re: Women suck as they age

Once sex robots actually arrive, women will be irrelevant.

Is your wife 12? That’s some shite my pre-teen would say.

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she and her 17 year old daughter

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This why you don't marry, son

Divorce her

Being in a good marriage is better than being single, particularly when you get a little older. Being single is better than being in a bad marriage though. Make sure you don't marry someone crazy

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Last night, mine says she wants us to cook Sunday dinner. She says she doesn’t know what to cook. I suggest cooking a Turkey breast.

Today, she starts complaining about not wanting to spend money on Sunday dinner. I hand her a 100 dollar bill.

Then she starts complaining about not knowing what to cook. I reminded her that I already suggested turkey.

Then she complains that she doesn’t want it. I asked her what she wants. She then whines that she doesn’t want to go to the store.

…there’s the problem. Took all that to get to the problem.

So I told her let’s go to the store together and we did.

She looked at me mean when I took the 100 dollars back so I could pay for the groceries.

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Your wife has a deep seated, evolutionary driven fear of being ostracized. In modern terms, she's afraid of coming off "as a bitch".

She said she said she wanted "us" to cook Sunday dinner.

Question: Did she mean that she wanted to cook dinner, you both to engage in cooking dinner, or for you to cook dinner but didn't want to risk sounding like a bitch by asking?

Only you know her well enough to have an idea.

Later, she listed off reasons one after another about why the plan she set is no longer viable.

Depending on your answer to the first question, this is either because she wanted you to do the cooking, but you didn't take the bait. Or, it means she genuinely meant it originally but later changed her mind.

Either way, her list of silly excuses were simply avoidance behavior instead of simply telling you that she had changed her mind, again, because in her head, it would make her come off as a bitch.

Talk to your wife. Let her know that it's ok for her to change her mind. But that jumping through hoops in an attempt to give her what you think she wants when that's no longer what she wants is frustrating for you, and it would reduce stress for you if she would just be upfront about changing her mind. ***Here's the important part*** Tell her this is because the lack of communication makes you feel like there's conflict between you, but because you can't understand why, it makes you feel distant from her. And you want to avoid that feeling at all costs.

About what part?

Idk what you are talking about. Wife turned 55; married for 35 years. She’s still just an awesome human being. Marry well folks.