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re: Would you take your wife back if she had a one night stand on a business trip?

Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:50 am to
Posted by Meatball
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:50 am to
No.

I would never be able to trust her again.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84354 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:51 am to
Divorce is a pain in the arse, and it's just a dickish thing to do if kids are involved.

Just be friends who sleep in the same room, bang other people, and put a good face on for the kids.

It's time to grow up, people.
Posted by SCwTiger
armpit of 'merica
Member since Aug 2014
6873 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:51 am to
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she gone
Hell to the yeah. Gonegurl
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38972 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:51 am to
frick no.
Posted by Placebeaux
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Member since Jun 2008
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Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:52 am to
quote:

Would you take your wife back if she had a one night stand on a business trip?


Did he even cum inside her?
Posted by More beer please
Member since Feb 2010
46250 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:52 am to
Nope
Posted by onelochevy
Slidell, LA
Member since Jan 2011
18029 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:52 am to
She'd be gone. It would suck but there's no way I could stay with someone who cheated on me.
Posted by LeonPhelps
Member since May 2008
8185 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:53 am to
I've never really understood why cheating out of lust rather than love is a big deal. I've never done it, but why would someone feel so betrayed? Help me to understand the mindset. How is it any worse than jacking off to the thought of someone else?

Now I can understand feeling betrayed your significant other has fallen in love with someone else, but cheating on a one night stand with a stranger doesn't seem like the end of the world to me.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48996 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:55 am to
quote:

Would you take your wife back if she had a one night stand on a business trip?


Absolutely not.


Unless we could meet up and I could watch and participate.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:55 am to
I have a co-worker that did this. her husband took her back. And she cheated on him again. And previously had cheated on him.

But she really loves him, or so she says. I don't know why she married him, as she was supposdly cheating on him every few months before they got engaged.

She cheated on him with his best friend. he never found out about it either.

to op: probably would take her back, depends on the circumstances.
This post was edited on 3/24/16 at 10:56 am
Posted by DemonKA3268
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2015
21101 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:55 am to
Agreed but easier said than done. I've been there (wife cheated), it's easy to say what you would do until it happens to you.
Posted by LSUAfro
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Member since Aug 2005
12775 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:56 am to
Important Questions:
Kids or no kids?
How'd I find out?
Was she completely wasted?
Does she have to continue to travel to make money?
How's my professional career going? Have y'all accumulated significant wealth together?

You can talk all the BS you want, but until your 35 years old with 3 kids at home, walking out the door in a marriage you were happy with aint the easiest thing to do.

No, it hasn't happened to me, but I seent it many time from his and her sides.
This post was edited on 3/24/16 at 10:57 am
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
135839 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:56 am to
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Let's say it happened overseas as well so it's not like she'll see the guy again. Would you just chalk it up to a night of indiscretion and try to work it out or kick her to the curb?

Hypothetical.


Call me stupid, beta, whatever you want. My first wife did worse to me, and I tried to work thru our issues with her. In the end, she decided she wanted to divorce, but I walked away from it with a clean conscience that I had stayed true to my wedding vows and I hold my head up high to this day because of that.
Posted by TheDeathValley
Louisiana
Member since Sep 2010
20063 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:57 am to
Bye Felecia
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:58 am to
Kneauxpe
Posted by Gorilla Fingers
Member since Jul 2011
1553 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:58 am to
Another important question you failed to mention: how hot was the other dude
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:58 am to
Can I get pics of your old lady? And possible the digits?
Posted by Thurber
NWLA
Member since Aug 2013
15405 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:59 am to
no way
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8334 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:59 am to
quote:

Important Questions:
Kids or no kids?
Let's say kids. If no kids then this isn't an issue. You dump her.
How'd I find out?
She got depressed and confessed.
Was she completely wasted?
Drunk. But not passed out drunk.
Does she have to continue to travel to make money?
Up to her.
How's my professional career going? Have y'all accumulated significant wealth together?
You make significantly more, but she has a career in her own right. Wealth is on track. And inheritance etc.

Posted by Meatball
Member since Sep 2009
5114 posts
Posted on 3/24/16 at 10:59 am to
quote:

I've never really understood why cheating out of lust rather than love is a big deal. I've never done it, but why would someone feel so betrayed?


Because they took a vow to love, honor, etc.....

It you don't understand that, I can't help you.
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