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re: Youth Sports - Are people really this crappy

Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:54 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261735 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:54 pm to
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If it was good enough for all season, then it's good enough for a "championship"


Crazy how non competitive some people are.

Posted by McCorkleJonesGOAT
Member since Apr 2022
362 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:54 pm to
The coaches/parents like this are the exact type of people three year letterman is parodying on twitter. It's fricking 8 year olds, no one gives a shite about the "championship"
Posted by the_magician
Member since May 2022
74 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:55 pm to
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and certainly not a dumbass here


The first sign of a dumbass is claiming you're not a dumbass, while posting about how 8-10 year olds should care about winning a BB game.

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but you sure do sound like an entitled little wuss


Maybe. Maybe not. The world will never know. But how do I sound like an entitled wuss when I said the championship doesn't matter. Again, a sign of a dumbass.

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Bet you think everyone should get a 1st place trophy too.


Never said that. I said losing the game wasn't as important as following the same rules that applied to every other game up to that point, and if they lost, they lost. Who cares?

What if little timmy, the suckiest player on the team, just happened to get the game winning shot in the semi-final game during his required playing time. Now he doesn't play in the championship because the coach thinks he sucks?

If you play in a league that requires everyone to play for 2 quarters, then everyone plays 2 quarters. Don't like it, go do travel ball with all the other idiots that invest 100k in ball instead of a college fund.

But a coach who doesn't play the kids the required 2 quarters in a league like that, just because he wants to win a "championship" is a scumbag.

Any questions.
This post was edited on 5/23/22 at 3:56 pm
Posted by loopback
Member since Jul 2011
4887 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:55 pm to
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I disagree. In a 2nd-4th grade rec league everyone still should play.


Agreed, in every game but the championship. Again, ask the kids, would they rather win or all play some and lose?
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37586 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:56 pm to
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If it was good enough for all season, then it's good enough for a "championship" rec league that these kids will never ever remember.


The kids will 100% remember.

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But I see there's a lot of dumbass oil field baws in here living vicariously through their kids. You do you.


I have repeatedly said that kids need playing time and that through the entire season a coach of a rec league should split time as evenly as possible. The OP is complaining to the coach because of 12 minutes difference. 12.

His son got to play an entire quarter of the game.

The coach did nothing wrong and the OP is 100% in the wrong by not teaching his son to use this as motivation and to not put the team above himself.
Posted by the_magician
Member since May 2022
74 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:57 pm to
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Agreed, in every game but the championship. Again, ask the kids, would they rather win or all play some and lose?


This dude def jacks off to his sixth grade "championship" trophy.
Posted by thadcastle
Member since Dec 2019
2625 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:57 pm to
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If you play in a league that requires everyone to play for 2 quarters, then everyone plays 2 quarters.

He even said the league doesn't require this.
Posted by Miketheseventh
Member since Dec 2017
5830 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:58 pm to
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its a competitive league

Listening to you it’s your fault for putting your child in a competitive league. You admitted that your kid is not one of the better ones so maybe you should have put your kid in a league that plays for fun and gives participation trophies to everyone even if they loose every game
Posted by Midget Death Squad
Meme Magic
Member since Oct 2008
24741 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:59 pm to
You're getting destroyed here, but this is the entire purpose of rec leagues. They are there for the kids who aren't very good but would like to engage in sports. While I don't necessarily disagree with the coach being this is a championship game, I do think you have a valid gripe. Sounds like this coach needs to be volunteering for competitive leagues, since that's his approach.

The issue here that I have is with all the false internet bravado of the OT bashing your kid for not being good. Well, OP stated up from that his kid is not good, which is why he is part of a recreational sports league. 80% of you on here acting tough on the interwebs most likely have shitty kids who are just as bad.
Posted by Double Oh
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2008
18037 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:59 pm to
Once you get to the championship in a tournament or a league all bets are off. You play to win. Simple as that. He could of not played ur kid at all but he did.
Posted by loopback
Member since Jul 2011
4887 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 3:59 pm to
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Any questions.


Yes.

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first sign of a dumbass is claiming you're not a dumbass, while posting about how 8-10 year olds should care about winning a BB game.



You're a moron if you think they don't care.

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But how do I sound like an entitled wuss when I said the championship doesn't matter.


re-read what you wrote and the answer will come to you.


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if they lost, they lost. Who cares?


