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re: Women leave men - Is her relationship analysis correct???
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:24 pm to nick__21
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:24 pm to nick__21
I was just making a joke because this was one of the most depressing threads I’ve ever read on TD.
There’s no secret to a healthy relationship, but if a dude wants to get laid it’s pretty simple: keep yourself in shape, be a little mysterious (don’t talk about yourself a lot), have a good personality, and a few hot female friends. That last part is key. Hot women want to know that you have other hot women in your orbit.
There’s no secret to a healthy relationship, but if a dude wants to get laid it’s pretty simple: keep yourself in shape, be a little mysterious (don’t talk about yourself a lot), have a good personality, and a few hot female friends. That last part is key. Hot women want to know that you have other hot women in your orbit.
This post was edited on 10/30/22 at 5:25 pm
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Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:25 pm to tiggerthetooth
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Men still work more and bring home more money over their lifetime. I don't care what you say. Women and men are NOT the same no matter how many l'oreal other corporate commercials make you think that. A man's physique is important to a point, a woman's much more. A rich man can get many very good looking women to marry him, a rich woman cannot get very good looking men if she's not also herself good looking. Men are judged by what they do (money/career/skill/status) and women are mostly judged by what they are (looks). There's a reason women still marry for income and status even in the 21st century and men will bang and marry any waitress/bartender that will give them the time of day. There is no seeking arrangement for poor men looking for wealthy women it's girls looking for wealthy men to give them money on their looks.
As was said by a poster after me, it doesn’t matter who is making more in the context of men using lack of time as an excuse for turning into a slob. If those slobs want to say they have enough money to offset being a slob, more power to them. For their sake, I hope they’re right
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:34 pm to nick__21
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Hard for a lot of guys though since the average 21 year old male is a virgin or had sex with one girl and the average 21 year old girl has had 10+ "partners"
Scary thought, gonna have to send my sons to vegas just to compete.
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:59 pm to USMCguy121
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Scary thought, gonna have to send my sons to vegas just to compete.
Just have him lift. Fit guys frick anywhere pretty easily. Thanks to feminism they'll even deliver the goods to you with minimal effort.
Posted on 10/30/22 at 6:04 pm to jclem11
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The issue is most women have completely insane standards.
I blame online dating. If you have a female friend on Bumble or something, check out the guys who match them. Typically way out of their leagues. As a guy it’s rare you get someone on your level, I call it the “convenience fee.”
They get a big head and think no one is good enough for them unless they’re a rich GQ model. And sometimes they even get their way.
Posted on 10/30/22 at 6:05 pm to Honest Tune
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There’s no secret to a healthy relationship,
Getting the government involved in your relationship is an openly known terrible decision
And people still get marriage certificates for no discernable reason
You don't have to sign paperwork to the state to have a religious marriage either, so spare me.
This post was edited on 10/30/22 at 6:09 pm
Posted on 10/30/22 at 6:07 pm to Joshjrn
Being a fat rich slob just means you’ll marry a hot girl who’ll bang her spin instructor
It’s not 1975
It’s not 1975
Posted on 10/30/22 at 6:12 pm to nick__21
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Hard for a lot of guys though since the average 21 year old male is a virgin or had sex with one girl and the average 21 year old girl has had 10+ "partners"
fake news Posted on 10/30/22 at 6:15 pm to Caraway Rye
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Getting the government involved in your relationship is an openly known terrible decision And people still get marriage certificates for no discernable reason You don't have to sign paperwork to the state to have a religious marriage either, so spare me.
I’m 40, never been married, one child from a long term relationship.
At this point, I can’t see myself ever getting married. I’ve just grown too accustomed to doing whatever the hell I want to do when I want to do it. I enjoy the company of a beautiful woman here and there, but eventually everything palls. Life is too short to be unhappy.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 12:24 pm to Joshjrn
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If my wife died/left/got raptured tomorrow, would I change anything? Would I start exercising more, eating right, doing/not doing XYZ? If I would immediately start doing things differently, why am I not doing them now? How is that fair to her as the person who invested in me? That I would put in more effort to attract someone who has done absolutely fricking nothing for me? How fricked up is that, that I would give better to that hypothetical future person who I owe nothing?
When this year began, I started gaining this mindset. I closed a business last year and took a job with a big construction company. I finally got settled in on that and began getting the rest of my life in order and lost 40 pounds and feel much better. I have a ways to go still but I feel good and can get there. Started thinking more on how I can do better better for my wife and started planning a trip to the Keys because I thought she would love it.
Fast forward to July and I called her out on having an affair. She had been with the guy for a couple months at that point that I know of and we are finalizing paperwork on the divorce. She never supported me but yet expected me to do everything for her. She has put more effort into her affair than she put into 5 years of our marriage. She compares our marriage with her two friends’ marriages. One of her friends is an accountant and makes all the money in the marriage and the other married a guy who worked at Chick-fil-A and now owns two in Atlanta. They travel all the time and she doesn’t have to work. But they both put in their time but my wife still compares now for now.
