re: Funny story about my liberal daughter.

I would tell your wife to say something like “I’m not going to go behind your fathers back and provide you with funding, that’s now how marriage works”.

When she comes to you, and she will, tell her that you considered her letter very carefully and you would be doing her a disservice if you didn’t allow her to “live her truth” or something nonsensical like that.

Everyone has a “theory of flight”, so to speak. This would be their guiding principles that allows them to “take flight” as a person. This theory is a general understanding on how the world works and how they function within it.


Your “theory of flight” provides so much “lift” that it is sufficient to carry your entire family comfortably. There is so much “lift” you can even support the craft your daughter built using her own “theory of flight”.


Now, she has told you that your theory is stupid and ridiculed you for even considering the “theory” that has provided her flight for her entire life, is air worthy. Now she is in Boston desperately trying to take flight using her own “theory of flight” and it will never get off of the ground. She is asking to tether to your plane to get off the ground so she can continue to pretend her theory is sound.

Now is the time to put her theories and her friends to the test. Tell her that you’ve considered her letter and she actually may be correct, you may be wrong. It would be irresponsible to dilute her journey by carrying her baggage. At a minimum she should have the “grit” and courage of her convictions not to take the easy way out. Teaching her that at a minimum is worth it.

Enjoy those fake internet points bro

Just tell her some BS that you were always afraid she'd be the one that would not make it on her on. Then tell her to prove you wrong.

All you can do is remind her that you love her every now and then.

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Don’t want to push her into a commune or cult.

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Too late, she’s already in a cult if she’s a lib.

Goes to show you how unbelievably important it is to keep your thumb on the pulse of who your kids hang around. At some point, they get more direction and influenced by their peers than their parents. If you let your child surround themselves with weak, unintelligent cowards then that's who they will become. I'll always keep a close eye on their friends and challenge my kids wrong ideas in a non egotistical way to help them grow.

I had a cousin who was doing well with us down south, she came to stay with us for a year to get away from the drugs in Oregon. Her views changed a lot, she was much happier here, and at worst just smoked weed. Wasn't doing meth. She went back up there to that echo chamber of weak cowards and decided she was a guy now, and killed herself a year or two later. She was a beautiful young woman, had honest feminine traits, was attracted to masculine men, then she goes up there and they brainwashed her to think just because she says "dude" and "bro" a lot that she should be a guy, confused her, and when reality came crashing down she couldn't live with the societal hole she dug and took her own life.

frick the left.

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A lot of normies don’t realize this, but young Leftist women are HEAVILY encouraged to repudiate their Fathers. And of course all their psychological problems will be because of Dad. It has always been a phenomenon but it is just completely widespread now. Hang in there, OP and double down with your children who choose to be loving.

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This right here, 100 percent. It's a woke ritual, a technique they stole from cult psychology.

It's honestly so sad, they get sent off to these liberal indoctrination centers (colleges and universities) and some woke POS teachers get them all to think that their country is terrible, that everything bad that ever happened is because of people like their dad, and then they get them to disavow their family, culture, nation and history. At that point, what else do they have? The brainwashing is complete, the cult now has full control.

This problem has only been magnified by social media. Now everyone's daughter has an audience of woke friends to appeal to and perform for. I've seen this, daughters trashing their family members for likes from her woke friends, criticizing even benign posts from relatives that don't pass their new woke standards.

Another problem in the modern day--all the illicit avenues people have to make money online. If a young woman is not willing to humble down and reconcile with her parents, she might look to something like Seeking Arrangements. Worst case scenario, OnlyFans.

Dylan kind of nailed it with Rolling Stone:

'You’ve gone to the finest school all right, Miss Lonely
But you know you only used to get juiced in it
And nobody has ever taught you how to live on the street
And now you find out you’re gonna have to get used to it
You said you’d never compromise
With the mystery tramp, but now you realize
He’s not selling any alibis
As you stare into the vacuum of his eyes
And ask him do you want to make a deal?

How does it feel
How does it feel
To be on your own
With no direction home
A complete unknown
Like a rolling stone?

You never turned around to see the frowns on the jugglers and the clowns
When they all come down and did tricks for you
You never understood that it ain’t no good
You shouldn’t let other people get your kicks for you
You used to ride on the chrome horse with your diplomat
Who carried on his shoulder a Siamese cat
Ain’t it hard when you discover that
He really wasn’t where it’s at
After he took from you everything he could steal'

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She's my kid so I don't think I could ever let her completely crash and burn

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Then she'll never learn.

She needs to figure out what ideals fund a life successfully.

It's easy for her to shite on your ideals but that's what's funding her ideals.

I would pay for her to come move back if needed and that would be it.

It's tough.

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I don’t believe in unconditional love.

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Do you believe in God?

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Unfortunately she made her own bed.

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Advise her to join the United States Armed Forces.