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re: Your kid fails out of med school, do you then find him a job, or tell him he's on his own
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:28 am to Jack Ruby
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:28 am to Jack Ruby
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He fails. Wasn't an effort thing. No biggie.
As someone who has been to med school and had to pay for it myself, it's an effort thing. The only people I know who couldn't pass where either bottom end affirmative action admits or those going for free with the parents footing the bills. It's really not that hard to pass. Getting in is the hard part.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 10:30 am to Jack Ruby
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Your kid fails out of med school, do you then find him a job, or tell him he's on his own
lolwut?
I mean, 'ya gotta cut the cord at some point, my man.
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or do you let him taste the full force of the real world and start from scratch

Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:16 pm to Sun God
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Admit what you are, be it self-righteous or pathological internet liar
What an insecure pathetic human you are
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:19 pm to imjustafatkid
Nope, try relying on connections to get matched from Residency to a Hospital lol. Connections have 0 to do with that. I know personally how each got it. None of these people knew anyone at the company they went to work at. There is 1 I am unsure of if they got it or not. I don't know if they knew anyone or not. The other 5 did not.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 1:23 pm to Jack Ruby
Have him wax cars, build fences, etc. for a summer & teach him karate.
Enter an open tournament
:profit:
Enter an open tournament
:profit:
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:15 pm to Jack Ruby
Your son needs the talk.


Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:25 pm to Jack Ruby
From my understanding, you can apply USMD if you withdraw from DO. Probably the best route after he does some soul-searching. I would probably go to the military in his scenario.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:30 pm to Dragula
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He had a better chance of getting into medical school than CRNA school.
Besides he's not qualified, he is not a RN with a bachelor's degree, and with minimum 2yrs years ICU experience ( more years, the better chance of getting in).
If he had difficulties w/ of Medical school, CRNA isn't a guarantee either.
First, I thought of this last night but didn't come back to is he actually might not want to have anything to do with medicine now. Working around and with docs constantly may be soul-crushing for him.
It is important to remember he didn't not get into med school, he just didn't flourish. OP never mentioned which med school so it is possible he was just out of his depth at that school and would have been fine at another one. For all I know he was at a school like Hopkins and would have been a star at a school like USC-G.
CRNA would not be a short road but with a BS and some med school in his brain and on his CV he could fast track his ADN and BSN because of his BS credits. Micro, anatomy, chem, etc should be child play to him. He would also be working and making money in a short amount of time. He was still a long way from making money as a doc as well.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:32 pm to Saunson69
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Nope, try relying on connections to get matched from Residency to a Hospital lol. Connections have 0 to do with that
Doctors and residents from a school will absolutely choose new residents from their school, especially if they know them. Everyone is qualified if they make it that far.
You sound like a pipe fitter that thinks he knows shite about how medicine or investment banking work
Posted on 12/27/24 at 2:35 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
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You sound like a pipe fitter that thinks he knows shite about how medicine or investment banking work
That also seems to perfectly describe saunson.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 3:48 pm to Jack Ruby
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Navy or Air Force as an 0-2 Intelligence officer
One of the smartest guys I've ever known was a naval intelligence officer. He could tell you every officer on the Russian subs he was in charge of tracking and how they liked their coffee. I don't know the test score requirements for those intelligence officer positions, but flunking out of med school can't be a good start.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 4:06 pm to scott8811
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My parents paid for my undergrad (with FASFAs) help but during that time I was...ya know...in college... where ya figure shite out
You don’t figure shite out in college. You figure shite out gradually from day 1 by your parents allowing you to increasingly navigate different obstacles and take on more and more responsibilities. College is a test to see if your parents stewarded you well.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 4:29 pm to Mingo Was His NameO
This is the way…
Posted on 12/27/24 at 4:55 pm to Louisianalabguy
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Fascinating how many people have never heard of them
Fascinating you talk so much but can’t figure out correct abbreviations.
NP= nurse practitioner
ND= naturopathic doctor
Posted on 12/27/24 at 5:13 pm to dukeg7213
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NP= nurse practitioner
ND= naturopathic doctor
Sorry, in some places we call them naturopathic physicians NP. Although they do have a doctorate in naturopathy ND.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 5:28 pm to Jack Ruby
quote:This perfectly describes a guy who married a friend of my wife and me. He makes a shite ton of money selling surgical devices now.
Post-grad aged son fails out of medical school (cannot pass level exams).
Smart kid just not ready to be a doctor.
You have already sent him and paid for the best undergrad (private) college he could get into. Footed the whole bill, room and board, etc.
Then pay for 2 yrs of med school. Again, apt, books, stipend, etc. The kid is debt free.
He fails. Wasn't an effort thing. No biggie. It happens. Some people aren't meant to do certain things.
Posted on 12/27/24 at 5:45 pm to Masterag
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You don’t figure shite out in college. You figure shite out gradually from day 1 by your parents allowing you to increasingly navigate different obstacles and take on more and more responsibilities. College is a test to see if your parents stewarded you well.
Honestly....super fair
Posted on 12/27/24 at 5:53 pm to kennypowers
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You've gotten some good advice here. Let the kid spend a year or two working "normal" jobs and see what he likes/doesn't like. It might reignite a passion in medicine or he might find a job he really loves. I'm a huge proponent of doing every job you can think of when you're young and don't have a lot of responsibilities. He won't know until he tries out some different options.
I feel that everyone should have to do a "service job" at some point, even if just for a few months, whether that be Ubering, Door Dash, Waiter/Waitress, retail, hotel, etc..
I think it helps with social skills and learning to deal with difficult people. But more than that, it gives respect for what those people do, what they put up with, and makes you appreciate those people more/treat them better.
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