The kids do.

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What if little timmy, the suckiest player on the team, just happened to get the game winning shot in the semi-final game during his required playing time. Now he doesn't play in the championship because the coach thinks he sucks?


Wow, this is a HUGE reach.

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Don't like it, go do travel ball with all the other idiots that invest 100k in ball instead of a college fund.

But a coach who doesn't play the kids the required 2 quarters in a league like that, just because he wants to win a "championship" is a scumbag.



Bitter and Jealous much? Tell me you sucked as an athlete and couldn't make a travel team without telling me.


Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16550 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:00 pm to
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This dude def jacks off to his sixth grade "championship" trophy.




I love the little league sports threads on here. I can't decide if I like these of the bike rider threads more, but I love the hate/passion that gets thrown around in them
Posted by loopback
Member since Jul 2011
4887 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:01 pm to
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This dude def jacks off to his sixth grade "championship" trophy.


Clearly you were a little bitch as a kid and rode the bench. Your jealousy and resentment is showing.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37586 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:01 pm to
Regardless of whether the posters who responded to the OP have athletic kids or not, the OP is in the wrong. The coach has been more than fair all year. He had a single imbalanced game. He even made sure that all the kids played a full quarter plus.

The op should have used it as a teaching moment, but didn’t.
Posted by Crowknowsbest
Member since May 2012
25887 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:03 pm to
If it’s a competitive league, I don’t see a problem with the coach trying to win the championship. If there’s mandated playing time, then clearly he’s in the wrong.
Posted by loopback
Member since Jul 2011
4887 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:04 pm to
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The op should have used it as a teaching moment, but didn’t.


100% agree with this.
Posted by WDE24
Member since Oct 2010
54183 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:04 pm to
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while posting about how 8-10 year olds should care about winning a BB game.
8-10 year olds not only do care, but they should care about winning. Developing a competitive spirit and learning that things are earned and not handed out are a couple of quality lessons learned through sport. It’s certainly a sliding scale as the kids age. At 8-10, everyone should play and winning should be a secondary consideration to development, but it should still be a consideration.

As long as the coach played everyone and focused mostly on development throughout the season, I don’t see a big deal giving the better players some extra playing time at the end of the championship game.

As a parent, I would use this as a teaching opportunity and possibly motivation for my kid rather than being upset at the coach who volunteered a ton of his free time to help my kid all season.

ETA: him crying could be a sign that he enjoys the sport and not playing meant something to him. Maybe mom and dad need to help him develop through working with him, getting him in some day camps, etc.
This post was edited on 5/23/22 at 4:11 pm
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
37586 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:05 pm to
I see you added a hypothetical to this post as it was already non-sensical.

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If you play in a league that requires everyone to play for 2 quarters, then everyone plays 2 quarters. Don't like it, go do travel ball with all the other idiots that invest 100k in ball instead of a college fund.


Well, hate to break it to you but that was more of the coaches philosophy as it wasn’t a rule.

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But a coach who doesn't play the kids the required 2 quarters in a league like that, just because he wants to win a "championship" is a scumbag. Any questions.


Yeah, what if it’s not a rule, and the coach still goes out of his way to play every player evenly, and still plays every player in the league final, but just played the best kids 6 minutes more.

Is he still a scumbag?
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21598 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:09 pm to
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Why? Most home school kids are surprisingly competitive


Not from what I've experienced. Maybe at a low level. So, even if he is, but you've admitted he isn't, if the kid is crying over playing time, he's gonna have it rough later on in whatever fields you think he's going to compete in/on. Peer pressure is not always nice. Maybe you need to step up and get him better prepared for instances where he isn't the best. Every kid needs to learn how to "fail" (for lack of a better word).
Posted by the_magician
Member since May 2022
74 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 4:10 pm to
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Clearly you were a little bitch as a kid and rode the bench. Your jealousy and resentment is showing.


Maybe. Maybe not.

But one of my friends growing up was an all sport everything. His dad made him throw 100 pitches a night and shite like that.

Long story short, he was never going to be a professional ball player. He was the backup QB at a college to a guy that got drafted. He didn't make it. It ruined his life and his relationship with his family when they couldn't let it go.

I will never take sports seriously. They are entertainment. Sure, you can learn a lot from them, but winning a 8-10 yo champ game isn't a huge accomplishment.

Now go jack off to your trohpy bitch.
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