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re: Would any of you ever raise and support another man's kids?

Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:05 pm to
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:05 pm to
I couldn't under the most common circumstances. No way I'm spending my heart and wallet on the product of someone else fricking my wife.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55643 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:05 pm to
Take in a godchild or family member? Yes

Be a step dad?
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
141958 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:08 pm to
Posted by memphis tiger
Memphis, TN
Member since Feb 2006
20720 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:11 pm to
quote:


not a chance in hell


So hypothetically, you meet a woman who is widowed with say 2 small children. She’s perfect in just about every way.

You would not be willing to raise the kids with her? That’s a deal breaker?
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
19837 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:12 pm to
Not the kids fault its sperm/egg donor is a pos.


YES!
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
35035 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:15 pm to
quote:

So hypothetically, you meet a woman who is widowed with say 2 small children. She’s perfect in just about every way.


She isn't perfect. She has 2 frick trophies that disqualified her from anything but a one night stand.
quote:

You would not be willing to raise the kids with her? That’s a deal breaker?

Not my kid. Not my problem.

Now, family or God child is different. I will never date or marry someone with a child already. Zero chance in hell.
Posted by FelicianaTigerfan
Comanche County
Member since Aug 2009
26059 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:15 pm to
I am right now. Started when he was 2 1/2 and he is now 14. What ya wanna know?

His dad owes 20k in child support but his son don’t know that. We still let him go see him and be there for holidays.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
17553 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:16 pm to
in every scenario I can think of except one, yes.

If my wife were to cheat on me and get knocked up, no.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15327 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:16 pm to
Depends on how much I love that woman.
Posted by Barstools
Atlanta
Member since Jan 2016
9425 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:19 pm to
Kids are a deal breaker.
Posted by Macavity92
Member since Dec 2004
5981 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:20 pm to
I am a stepfather. One if the greatest experiences of my life. My stepdaughter is wonderful. Her dad is great, get along well with him too. There are a good many wonderful things I would have missed out on had I not married her mother.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:21 pm to
The man who raised me, adopted me at 3, with a life threatening kidney disease. 16 years later, we adopted my cousin who has been raised as my sister. My dad is awesomely unselfish.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166288 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:22 pm to
Money never to be collected
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108422 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:23 pm to
If and when I ever get married, absolutely. I plan on having 2 biological kids and then adopting a girl from China. So yeah, I’d absolutely raise another man’s kid to save them. I’ve been in a Chinese orphanage, and I vowed if I have a wife that I’d adopt one of these girls. It’s an almost non-negotiable factor for me getting married.
Posted by AlxTgr
Kyre Banorg
Member since Oct 2003
81632 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:24 pm to
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Why wouldn’t I?
Because it's not in your genes' best interest. This is why infidelity is more tolerated by women than by men.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
17553 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:25 pm to
Awesome Liz,

love hearing stories like these.
Posted by dkreller
Laffy
Member since Jan 2009
30302 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:25 pm to
I’m doing it

Worth every penny
Posted by TigerOnTheMountain
Higher Elevation
Member since Oct 2014
41773 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:25 pm to
Plenty of girls here in America need adopting. Or are you the type that wants to post your colored baby on social media so all of your progressive friends will be impressed?
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124242 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:26 pm to
No.

Which is kind of shitty of me because i’m A single dad with 2 kids. But if I ever get serious with a woman again I don’t want to be dealing with some other dudes spawn and all that drama.

Plus I want more kids so I want all my woman’s resources going to my own offspring.

Not to mention if things go south after you’ve forged a connection with those kids then that’s an even worse pain than losing the woman


ETA: kind of sucks because I love kids and i’m Great with them. But I just don’t think I could deal with even more of a shuffle. Plus they’re never really gonna be mine.

This post was edited on 5/7/18 at 10:31 pm
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 5/7/18 at 10:27 pm to
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LSUSkip


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