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re: You find out some dude is texting your SO? Update in OP

Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:52 pm to
Posted by terriblegreen
Spokane, LA
Member since Aug 2011
12451 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:52 pm to
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Don’t even bother confronting her. She’s already taking his dick.


If OP has any common sense he will take this advice.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:53 pm to
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She's untrustworthy. Don't even confront her about the texts. Just tell her that you don't think it's a good idea that you guys be exclusive anymore. Tell her you don't think she's ready.

If you're not willing to walk away then it doesn't matter how you react because she'll know she can walk all over you. She'll smell the desperation.


This strategy doesn’t work when you’re living together. You need to be confrontational, even if she’s fricking crazy.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:53 pm to
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Damn OP, tell that bitch to come out the bathroom so you can update us.
this is why I now believe the ones calling this a troll
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:54 pm to
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This strategy doesn’t work when you’re living together. You need to be confrontational


Yes it does. No you don't.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:54 pm to
What an overreaction

There is no situation in which I can’t immediately ask my bf what’s up
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
178323 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:56 pm to
Watch them have sex a few times then dump her.
Posted by p&g
Dixie
Member since Jun 2005
12995 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:56 pm to
Nip it in bud baw
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:56 pm to
You wouldn’t want to have a convo about it?

I can’t really say what I’d do because this would literally never happen

What she’s doing is inappropriate and I’d wanna talk about it
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
45976 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:57 pm to
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Been dating 2 years. Never met the guy. Don’t know who it is. Somehow you saw a text pop up on her phone from ‘Joe’ while she’s in the bathroom. You look and there is a long text chain where it’s pretty damn flirty. More him than her, but it’s not like she’s being cold either.


Sorry that you cannot hit it well enough to keep her loyal.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21044 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:57 pm to
Next time she leaves the house to go somewhere, put all her shite outside with a letter Call Joe
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:57 pm to
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I will update tomorrow. That is only fair. I don’t want to act or say anything irrationally so plan on sleeping on it to get my grasp of the situation and thoughts together.


The fact that you’re living with her, I just have to say this: prepare for war. It’s be much simpler if she didn’t live with you where the break up would only last for an hour or two, but this will now last for a few days. Don’t let this count bully you. Stand your fricking ground and say that you deserve someone better than someone who flirts with other men. Let her go through your phone, because what do you have to hide?

It’s going to be a brutal few weeks man. Unless she immediately comes clean with no resistance whatsoever where she can show she wasn’t even emotionally cheating on you (nevertheless physically), break up with her immediately. Give her her day in court, but don’t be surprised if she tries to kill a juror in your heart.
This post was edited on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 7:59 pm to
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Yes it does. No you don't.


Take the relationship out of this, you’re evicting her from her place. Yeah she’s going to get confrontational.
Posted by cj35
Member since Jan 2014
6153 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm to
It's time to move on.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
85640 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm to
Probably can’t kick her out immediately anyway

Tenant rights and all
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43528 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm to
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I will update tomorrow. That is only fair. I don’t want to act or say anything irrationally so plan on sleeping on it to get my grasp of the situation and thoughts together.


Got Dammit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


FIND OUT NEXT TIME ON DRAGON BALL Z HEAD arse!
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:00 pm to
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There is no situation in which I can’t immediately ask my bf what’s up


Why would you ask a question when the answer doesn't matter? If she valued her relationship with her S/O she wouldn't behave in a way that could jeopardize it.

What answer could she provide that would make him trust her? There isn't one.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:01 pm to
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Probably can’t kick her out immediately anyway

Tenant rights and all


Well someone is fricking leaving, and if it’s him, she’s going to want him to pay his share in the rent. A man will just take it, but not a woman. Either way he’s fricked for a while.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:02 pm to
This story sounds like bullshite anyway


This guy was married, divorced, about to get married again, going after some girl at the gym, etc all very recently and now all this.
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:02 pm to
Watch them have sex a few times then dump her.

Mikelbr?? Is that you?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
120445 posts
Posted on 2/13/19 at 8:02 pm to
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This guy was married, divorced, about to get married again, going after some girl at the gym, etc all very recently and now all this.


Seriously? He can go frick himself if all he’s done is trolled.
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