I am still working on myself to be the best version of myself I can be. I will be hesitant on the next relationship as I’m getting fricked in the divorce and in how it ended. It is hard not to carry that baggage but it isn’t fair to the next.
This post was edited on 10/31/22 at 5:28 pm
Posted on 10/31/22 at 12:40 pm to TrueTiger
Per snoop: man frick them hoes!
And how the frick you stumble upon that YouTube channel? Jesus Christ!
And how the frick you stumble upon that YouTube channel? Jesus Christ!
This post was edited on 10/31/22 at 12:41 pm
Posted on 10/31/22 at 12:44 pm to Warfarer
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I called her out on having an affair.
How did you find out?
Posted on 10/31/22 at 12:48 pm to Mo Jeaux
I had onstar guardian for the family and noticed she had been lying where she was a few times. When I was out of town, she came home at 2:30 in the morning and set the alarm off which started the whole snowball. I told immediately that if she lied to me one more time that we were getting divorced and she lied again so I told her it was over.
For us, it was all about Facebook and Instagram. She is obsessed with them and has to have the appearance of the perfect t life on them.
For us, it was all about Facebook and Instagram. She is obsessed with them and has to have the appearance of the perfect t life on them.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 12:55 pm to Upperdecker
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These threads are always full of low quality men and divorcees with some serious baggage. It’s not a good reflection of the world. There are those types of men and women, it’s not just a women or men thing
kinda agree with this. no offense to those that have gone through divorce, their fault or otherwise, but in my 20 years of life post college, 2 couples i would call "good friends" have gotten a divorce (both due to cheating.)
it's not as common in most of society, as the internet would have us believe.
that being said, i do think that the concept of good guys who want to settle down and have a family is a self depleting group. girls who know the value of a family and traditional marriage are pulling those guys off the market while the world is trying to tell the other women to go after jobs, career, sex, and fun. I'm not saying women in society don't desire those things or shouldn't be allowed them, but women in their late 30s and 40s are going to find that available guys don't want a boss bitch when they can find a newer model with less hangups.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 1:00 pm to Warfarer
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For us, it was all about Facebook and Instagram. She is obsessed with them and has to have the appearance of the perfect t life on them.
It is a terrible disease. I'm hoping me and my wife can figure out how to keep our girls from getting infected with this mindset. You can't be happy in life if social media is your measuring stick.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 1:02 pm to Warfarer
Damn, man. Sorry to hear about that. Good for you for moving on.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 1:02 pm to notsince98
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It is a terrible disease. I'm hoping me and my wife can figure out how to keep our girls from getting infected with this mindset
i let my son do bereal because it's an in and out app, but i made him watch Social Dilemma and he bowed out from any of the others.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 1:08 pm to notsince98
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For us, it was all about Facebook and Instagram. She is obsessed with them and has to have the appearance of the perfect t life on them.
It is a terrible disease. I'm hoping me and my wife can figure out how to keep our girls from getting infected with this mindset. You can't be happy in life if social media is your measuring stick.
So, I'm a member of the "Triple 6" club that women supposedly want.
I can tell you, without a doubt, that this really doesn't matter either.
One of the quick lessons I learned two years ago when I started dating again was that, if a woman has a FB/Insta/TikTok profile that is used multiple times a day for something other than being in sales/real estate, etc, then you will NEVER please that woman.
Her desire to be seen as something she isn't on social media is something you will NEVER be able to satisfy. I learned that lesson the hard way with one. Really liked her, but she said "something was missing". Yeah, it was the drama. I would tell her I didn't want our shite on FB. She would get upset. Relationship ended, and not long after, she's posting daily pics of her and her new man. LOLOLOL. Good for them.
There are some good women out there, but they are few and far between. I've dated dozens of women in the past couple years and learned a lot. I finally found one in that .0001%. I'm gonna treat her like a damn queen.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 1:11 pm to Joshjrn
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If those slobs want to say they have enough money to offset being a slob
Rich ugly dudes attract shallow women who are screwing everyone but him. Those dollar signs don't make him sexier, they make him a target.
Posted on 10/31/22 at 4:22 pm to TrueTiger
It's a few things. American Millennial/GenZ women are basically treated like children by their Boomer/Gen X parents well into their twenties and that they deserve to be treated like a princess but are also taught that they shouldn't have to do "wifely" things like raise kids, stay attractive, or clean.
This upbringing also leads to a total lack of self awareness where women think 100k is average salary for men.
This upbringing also leads to a total lack of self awareness where women think 100k is average salary for men.
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