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Would you be irked by your father in law if he did this?

Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:14 pm
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
10520 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:14 pm
I’m conflicted here.

Father in Law texts my wife a few weeks ago, it’s a picture of a 1099 for interest from the bank. The 1099 is to my wife and resulted from a savings account my father in law set up for my wife while she was in college. It was under her name and he would periodically put money into it to cover some of her college expenses. It’s been sitting there and he forgot about it until he gets the 1099. Apparently this bank just recently changed their reporting requirements, which is why he or my wife didn’t receive a 1099 in prior years.

So he texts it to my wife so we can report it and avoid an IRS letter. No big deal, it’s like $30 of interest so we will pay $6 of taxes - don’t really care. But he told me wife he was going to close out the account and send her a check for what was in it. He tells her “there isn’t much in there” and sends her a check for $200.

Now, I know there’s more than $200 in there if it generates $30 of interest in 2018. I look up the bank and the interest rate for their savings account, and calculate that the account had to have around a $2,000 balance.

Now at the end of the day it’s his money, so I don’t care about that. I just think it’s shitty for him to lie to his daughter like this. If he would’ve said “I had some money in there, I’m taking it out and I’ll send you a small check to cover taxes and then some” - no issue. But he’s acting like he’s doing her this really nice favor by sending her all the money from the account he’s closing, when he’s keeping most of it.

TLDR - FIL closes out a savings account he had set up in my wife’s name when she was in college. The account had $2k in it and FIL said he was going to give her the entire balance after closing it out, but only gave her $200.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora, Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
64033 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:15 pm to
It's his money, dipshit!
Posted by Costanza
Member since May 2011
3151 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:16 pm to
Drop it.
Posted by AtticusOSullivan
Member since Mar 2016
2267 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:16 pm to
Thats none of your business. Wtf are you even posting about this shite for? I bet he really likes you.
Posted by Costanza
Member since May 2011
3151 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:16 pm to
Bang his wife
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:16 pm to
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Posted by Splackavellie
Bayou
Member since Oct 2017
9836 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:17 pm to
Amen.
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
28589 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:17 pm to
It’s none of your business.
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39784 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:18 pm to
Yes, but let it go
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
58890 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:18 pm to
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Drop it.


Yep. It’s not worth it. Rarely if ever is.
Posted by SavageOrangeJug
Member since Oct 2005
19758 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:19 pm to
I wouldn't have sent the $200.

I would have closed it and put MY money in my bank account.
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79231 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:19 pm to
The money isn't the issue, but it would just make me a little skeptical/confused as to why he handled it like that.

I wouldn't lose respect for him forever or anything, it just may make me doubt other stuff he tells me for a while.
Posted by atxfan
Member since Jul 2004
3536 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:21 pm to
Irked? Who cares? It'a weird that you even went to look up the bank's interest rates. Assuming you're poor and want the rest of the money?
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
3999 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:21 pm to
$1,800 management fee, baw
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:21 pm to
It'd bother me because it'd be completely out of character for my father in law, but I wouldn't make a big deal over it.
Posted by Simmesport
ElDorado Ar
Member since Aug 2019
262 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:24 pm to
Probably don’t like you
Posted by MBclass83
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
9361 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:29 pm to
I feel ya. My FIL has done some shady stuff too. It's really taken a toll on my spouse just knowing what kind of person her dad is. My advise is let it go and be happy it was just 2000.00. I got jacked out of 6000.00 and now he's mad at me cause I wouldn't lend him 140,000.00 for a house. He didn't want to deal with the bank but it was okay if I took it out of IRA, paying taxes and penalties. WTF??
Posted by UAinSOUTHAL
Mobile,AL
Member since Dec 2012
4830 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:29 pm to
Op I think you might be mistaken. It depends on how the interest is calculated. If it's monthly and Jan 2018 it had $5k in there and then it was drawn down over the year to a $200 balance it would certainly show interest for all of the money that went thru the account not just the final balance of the account.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:29 pm to
He gave y'all enough to cover the tax liability.

Maybe he hadn't reimbursed himself for some of her expenses? Ever think of that?
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
38526 posts
Posted on 3/4/20 at 5:30 pm to
It's his money to do what he pleases with. He didn't really owe you an explanation.
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