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"Son if you get arrested I ain't coming to get you out". That's the talk my dad gave me.

Posted on 8/25/20 at 3:48 am
Posted by jimdog
columbus, ga
Member since Dec 2012
6636 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 3:48 am
The message was clear who's side he was on. So do the right thing. I suspect there are some hard core parents both black and white who still get real with their sons.
Posted by OneFifty
No favorite team now
Member since Aug 2012
3872 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 5:26 am to
The words of my father were a little different. Somewhere along the lines of “you better just stay in jail because it will not be safe when you get out”.
Posted by Dixie Normus
Earth
Member since Sep 2013
2639 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 5:33 am to
This. My dad told me that jail could save my life because it MIGHT give him enough time to cool down before he gets to me.
Posted by Jiggy Moondust
South Carolina
Member since Oct 2013
811 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 5:36 am to
The difference is we all had fathers that cared..Taught right and wrong..
Posted by Homesick Tiger
Greenbrier, AR
Member since Nov 2006
54212 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 5:39 am to
My dad told us three boys - if you're man enough to get in trouble by yourself, you're man enough to get out of trouble by yourself. Don't call me.

Not one of us have ever seen the inside of a jail cell. We're now 69, 68 and 61 years-old. His words resonated.
Posted by bigwheel
Lake Charles
Member since Feb 2008
6491 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 5:53 am to
Mine told me , if you knock up that girl, your on your own
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
10436 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:01 am to
Is that before or after you sat him down to ..... break the news....
That he would never have any grandchildren....
Because.....

Well....
You prefer men
Posted by navy
Parts Unknown, LA
Member since Sep 2010
29049 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:06 am to
“Son, I brought you into this world, and I can take you out of it.”

“Turn off the damn lights.”
Posted by dualed
Member since Sep 2010
4698 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:09 am to
Actually my dad always told me he was coming to get me if I ever got into trouble. It was my mom that said she wasn’t coming
Posted by shinerfan
Duckworld(Earth-616)
Member since Sep 2009
22353 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:16 am to
I never called my parents from jail. It was always big sister. She's say I could sit there by I always knew she'd have me out. I've never spent two nights in a row. I've spent one in a row several times though.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67488 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:25 am to
quote:

The words of my father were a little different. Somewhere along the lines of “you better just stay in jail because it will not be safe when you get out”.

Raised by a single Mom and these were her words too and she meant it
Posted by Zap Rowsdower
MissLou, La
Member since Sep 2010
13267 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:27 am to
My dad’s speech was “Call me and I’ll come get you, but just remember you got rights in that jail cell you ain’t gonna have once I get you out.”
Posted by Rex Feral
Athens
Member since Jan 2014
11353 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:47 am to
My parents too.

I remember watching 11 alive news when I was maybe 10 interviewing the mother of a kid who hacked up a couple people in Athens. She was crying that her ‘baby’s innocent’. My mom turned to me and said she let me rot in prison.
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:50 am to
Your father and my father talked the same language, I speak it now myself
Posted by shinerfan
Duckworld(Earth-616)
Member since Sep 2009
22353 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 6:59 am to
I remember reading Bo Jackson's autobiography way back in the '80s. He tells a story of how in his early teens he started skipping school and getting in trouble with the police. So his grandmother started walking him to the bus stop with a shotgun because she told him she'd rather see him dead than watch another of her grandkids go to prison. Even in my mid-teens I thought that was a powerful and moving story. It doesn't take a village but sometimes it takes a granny with a shotgun and the resolve to have her way. Of course, in 2020 Granny would be the villain of that story.

It makes me sick, motherfricker, how far we done fell. - the Great Bunk Moreland
Posted by WorkinDawg
Atlanta
Member since Sep 2012
9341 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 7:33 am to
My dad would tell me “son, you get one phone call. Don’t waste it on me”
Posted by azcatiger
somewhere
Member since Mar 2011
4487 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 7:38 am to
Lots of F ups on here. My dad raised me right and never even imagined I would go to jail...and he was right.

Trashy thread is trashy.
Posted by roadGator
Member since Feb 2009
140564 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 7:40 am to
I tell my son that I will come to get him out if possible but it make take me a day or two to roll up the pennies I’ve saved for his bail.

That first night is on you, son.
Posted by Stingray
Shreveport
Member since Sep 2007
12420 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 7:56 am to
quote:

Lots of F ups on here. My dad raised me right and never even imagined I would go to jail...and he was right.

Trashy thread is trashy


Your bitch arse might end up in jail today.
Posted by southern686
Narnia
Member since Nov 2015
883 posts
Posted on 8/25/20 at 8:01 am to
quote:

“Son, I brought you into this world, and I can take you out of it.”


This, all my life.


I've been in twice both no more than a night, but paid both times.
I guess that is why I was never told much when it happened; I was in my early 20s paying for all my expenses and living on my own.
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