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re: Recently divorced. Need a solo trip for myself for the end of october. Where you go?

Posted on 10/19/25 at 10:22 pm to
Posted by travelgamer
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Posted on 10/19/25 at 10:22 pm to
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 8:46 am to
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To me, it's all about weather and time zones. Seattle offers a nonstop flight to Tahiti - it's only 2 time zones away (less change than Hawaii). I'd give that a shot.


Tahiti is kind of a couples destination

Which is why I posted more domestic trips that can be done solo
Posted by NOLALGD
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 9:15 am to
Traveling from Seattle and have 7 days, assuming trip will be soon so thinking location with sun and warmth, and you want to relax/reset.

Too many complicated options shared in this thread, I think your options are 3-4 hour flights (Sedona, San Diego, Cabo) or 6-7 hour flights (Hawaii or Costa Rica). Anything longer than that and your 7 days turns into 4 or 5 days.

I would suggest Hawaii, probably nice a resort on Maui.
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
5164 posts
Posted on 10/20/25 at 9:56 am to
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Sorry, let me be clear. Don’t want to have random sex or even in the mood to meet women. Been in a relationship for 25 years and just need to reset



Smart. You should reset and put yourself in neutral for a bit and it sounds like you have a good idea of this. Well done.

If you're in Seattle and you want to chill, maybe take the Alaska ferry way up the inside passage. Looks like it takes a week to sail up to Skagway and back from Bellingham. They have private cabins.

Other ideas in your area: Rent a cabin/house in Canon Bay, Sandpoint, Bozeman...
Posted by Big Scrub TX
Member since Dec 2013
38459 posts
Posted on 10/20/25 at 10:32 am to
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That's a 12 hour flight.
9.5

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Time zones aren't an issue for more than a day if you prepare.
I disagree. e.g. if you fly from Seattle to Europe, you're talking an 8 - 10 hour time change...and it definitely can have you feeling off for much longer than one day.

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It seems ludicrous to fly 12 hours
9.5 - and it's scheduled intelligently overnight.

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Time zones aren't an issue for more than a day if you prepare. It seems ludicrous to fly 12 hours to
Generic? lol I would argue it's way more exotic than many places people opt to go instead.

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when he could just fly to Costa Rica
There is only one nonstop from Seattle to Costa Rica - and it's only for part of the year. And it's 8.5 hours. If you have to connect, the trip becomes more like 13 or 14 hours - and with the added volatility of a connection. And Costa Rica is the very definition of generic beach experience.

Basically, your facts are way off.
Posted by JW
Los Angeles
Member since Jul 2004
5165 posts
Posted on 10/20/25 at 12:01 pm to
If chasing pros isn't the goal (good on you) .... then head over to Japan. Close enough with plenty of direct flights.

Not many places to clear your head and reset --- cities, beaches and mountains. And if you want a little lady trouble, it's there too.


Posted by NOLALGD
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 10/20/25 at 2:27 pm to
Not been to Japan but its on my list soon.

I've been on some whirlwind trips in my day that many on here would hate like US-Asia and back in coach over 7 days, so its doable. But on a 7 day trip where the goal is to reset, spending 15 hours travel time door to door then dealing with the time change doesn't work, plus Japan takes a lot of planning.

If OP had 2 weeks, sure Japan could be a good choice.
Posted by CenlaLowell
Alexandria, la
Member since Apr 2016
1227 posts
Posted on 10/20/25 at 2:37 pm to
Jaco beach, costa Rica or Cartagena Colombia
Posted by CaptainJ47
Gonzales
Member since Nov 2007
7712 posts
Posted on 10/20/25 at 8:31 pm to
Delta has recently had a ton of cheap seats to Asia out of SEA
Posted by jimlsu1
Ellicott City, Md
Member since Oct 2008
1584 posts
Posted on 10/21/25 at 9:12 am to
Cabo
Posted by travelgamer
Member since Aug 2024
2625 posts
Posted on 10/21/25 at 4:53 pm to
I did Bangkok, Siem Reap, and Phuket in a a week. No rest for the weary on that trip. Street chick in Bangkok was the best chicken I have ever had.

Just to be real you wouldn't get a direct flight to Japan unless you are on the west coast. Flying from the Midwest you will have a layover in TX, CA or IL most likely, travel time can take as long as 36 hours. Depends on where your airline has a hub.
Posted by sstig
Houston
Member since Oct 2003
2914 posts
Posted on 10/22/25 at 11:41 am to
If you want amazing boat tours go to Phuket.

I think that is why he is going.
Posted by lsufanintexas
Member since Sep 2006
5099 posts
Posted on 10/23/25 at 2:12 pm to
Thanks to everyone who responded.Sorry I haven't responded. My problem is that i have vacationed in many of the places you all recommend or visited because of work(and play) and while great, most of them arealot of time to plan in a short amount of time. That's on me. I have decided to just go to vegas for a few days and do a few of the higher quality day spas to relax and clear my head. Sit in the heated pool at Circa, drink, and just chill. I'll still be around people so if I want to strike up conversation I can.
Posted by bigDgator
Dallas, TX
Member since Oct 2008
48355 posts
Posted on 10/23/25 at 4:11 pm to
Have fun brother. If you feel a little more saucy you can head down to Key West for Fantasy Fest. Think Mardi Gras for 40 year olds.
Posted by travelgamer
Member since Aug 2024
2625 posts
Posted on 10/23/25 at 6:14 pm to
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If you want amazing boat tours go to Phuket.


Fun fact I learned on a Boat tour out of Phuket, The Beach (DiCaprio) didn't exist, it was cleared just for the movie. There is also James Bond Island. If you leave early and there is is mist you will think you are entering Kong Island.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13363 posts
Posted on 10/23/25 at 8:33 pm to
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Basically, your facts are way off.

Yep, you're right. I spent 10 years flying internationally, almost always in coach, and worked on five continents in a single calendar year. But I have no idea what I'm talking about. Tack that onto military and military brat experience, dragging toddlers onto 12 hour flights at 11pm in foreign countries, etc.

You can choose to be a soft arse traveler, or not. You choose soft. That's your prerogative. If you don't prepare yourself to be time zone changed in a single day, that's on you. Or you can do all kinds of dumb shite like taking a nap in the afternoon when you land in Europe, and make the transition take take 3-4 days. Sure, it's 1100AM at your destination, go ahead and sleep on the plane for five hours, that'll work out well. That's on the traveler. I made that mistake once when I was 12, and never did it again.

I bet you're a big whiner during daylight savings transitions, too.
Posted by travelgamer
Member since Aug 2024
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Posted on 10/23/25 at 8:38 pm to
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If you don't prepare yourself to be time zone changed in a single day


I found it funny that I didn't have to change my watch while in Thailand and Cambodia, it meant I was half way around from where I started.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40211 posts
Posted on 10/23/25 at 11:26 pm to
Vegas can make some sense.

If jt was summer, driving to Alaska from Seattle would be my choice. Long drives seem to clear my head.
Posted by Boss
Member since Dec 2007
1746 posts
Posted on 10/24/25 at 7:21 am to
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Just to be real you wouldn't get a direct flight to Japan unless you are on the west coast. Flying from the Midwest you will have a layover in TX, CA or IL most likely, travel time can take as long as 36 hours. Depends on where your airline has a hub.


We flew direct from ATL last summer. Long flight but it was better than connecting.
Posted by Fun Bunch
New Orleans
Member since May 2008
127928 posts
Posted on 10/24/25 at 10:59 am to
You can get direct flights to Japan from most of the hub airports. Dallas for sure, I think Chicago just added a few etc
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