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re: You find out some dude is texting your SO? Update in OP
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:34 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:34 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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Do you confront her about it? (Which makes it look like you’re looking at her phone)
Yes, what you committed was jaywalking in relationship crimes. If a flirty text pops up on her phone in front of you, sorry, that’s grounds for a search warrant. If she’s flirting back with him overtly, then it’s the end of the relationship unless kids are involved. If they are, immediately go to couple’s therapy. This is unacceptable.
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Let it go as stupid entertainment?
Unless she’s at a bar looking for free drinks and then immediately gives those guys the cold shoulder, then it’s not stupid entertainment. She wouldn’t be texting them even if it’s a 3 to 1 text back ratio. Men are supposed to be the chasers anyway.
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Overreact, accuse her of something, and back her into a corner?
Just be clear with her on what is going on. You deserve this knowledge.
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Let it play out while trying to sneak check her phone to see how it plays out? (This seems like a miserable option)
You know it’s miserable because it’s dumb. Directly confront her about it, and break up with her if she’s not honest.
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Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:35 pm to cbree88
No. What if they’re only 25?
It’s stupid to get married that young
It’s stupid to get married that young
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:36 pm to Paige
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It’s stupid to get married that young
I tell everybody, at least 30. I fricked up, dont be like me
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:36 pm to sealawyer
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Dump her.
Save yourself years of headache.
Don’t even bother confronting her. She’s already taking his dick.
If they’re living together this could be an issue. If they’re not and she has his keys, change your locks immediately. If she doesn’t have the keys, call her over to hang, you hand her a box with her shite, and you say it’s over. That’s how you handle this.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:38 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Be done with her. It will never stop.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:39 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
I'd confront her. Then make her show the convo history immediately. Flirty texting is not something to dismiss and see what happens
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:40 pm to LSUJML
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If she hasn’t mentioned him as an acquaintance it sounds like she’s keeping quiet for a reason
Yeah my “girlfriends” my girlfriend knows about. I know about all of her “boyfriends” but luckily they’re all gay and she’s what you would call a “f@g hag”. You should put everything on the table. No major secrets between you. If you don’t, then the relationship won’t work. The person you’re going to marry should know the true you and vice versa, and if there are some dealbreakers, move on as quickly as possible.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:40 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
What a surprise that the woman who would ostensibly be your “SO” would also cheat?
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:43 pm to Darth_Vader
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BTW, it’s time for you to shite or get off the pot. After two years together you should know whether or not you want to spend the rest of your life with her or not.
And there’s a good chance she’s thinking the same thing and has decided to find someone (Joe) who’s willing to put a ring on her finger.
We don’t know his fricking age. If he’s fricking 23, he’d be insane to get engaged. Yeah once you reach 25 that should be on the table, but no one under 26 should ever get married unless he accidentally knocks her up. You don’t know who you are at 23 and really only realize it going into your 30s.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:44 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 7:44 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:44 pm to soccerfüt
Damn OP, tell that bitch to come out the bathroom so you can update us.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:45 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Keep banging her but know it’s not going anywhere. Def bang randos on the side as well.
Best and honest advice you’ll get
Best and honest advice you’ll get
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:47 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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You look and there is a long text chain where it’s pretty damn flirty.
She's untrustworthy. Don't even confront her about the texts. That would be a big mistake. Just tell her that you don't think it's a good idea that you guys be exclusive anymore. Tell her you don't think she's ready. Don't try to explain yourself. Just leave it at that.
If you're not willing to walk away then it doesn't matter how you react because she'll know she can walk all over you. She'll smell the desperation.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 7:54 pm
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:47 pm to PawnMaster
I will update tomorrow. That is only fair. I don’t want to act or say anything irrationally so plan on sleeping on it to get my grasp of the situation and thoughts together.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:49 pm to TH03
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I mean it's a lot cheaper.
The Juice lost tens of millions
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:49 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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plan on sleeping on it to get my grasp of the situation and thoughts together.
You killed her, didnt you?
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:50 pm to dbuchanon
30 is perfect imo
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:51 pm to Paige
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:51 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
Chris Rock was right about one thing, grown men don't really have female friends. Just women we haven't fricked yet.
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:51 pm to PortHudsonPlaya
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I will update tomorrow.
You better.
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