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re: Women cannot seem to separate physical attraction from emotional/psychological attraction

Posted on 4/13/25 at 11:05 pm to
Posted by cbree88
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Posted on 4/13/25 at 11:05 pm to
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burps loud in public


Some people like this. Farting too
Posted by Lou Loomis
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Member since Mar 2025
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Posted on 4/13/25 at 11:09 pm to
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I think a lot of women love drama so they won’t admit that they love toxic relationships with shite head dudes. I


Most women have big time daddy issues. There’s your answer.
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 12:52 am to
Idiot..
Posted by pizota13
Addis, La
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 3:35 am to
You are spot on!!!!!! You should be a Doctor.
Posted by glassart
Member since Apr 2021
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 5:57 am to
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I’ve seen some smoke shows who are dating absolute frogs, and they call him “handsome”. Their


Bot posts are like the old 80’s horror movies where you have to repeatedly suspend disbelief to go along.
Posted by Bard
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 6:05 am to
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I think a lot of women love drama so they won’t admit that they love toxic relationships with shite head dudes. It’s rinse and repeat a lot of times and they end of up having kids with different dads. The dudes they like all have a sleeve tattoos, flat bill hats, mustache or mullets. It’s hilarious to sit back and watch.


I think it's the combination of a couple of things, mainly the desires for drama (the attention it brings to them) and to "fix" someone (women are far more likely to have nurturing natures, which is why they are more likely to be in the teaching, sociology and medical professions). People like that (both male and female) tend to not see their criteria for choosing potential mates as part of the problem (much less a foundational part).
Posted by Strannix
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Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 6:15 am to
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The dudes they like all have a sleeve tattoos, flat bill hats, mustache or mullets. It’s hilarious to sit back and watch.


Have a friend like this, she could have had her pick of any man. She has for the entire time I have known her exclusively dated one sub group. She is fit, tall, blonde and has a good career.

Absolute pre-requisites for her.

Man must have several toxic exes with children he doesnt really take care of.

Is a cop or oilfield - blue collar type.

Must be on steroids and jacked up.

Visible affliction type tattoos with ear gauges a plus. Will not have a normal haircut.

Flat bill hat, tshirts that are too small, blue jeans with designs and rips and some bling.

They will cheat on her but I think she almost likes it at this point. She feeds off the drama.

Mentally abusive, belittling etc.

Its interesting.
Posted by chrome_daddy
LA (Lower Ashvegas)
Member since May 2004
2332 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 6:16 am to
I knew you were the OP when I saw the thread title. Did some hot babe reject you and you are looking for sympathy here? And validation that yes, you still are a good looking male and this woman who rejected you will do a lot worse?

Because your premise is bullshite. Most women do go for the hotter looking men, the guys they initially are attracted to regardless of red flags or compatibility issues. You know that what I say is true. Move on, own your rejection. And who gives a shite, you are probably better off alone because the population of women that's left over out there. It's not good.
Posted by The Torch
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Member since Aug 2014
23946 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 6:35 am to
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separate physical attraction from emotional/psychological attraction


Physical - Money what they want without working for it

Emotional/Psychological - Bitches don't care about this bullsheet.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
15067 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 6:47 am to
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Anyway, I just find this odd. If I think a woman is good-looking, I think she’s good-looking no matter how she acts. It doesn’t change. Also, men in general have physical traits they’re attracted to, and it doesn’t ch


I use to be like this. Now a very attractive woman can become ugly to me almost instantly depending on what comes out of her mouth.

The reverse is true as well.
This post was edited on 4/14/25 at 6:48 am
Posted by Woolfpack
Member since Jun 2021
1095 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 6:59 am to
On a subconscious level, we (men and women) are attracted to the same things cavemen were attracted to.

They say it takes 10,000 years for the brain to evolve in any significant way.

We are cavemen roaming around with smartphones, cars, guns, central A/C and indoor plumbing and laser beams etc…
Posted by BigTx
Member since Aug 2021
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:02 am to
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Anyway, I just find this odd. If I think a woman is good-looking, I think she’s good-looking no matter how she acts. It doesn’t change.


Maybe. Or maybe you’re young. In my earlier years, I felt that way. Today, the character of a woman can make an average looking woman so much more beautiful to me.
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10327 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:03 am to
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think a lot of men love drama


What men are you hanging out with? Maybe a bunch of gay dudes?

Straight men, at least the ones I know, detest drama and avoid it like the plague.
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
31234 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:06 am to
my company gets me a discount at one of the nicest fitness clubs in Dallas. All I look at is smoke shows in their 30s and 40s that leave with a 50/60 something dude that looks like your average bald overweight dad/granddad.

Then they get in his Ferrari or G Wagon.
Posted by KennabraTiger
Kenner, LA
Member since Sep 2013
7309 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:09 am to
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I’ve seen some smoke shows who are dating absolute frogs, and they call him “handsome”.

This has worked out very well for me.
Posted by scottydoesntknow
Member since Nov 2023
7598 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:09 am to
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Anyone else find this phenomenon with women quite bizarre and perplexing?


Not really, women are wired much differently
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
10327 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:38 am to
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I know this, a smoking hot woman is a lot less attractive the second she lights up a cigarette


This is a top 3 turn off for me. I’m no lady killer and I’m sure I never had a shot anyway, but if she’s smoking a cigarette I’ll never find out because I’m out. Cigarettes are one of stupidest things people do even though it’s clear how bad they are for you and how disgusting it smells.

Seeing someone smoking a cigarette immediately drops their IQ in my opinion.
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
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Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:42 am to
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Today, the character of a woman can make an average looking woman so much more beautiful to me.

Exactly. And the sooner a man figures this out, the better off he will be.

No amount of hotness can make up for a personality that makes you want to hit her face with a shovel. That quantity of hotness simply does not exist but some dudes act like it does.

Oh, you just want to sleep with her because she has purdy body parts? Even though the hair stands up on the back of your neck every time she says something? Fine. Odd, but fine. But understand that 1000 dudes will employ that strategy and at least 10 of them end up having a kid with soulless, vapid, mean women.
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
31234 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 7:53 am to
The older I get nothing is more attractive than a classy woman that can speak intelligently and doesn’t look trashy

Call me old school, but I can’t deal with smoking or even tattoos.
Posted by HouseMom
Member since Jun 2020
1409 posts
Posted on 4/14/25 at 8:40 am to
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Their opinion on who’s handsome seems to change depending on how a man acts and how he makes them feel.


This is not a phenomenon, it just describes the female brain. Women are looking at the hot/smart matrix just like guys look at the hot/crazy matrix. Although beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there is still objective attractiveness. There's the initial "he's cute" for sure, but then he opens his mouth.

Women, on an instinctive level, seek security/providing and protection for themselves and their future children. Knowing that my husband could kill me with his bare hands is a strange thing. And the vast majority of women know they're defenseless against the vast majority of men. So yeah, a good looking man who's dumber than a box of rocks is a no go. Women need to know that a man has a functioning brain with self-control (protect) and general intelligence (provide).

And to add an obvious point, women who were raised with great fathers are going to set the bar pretty high for the men they date.
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