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re: You find out some dude is texting your SO? Update in OP

Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:34 am to
Posted by bayouvette
Raceland
Member since Oct 2005
4771 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:34 am to
too late
Posted by dbeck
Member since Nov 2014
29453 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:36 am to
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Sorry this is sort of anti-climactic for the OT.

It's not over.

This was a test and you failed.
Posted by 14&Counting
Eugene, OR
Member since Jul 2012
37710 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:58 am to
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but I’m just not that sorta guy.


By that "sorta guy" you mean a cuck?
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47538 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:03 am to
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UPDATE: couldn’t stand it anymore so brought it up last night. Apparently ‘Joe’ is an ex from several years ago that will get desperately drunk (she thinks) and text her on random occasionas still but that’s where it ends. She responds, but doesn’t see the need to be rude or confrontational about it. Happens a handful of times a year. He lives in another city (where she moved here from) and she has no plans whatsoever to ever see him again. I didn’t agree with even entertaining his text, but she seemed pretty responsive and non confrontational about it. The text were a lot more flirty on his end than hers like already mentioned. Didn’t even bring up me looking through her phone. I did express that I wasn’t that comfortable with it but didn’t make it a bigger deal than it was. Sorry this is sort of anti-climactic for the OT. This does make me want to somehow keep an eye out for a while to verify, but I’m just not that sorta guy.


Nevermind. She's frickin him.

This post was edited on 2/14/19 at 11:14 am
Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:44 am to
If you knew how to handle your girl then she wouldn’t be responding to that dude. Sounds like the problem is on your end.
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
9049 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 11:53 am to
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UPDATE: couldn’t stand it anymore so brought it up last night. Apparently ‘Joe’ is an ex from several years ago that will get desperately drunk (she thinks) and text her on random occasionas still but that’s where it ends. She responds, but doesn’t see the need to be rude or confrontational about it. Happens a handful of times a year. He lives in another city (where she moved here from) and she has no plans whatsoever to ever see him again. I didn’t agree with even entertaining his text, but she seemed pretty responsive and non confrontational about it. The text were a lot more flirty on his end than hers like already mentioned. Didn’t even bring up me looking through her phone. I did express that I wasn’t that comfortable with it but didn’t make it a bigger deal than it was. Sorry this is sort of anti-climactic for the OT. This does make me want to somehow keep an eye out for a while to verify, but I’m just not that sorta guy.



I personally like a story where cooler heads prevail in the end. Good Luck to you two going forward.
This post was edited on 2/14/19 at 11:54 am
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
4430 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:00 pm to
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Post some screenshots.

Frick that, post some pics.

And the vid you shot from inside the closet while they were banging.
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
4430 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:15 pm to
quote:

quote:
Jesus



Don't hate me for knowing how to Carpe Diem, muthafricka!




This stuff is why I'm forced to read every goddamn thread no matter how stupid the topic is, because you just never know and the FOMO is strong.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8399 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:25 pm to
She’s still banging him to keep it not confrontational baw.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Alpha Silverfox
Member since Oct 2011
41739 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:29 pm to
quote:

UPDATE: couldn’t stand it anymore so brought it up last night. Apparently ‘Joe’ is an ex from several years ago that will get desperately drunk (she thinks) and text her on random occasionas still but that’s where it ends. She responds, but doesn’t see the need to be rude or confrontational about it. Happens a handful of times a year. He lives in another city (where she moved here from) and she has no plans whatsoever to ever see him again. I didn’t agree with even entertaining his text, but she seemed pretty responsive and non confrontational about it. The text were a lot more flirty on his end than hers like already mentioned. Didn’t even bring up me looking through her phone. I did express that I wasn’t that comfortable with it but didn’t make it a bigger deal than it was. Sorry this is sort of anti-climactic for the OT. This does make me want to somehow keep an eye out for a while to verify, but I’m just not that sorta guy.


She's still fricking me. I mean him.
This post was edited on 2/14/19 at 12:30 pm
Posted by LarryDavid
Los Angeles
Member since Sep 2010
4207 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 12:35 pm to
tell her you're after that hot chick at the gym

This post was edited on 2/14/19 at 12:43 pm
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
14898 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 5:48 pm to
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I don't get why people think this is a good strategy.



Because there might be a simple, innocent explanation, in which case you don’t want to get all bent out of shape before you hear it. Why not give her a chance to tell the truth before blowing up or making a mistake?
Posted by Mr Wonderful
Love City
Member since Oct 2015
1045 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 6:07 pm to
Wait. Hold up. You found out your ole lady is texting an ex...continuously...and the messages are flirty...and you just let it go.
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PortHudsonPlaya

Chicken: please change this to “Cuck”
Posted by PT24-7
Member since Jul 2013
4382 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 6:07 pm to
OP says they’re more flirty from him than her implying she’s a little flirty with an ex she still text and didn’t tell you about.

Run
Posted by Chief Hinge
There and Here
Member since Sep 2018
2923 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 6:11 pm to
This is dumb. Just really really dumb.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
14898 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 6:17 pm to
It depends on what’s being said and the personality of the girl. Something like this from my wife would be much more of a red flag than other girls I know who are naturally a little bit flirty.
Posted by PawnMaster
Down Yonder
Member since Nov 2014
1649 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 7:57 pm to
Check her SnapChat “best friends”. If he’s on there, which he probably is, you know what you have to do.
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 7:59 pm to
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This post was edited on 2/15/19 at 1:43 am
Posted by GumplandTiger
Hoover, AL
Member since Jan 2015
1206 posts
Posted on 2/14/19 at 10:11 pm to
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The text were a lot more flirty on his end than hers like already mentioned.


Because she deleted the good ones in case you found the messages.

Sounds like he hit it in ways you haven’t.
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