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re: Would you tell your friend if his significant other is going to destroy him?

Posted on 1/29/25 at 5:27 pm to
Posted by Hightower
Member since Oct 2015
143 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 5:27 pm to
She probably sucks his balls. He won’t care to hear your advice.
Posted by tiggah1981
Winterfell
Member since Aug 2007
18300 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 5:27 pm to
if i was the guy about to propose i would want one of my best friends (assuming it is) to tell me beforehand

This post was edited on 1/29/25 at 5:31 pm
Posted by TaylorG18
Member since Jan 2025
3 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 5:39 pm to
If this girl’s some Maia Perun (adopted fake Russian name), former petroleum engineer from LSU and she’s middle eastern in her 30s, run for the hills. Biggest 304 in Shenandoah. She does the exact same thing. Was previously a daughter in law of a famous WAFB sports director under a different old name Rusul.
This post was edited on 1/30/25 at 8:45 am
Posted by AgCoug
Houston
Member since Jan 2014
6667 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 5:41 pm to
quote:

TaylorG18
Member since Jan 2025
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quote:

If this girl’s initial is MP, former petroleum engineer from LSU and she’s middle eastern in her 30s, run for the hills. Biggest 304 in Shenandoah. She does the exact same thing. Was previously a daughter in law of a famous WAFB sports director under a different old name Rusul.

What a specifically strange first post.
This post was edited on 1/29/25 at 5:42 pm
Posted by TaylorG18
Member since Jan 2025
3 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 5:43 pm to
She did the same to many of my friends. sorry I had to jump in. I don’t want to see good men get destroyed and this sounds exactly like something she would do
Posted by Miketheseventh
Member since Dec 2017
7045 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 7:20 pm to
I think you should tell him but be prepared to possibly loosing a friend
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
53518 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 7:30 pm to
Only read the OP

Your friend isn't likely to believe you
Posted by lsuoilengr
Member since Aug 2008
5436 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 8:12 pm to
In this story I am that rich older guy
Posted by Prodigal Son
Member since May 2023
1719 posts
Posted on 1/29/25 at 8:24 pm to
Think about it. If you say don’t, and he doesn’t, he will still not be as happy as he thinks he could’ve been if he hadn’t listened to you.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
12450 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 12:19 am to
Your friend is dealing with a succubus. What kind of friend would you be if you let her drain the life force from him?
Posted by TigersHuskers
Nebraska
Member since Oct 2014
15523 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 12:42 am to
Yes.

Bros before hoes
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
13797 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 1:23 am to
Pics of the female. I need to understand your friends sit.
Posted by Hondo Blacksheep
Member since Jul 2022
3140 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 1:44 am to
No, mind your own business.

Somehow, he's inviting his own problems by failing to control his relationship.
This post was edited on 1/31/25 at 3:58 am
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
10215 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 2:15 am to
Was in the Army and had a buddy that got engaged after a month. The girl who was also in the Army did not seem stable, but she was good looking. We were sitting around one night talking and came to the conclusion that this was probably going to end horribly and they asked me if I would talk with him and I said as much as I think it will go bad I am not getting involved. So they did get married and in the Army everyone get orders to different places and groups you were with go all over. Well forward 2 years later I am in Iraq and I am on the phone with a controller in Qwest and it was him. We talked and asked him how his wife was and he said you mean my ex wife and not baby. Turns out she was cheating on him, she got out of the Army, then he found out the baby wasn't his, and when he came home from leave in Iraq she was gone, 30K in savings was gone, she took out a bunch of payday loans in his name for which he was legally obligated to pay even though he signed nothing. He said man I wish someone would have stopped me. I kinda felt bad in that moment. I don't know if you should or not ,but as for my friend he is now working his dream job, making great money, and has a great wife. If she is saying that than she is likely cheating on him now. He may resent you in the moment for pointing it out so you have to understand you could possibly lose a friend if you do it.
This post was edited on 1/30/25 at 2:19 am
Posted by ChenierauTigre
Dreamland
Member since Dec 2007
34732 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 5:31 am to
I think you should tell him.
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
20091 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 5:41 am to
quote:

would prefer an older rich guy but had to accept what she had. She doesn’t want to work and prefers to be taken care of


Bitch..you should tell your friend immediately!

And once he’s done with her have her text me because I can make this happen.
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
Member since Jan 2007
58200 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 6:28 am to
First make it clear you are telling him something because you care about him as a friend, enough to sacrifice your friendship if need be because you're putting him first. Then tell him once. Say you're never bringing it up again. He will probably tell her so be prepared to write off friendship

If he has any brains, there is something ticking in the back of his head.
Posted by Woolfpack
Member since Jun 2021
1732 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 8:20 am to

This post was edited on 3/7/25 at 7:38 am
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
12635 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 8:28 am to
I was best man in a wedding that I tried to stop. I gave a great fake speech and he filed for divorce nine months later.
Posted by TaylorG18
Member since Jan 2025
3 posts
Posted on 1/30/25 at 8:50 am to
Your friend has been love bombed and now she’s using intermittent reinforcement (hot and cold) to create an addiction to her that many say is more addictive than drugs. She probably faked being his soul mate or twin flame to move the relationship fast. These people mirror you and make you think that you found the one but you are just seeing yourself and falling for yourself hard through their mirroring. Also, everyone else around him can see how he’s fallen into a trap except for he himself. To save him, you need to find something that will trigger him or else he will fall forever and turn into an NPC robot for her after she sucks the energy and soul from him, unless she discards him first. However since she made him move in, she plans to keep him for a while. Max damage or even suicide is likely outcome for your friend in the future.

Even after he escapes, she will try to lure him back in through physical and cyber stalking, empty threats, false accusations and smear campaigns. Get ready for cops to show up at his place for fake wellness checks. These are truly creatures of hell! Stick by your bro at all costs!

He needs to escape, and block her everywhere! Also get tested for STDs… these people will sleep with anyone even some 20 year old broke dusty dishwasher at a restaurant for validation and all the way up to a cancer patient in his 70s for money.
This post was edited on 1/30/25 at 9:06 am
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