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re: You find out some dude is texting your SO? Update in OP

Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:03 pm to
Posted by p0845330
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:03 pm to
Embrace your new eskimo brother.
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:05 pm to
Dis
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:05 pm to
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Take the relationship out of this, you’re evicting her from her place. Yeah she’s going to get confrontational.



You don't have to evict her or cause a scene. Tell her it's no longer right for you. Tell her you don't think she's ready. Tell her you'll give her time to get her affairs in order so that you guys can figure out a new housing situation.

She's untrustworthy. Why would you live with/be with someone you don't trust?
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:06 pm to
Smash her phone
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:06 pm to
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This post was edited on 2/15/19 at 1:43 am
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:07 pm to
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You don't have to evict her or cause a scene. Tell her it's no longer right for you. Tell her you don't think she's ready. Tell her you'll give her time to get her affairs in order so that you guys can figure out a new housing situation.

She's untrustworthy. Why would you live with/be with someone you don't trust?


Well what happens to the rent and where one of you moves? What if you have a dog. It’s not that simple when you’re living together.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:07 pm to
if you are still just dating after 2 years you should at least know how to talk about dating.

exclusive

not

what is the issue why you are not engaged?

Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:08 pm to
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You wouldn’t want to have a convo about it?

I can’t really say what I’d do because this would literally never happen


Tell me why, then I'll tell you why there's no reason to have a convo about it.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 8:09 pm
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:11 pm to
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Well what happens to the rent and where one of you moves? What if you have a dog. It’s not that simple when you’re living together.

Who said it was simple? This is why you shouldn't live with someone unless you're planning to marry them or you're willing to live with them and not be in an exclusive relationship.

What's more sensible:

Making arrangements to no longer live together because she's untrustworthy

or

Trying to find a way to make it work because you bought a dog together
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 8:15 pm
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:13 pm to
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Do you confront her about it? (Which makes it look like you’re looking at her phone)




9 pages in, so I'm sure someone has told you how to handle this correctly, but just in case:

Tell your friend out of the blue, without any emotion ask her "Who is Joe?". Watch her face, you'll know what's up. If she denies knowing a Joe, she's done. If she admits it, ask some questions based on the text thread to see if she's going to lie. When she asks why you're asking her this, tell her she said his name a couple times in her sleep.

Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47663 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:13 pm to
Accept now that you and her are on the way out. After 2 years you will still be sad when it is over. Cheating after two years deserves some punishment .

Since you are sad and she needs punishment, these 2 can collude. Wait until she has just paid her CC bill, then explode her Amazon account. Order everything that you think you might want, now and in the future.

Once you put her out your parting gifts will begin arriving. They will provide you a modicum of happiness while you search for the new GF.


Maybe you could even order something nice for Joe since he helped cut this evil woman out of your life.

Good luck baw.

Posted by HDAU
Member since Nov 2014
1701 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:14 pm to
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I will update tomorrow.


Do it tonight. Save yourself the Valentines money/effort if it doesn’t go well.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14788 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:14 pm to
This!
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:14 pm to
Because I’m a woman and we like to talk shite into the ground to get closure
Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
21576 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:15 pm to
You have no strings attached to this chick it seems. Keep it that way and get nudes of her, blow her back out one last time and then just break up with her, no explanation, just walk away and never look back.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:15 pm to
I’m sure it is now

I wasn’t familiar with this guy. The story doesn’t seem far fetched
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138831 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:15 pm to
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woman and we like to talk shite into the ground to get closure
PREACH!!!
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:16 pm to
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Paige


You said:

quote:

I can’t really say what I’d do because this would literally never happen


Why would it never happen?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:17 pm to
My bf would honestly never cheat on me

He loves me to death and he’s very loyal
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:18 pm to
quote:

Tell your friend out of the blue, without any emotion ask her "Who is Joe?". Watch her face, you'll know what's up. If she denies knowing a Joe, she's done. If she admits it, ask some questions based on the text thread to see if she's going to lie. When she asks why you're asking her this, tell her she said his name a couple times in her sleep.



This is terrible advice.
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