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re: Would you refuse to speak to your adult kids if they changed their religious beliefs?

Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:18 pm to
Posted by au4you
Alabama
Member since Dec 2010
2539 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:18 pm to
I would do whatever Andrew Tate thinks is best in that situation. Also, wouldn’t mind hearing what Elon Musk thinks.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Member since Jun 2023
1602 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:19 pm to
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In my experience the most diehard Christians are very often the quickest to act the exact opposite of how Christ would when it comes to loved ones rejecting the faith.


Then they aren’t Christians
Posted by LSUtiger89
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
3644 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:19 pm to
Matthew 5:43-48 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.

Basically love all people regardless what they think or believe.
Posted by TRUERockyTop
Appalachia
Member since Sep 2011
15819 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:20 pm to
I'd have a very tough time with it, but I can't imagine disowning my own flesh and blood after nurturing them and trying to guide them their entire life. I'll always love my children and be very involved and help them along their journey

Part of me would feel like a failure though. Being a Christian is incredibly important to me and I won't ever shy away or back down from that. I hope it's a bridge I never have to cross.
This post was edited on 12/14/23 at 12:27 pm
Posted by DiamondDog
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2019
10589 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:21 pm to
I have a relationship with Jesus Christ that I would hope is self evident in how I raise my kids.

Every night I say scriptures with them before bed. We pray together. My kids are 11 months and 2 years.

They will be raised to know the Lord and they've been dedicated to Him and his will.

I cannot force my kids to follow the Lord. Many Christian brothers and sisters have watched their kids stray.

It would bother me and keep me restless at nights if they turned their backs on Jesus.

But that'd make me just want to love them more. To show them He is real. He still loves them. And He will always be there for them.
Posted by ChexMix
Taste the Deliciousness
Member since Apr 2014
25127 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:21 pm to
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We don’t have any religious beliefs, so we don’t deal with any superficial drama like that


If you dont believe in something, you will fall for anything
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
3887 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:21 pm to
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I couldn't do that. You're supposed to love your kids unconditionally. This ain't that.

I am with you. God is their judge. I would express my opinion and pray for them, but most of all I would let them know I love them unconditionally. Even if I had less contact for some reason(like a serious drug problem), I would leave the door open for contact down the road.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
952 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:21 pm to
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Then they aren’t Christians


Exactly.

There is literally zero biblical support for this and plenty of support to do the opposite.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61313 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:22 pm to
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Typical religious hypocrites. Religion is a cancer on the human race. It keeps you in spiritual bondage.



Amazing how you can't see what secularist values have done to our society. Yeah, there are some painful and destructive elements of Abrahamic religion, some more than others (like Islam), but like most anti-religious and irreligious you routinely fail to recognize how much those religions, most especially Christianity, developed all of the western world.

Atheists and secularists have yet to develop a single philosophical framework that people can follow that promotes community and sacrifice.

The most notable element of secularism and atheism is its cultivation of material worth (love of money and eugenics) over all (because there's no such thing as spiritual).
Posted by runforrestrun
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
816 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:22 pm to
Of all the bullshite I’ve dealt with with my kids, their religion would be the least of my worries. Unless it was the religion of peace, but hopefully they won’t ever spend time in prison.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
3887 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:23 pm to
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I would do whatever Andrew Tate thinks is best in that situation.
Posted by msutiger
Shreveport
Member since Jul 2008
69632 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:24 pm to
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Religion is a cancer on the human race. It keeps you in spiritual bondage.


Christianity frees you from bondage. You think you are free but you are a slave to your personal desires which ultimately cannot produce long term happiness. True freedom is the ability to kill our ego which enslaves us all.
This post was edited on 12/14/23 at 12:27 pm
Posted by Boondock Saint
The Boondocks
Member since Oct 2005
4542 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:25 pm to
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Nah... only line I would draw in the sand would be if atheist or satanist


Wow...it's sad that you would do that. It's also disturbing that you lumped these belief systems together. They are two very different belief sets.

Do you feel that being a satanist is similar or "just as bad" as being an atheist?
Posted by A Smoke Break
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2018
2064 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:26 pm to
No.

God gave us free will. They're grown. Let em make their decision.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21546 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:27 pm to
Imagine an adult making their own decisions in life!

If you're that parent, you're the problem!

I wonder how many of those same parent would cut them off or "disown" them for committing crimes?
Posted by Bert Macklin FBI
Quantico
Member since May 2013
9011 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:27 pm to
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I would disown them.


So you don't talk to, work with, post on message boards with , or have any association whatsoever with anyone who isn't your religion?
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:28 pm to
How can I save them if I don't speak to them?
Posted by crewdepoo
Hogwarts
Member since Jan 2015
9616 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:28 pm to
In-laws probably wouldnt disown us if they knew our beliefs but just to be safe we lie to them.
Posted by Snipe
Member since Nov 2015
10953 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:30 pm to
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Part of me would feel like a failure though. Being a Christian is incredibly important to me and I won't ever shy away or back down from that. I hope it's a bridge I never have to cross.



You should never feel that way. Our responsibility first and foremost is to love the Lord our God with all of our heart and with all our soul and with all our mind. As commanded by Jesus Himself in Matthew 22:37.

Our children have the same free will as we have as painful as it may be it's not your failure.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48751 posts
Posted on 12/14/23 at 12:31 pm to
Were the people who are adamantly saying their religion is the only correct one born into that religion?

I would and have completely respect my children for researching and choosing what they feel is correct for them/their family.
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