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Youth Sports - Are people really this crappy

Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:34 pm
Posted by bamaphan13
Member since Jan 2011
992 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:34 pm
TLDR...blah blah I don't care.

My kid was playing in rec league for BB (8-10 yr old). Nine kids on the team and mine is not one of the better ones. All season each kid got two quarters minimum.

This weekend was the championship game. They were down like 5 points going into the 4th. My kid and a few others were due up to play but the coach rolls out the best five again. After about 2 min in the 8 min quarter he subs for the kids that did not get the full two quarters. Then two min later he pulls those kids and puts the best five back in and the team still loses.

My kid is crying after the game, upset he didn't get the full playing time. I talk to the coach and he was saying its a competitive league and he was trying to win the game but appreciated my feedback.

This guy made a 9yo kid cry trying to win a rec league BB champ game. Even if you had won that doesn't make it right.

This post was edited on 5/23/22 at 2:35 pm
Posted by LSUnation78
Northshore
Member since Aug 2012
12075 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:34 pm to
quote:

81-10 yr old


I think i’d pay to watch this baseball league
Posted by Pooturd
Knoxville
Member since Mar 2020
1258 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:35 pm to
Buy your kid a hooker
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55701 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

My kid was playing in rec league for BB
he's never going to make varsity dude
Posted by Splackavellie
Bayou
Member since Oct 2017
9838 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:35 pm to
quote:

(81-10 yr old)


Seems like they should be old enough to understand the coach is playing to win.
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40573 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:35 pm to
Sorry your kid is bad at sports
Posted by thotpocket
Dana Point, CA
Member since Sep 2017
2600 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:35 pm to
tell your son to man up and get better
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39030 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:36 pm to
He’s an idiot, and no. My son was the best player, soccer, at that age and he sat the exact amount of time every other kid did. bullshite to act that way as a coach.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103110 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:36 pm to
Unless there is a league rule about playing time you need to back off. Nothing wrong with coaches playing to win in elimination championship games.
Posted by bamaphan13
Member since Jan 2011
992 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:36 pm to
quote:

he's never going to make varsity dude


I know this. Never had the making of a varsity athlete.
Posted by Big Gorilla
Bossier City
Member since Oct 2020
5459 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:37 pm to
I hate to be the dick, but I agree with the coach. Tell your kid to get better. Worked for all my kids (3). They just worked harder and got better and played in the big games.

Cant cuddle them forever.
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
13895 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:37 pm to

The "Life is Tough" lesson has been learned.
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
Member since Feb 2008
37769 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:37 pm to
You're the problem man.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:37 pm to
Your kid got to play all year.

It's the championship, stop being a pussy. If your kid wants to play when the games matter, tell him to get in the lab and put up jumpers.

Posted by ProjectP2294
South St. Louis city
Member since May 2007
70383 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:37 pm to
You're going to get a lot of hardass answers about your kid not being good enough.

I just have questions. Was it previously established that it's a competitive league, because the mandated playing time suggest otherwise?

If the playing time wasn't mandated, but was done to give every kid a chance throughout the season, was it communicated ahead of time that the playing time would change for the championship?

Either way, I hope you used it as a learning opportunity and motivational opportunity.

ETA: I don't think the coach was wrong necessarily, just potentially a poor communicator.
This post was edited on 5/23/22 at 2:39 pm
Posted by AUCE05
Member since Dec 2009
42571 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:38 pm to
Yeah, coach is gonna blow the championship game so your kid is happy. Sports is about teaching concepts like team vs individual needs. You should drive that in a bit more.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166339 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:38 pm to
a championship game, your coach is trying to win. cut the guy some slack.
Posted by icegator337
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3498 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:38 pm to
Coach is a dick head. I think 8-10 is 2nd-4th grade. Imo it shouldn't be about winning at that age. Middle school, they need to start to understand that not everyone gets to play. They're too young to learn and understand that in 2nd or 3rd grade imo.
This post was edited on 5/23/22 at 2:40 pm
Posted by WildTchoupitoulas
Member since Jan 2010
44071 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:38 pm to
quote:

This guy made a 9yo kid cry trying to win a rec league BB champ game.

Seems like there's a teachable moment in there somewhere.

But I wouldn't blame the coach for wanting to actually win the championship - but not so bad that he wouldn't put your loser of a kid in there at least for a couple minutes.
Posted by OldmanBeasley
Charlotte
Member since Jun 2014
9704 posts
Posted on 5/23/22 at 2:38 pm to
Similar thing happened to me back in the day in little league coach pitch. Coach got pissed at me and put me in right field. I just grabbed a six pack of cold ones and trotted out into right. Tell your son to man up
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