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re: Would you be in a good situation today if your wife left you?

Posted on 11/21/19 at 11:21 pm to
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
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Posted on 11/21/19 at 11:21 pm to
Posted by Paul Allen
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Posted on 11/21/19 at 11:22 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 11:26 pm to
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the odds are you’ll be happier in the long run.


I don't think having someone more accomplished would do much fr me. It's not high on my list.
Posted by TrapperJohn
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
12334 posts
Posted on 11/21/19 at 11:33 pm to
We have so many kids together that we would just have to live with each other if one of us turns into a jackass. I’m decent looking with a good job and no chick would be knockin’ on my door with six kids in the mix.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 11/22/19 at 12:03 am to
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S


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Paul Allen


You complete me
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78672 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 12:06 am to
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tgrbaitn08


Posted by TexasTiger89
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2005
26993 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 12:54 am to
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2 kids that would suck arse.


Punctuate man, punctuate.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 11/22/19 at 1:03 am to
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I left my ex-H 5 years ago.


Why?
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 1:13 am to
Yes, I would. That said, I'm in a great spot now. You can make what you want out of any situation.

If my wife left me it would be her stupid decision, and I wouldn't want to be with someone that made that decision anyway.
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
32625 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 1:54 am to
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I’d have way more money


Yea I don’t think that’s true

The other things though, all true
Posted by Bard
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Posted on 11/22/19 at 6:08 am to
Fuuuuuuuuuck no. I would be an emotional fricking wreck for at least the next year or two.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
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Posted on 11/22/19 at 6:19 am to
I would save around $800 a month on her health insurance, so yes. Would be hard to run her off after 40 years married.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Member since Apr 2012
17754 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 6:23 am to
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Fuuuuuuuuuck no. I would be an emotional fricking wreck for at least the next year or two.


Our marriage is really strong. Her suddenly leaving me today would be devastating emotionally and financially. But I would eventually pick myself off the dirt and come back stronger.
Posted by Huck Finn
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2009
2642 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 6:56 am to
She's my best friend and we've shared our entire adult lives together. All of my good memories are with her. And we have kids.
I would never find anyone more fun and loyal.
So, no. I would not consider that a good situation.
Posted by Barrister
Member since Jul 2012
5350 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 6:58 am to
Financially? Sure.
Emotionally and everything else? Hell no. My wife is my rock
Posted by lynxcat
Member since Jan 2008
25333 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:02 am to
I think anyone in a loving relationship would acknowledge that losing a SO would be an emotional time. However, I think the cards get overplayed about not being able to move on.
Posted by Nicky Parrish
Member since Apr 2016
7098 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:35 am to
Yes and no
Posted by Tigersonfire
Pville
Member since Oct 2018
3027 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:38 am to
We have same amount in retirement accounts so that would break even.

We make close to same money and visitation would be 50/50 so no absurd child support payments.

Bank accounts are joint so that would be the biggest wildcard.

I'd let her and kids live in the house till they graduated then split equity.

It would be very taxing on us as a family. But anyone that doesn't start thinking about the financial repercussions of divorce after the very first thought of asking for her hand. Is simply blind and probably shouldn't be getting married to start with. Sure betas will tell you it's all about love and this or that. All the while their wife runs their complete life and will destroy it as soon as she figures out being married to a bitch boy isn't what she thought It'd be. And they are left broken and BROKE. frick that noise. I love my wife but not enough to blindly let her ruin my complete life and future.

Women are the most fierce animals on the planet and will only seek out total destruction in your life once they've been wronged or find better dick than yours.
This post was edited on 11/22/19 at 7:39 am
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:38 am to
No. Our son is 13....she should probably wait to leave. She is 42, so likely there’s no better time, it’d just be bad for me and our boy.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
173715 posts
Posted on 11/22/19 at 7:43 am to
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