it certainly isn't normal. Our faith is what drove the decision.
I think if the couple truly love each other and are truly committed to marriage then anything that comes up living together post marriage can be resolved.
Yes - I understand this can be seen as naive. I accept that risk.
I think if the couple truly love each other and are truly committed to marriage then anything that comes up living together post marriage can be resolved.
Yes - I understand this can be seen as naive. I accept that risk.
Posted on 3/8/22 at 10:19 am to Wermanium
quote:Same, a little under 2 years before tying the knot. Lived together 2-1/2 years before buying too.
We bought a house together years before we got married.
Determined that buying the house before throwing a wedding was the smarter financial decision.
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