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re: Will my wife ever stop buying smocked dresses for our daughter?

Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:11 am to
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
20234 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:11 am to
Smocked clothing for kids is awful
Posted by DayBowBow
Member since Jun 2011
5060 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:16 am to
My wife is at least reasonable and buys them at the huge consignment sales but then also bought our daughter 6 Christmas dresses.

I assume they’ll go back to the same consignment sales once we know we’re not having another girl.
Posted by cable
Member since Oct 2018
9735 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:17 am to
why do you give a shite about what you dress your daughter is wearing?
Posted by GeorgeQGlass
Austin
Member since Oct 2017
297 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:26 am to
quote:

8-12 grand a year


For dance???

Jesus fricking Christ. That's ridiculous.

Just stop and think if you could upload logic to a woman and let her see that the ROI on that is basically nothing. If you halted dance for a mere 3 years, you could potentially invest $24k-$36k on something worthwhile.

But alas, you let your wife decide to spend it on costumes that they'll never wear again just so your daughter can twirl on stage for a few minutes.

Not to mention the countless hours on "dance practice", the mileage spent on to and fro, the long weekends sitting in some god-awful center watching this crap.

All, so by the time she hits 16, she's no longer interested in dance. Perhaps, if so inclined, she makes it on the dance squad in highschool.

Wow. What a waste.
Posted by TrouserTrout
Member since Nov 2017
6425 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:51 am to
I’m so happy my first and probably only child was a boy. My wife always says I should be happy we didn’t have a girl just for the same stupid reason you speak of.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19183 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:56 am to
The kids enjoy it and it teaches the girls how to be ladies

Good thing money is no issue
Posted by Steadyhands
Slightly above I-10
Member since May 2016
7201 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:56 am to
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Btw wait till you have a dance recital and you have to spend $1,000 when it is all said and done for your 3 year old to just sit their while the other kids dance.thats on top of wasting a whole weekend. For your kid to dance for 6 mins


This is a beta move. My daughter did dance around that age, and in no way was that much money spent. Maybe you should take the pants back from your wife and not allow her to make stupid decisions.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59320 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:00 am to
It must be because I didn't grow up in the south, but I hate the smocked look.

Especially when woman make their sons wear smocked clothes. Poor kids looks ridiculous.
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
55342 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:05 am to
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All, so by the time she hits 16, she's no longer interested in dance. Perhaps, if so inclined, she makes it on the dance squad in highschool.


it's an investment in her having higher chances to be cute and popular...
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86677 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:07 am to
Smocked clothing is not allowed in my house

Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
44798 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:07 am to
We own a children's store. Smocked dresses pay the bills bro.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86677 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:09 am to
that's kinda interesting

my wife manages a kids store, but they have been going away from smocked clothing recently and going towards the more modern clothes

smocked clothes weren't selling like they used to

Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:10 am to
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Just wait for USA Swimming swim meets


FIFY. Friday night, all day Saturday and all day Sunday.
Posted by Perrydawg
Middle Ga Area
Member since Jan 2014
5159 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:15 am to
My wife tried to smock stuff with my son and I put a stop to that fast. You want him to wear a polo shirt then that is fine but he is a boy and we dress him like a boy. She wanted to monogram stuff for him and I said no boys do not need anything monogramed. She does make shirts for him at the holidays but I stop trying to fight that
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
69233 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:37 am to
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Had I known then what I know now, I never wouldve let my daughter start dance. shite is very expensive. 8-12 grand a year.


Wtf, was she on the travel team?
Posted by Loaner1231
Violet, LA
Member since Jan 2016
3903 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:52 am to
quote:

quote:

Btw wait till you have a dance recital and you have to spend $1,000 when it is all said and done for your 3 year old to just sit their while the other kids dance.thats on top of wasting a whole weekend. For your kid to dance for 6 mins



quote:

These are the absolute worst. Thank god for smartphones and the OT



I grew up having to attend dance recitals and competitions. At first they were absolutely brutal... When I reached the age where girls became a major interest, they were a highlight. Looking back, it is kind of absurd what these parents will allow their young teen girls to wear on stage; and some of the ways these dances are choreographed. The only downside for young me was constantly having to hide erections and the insane blue balls afterwords. Got quite a few girlfriends out of the deal though.

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it's an investment in her having higher chances to be cute and popular...


chalmetteowl... I played on a baseball team with a few Holy Cross guys during high school. A few of their girlfriends showed up to one of the first tournaments and we were all hanging out in the bleachers before a game. I was speaking to one of the single friends and she stated proudly that she was a "Charma". The group absolutely lost their minds when I said I had no idea what a "Charma" was.
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59320 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:57 am to
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She wanted to monogram stuff for him and I said no boys do not need anything monogramed. She does make shirts for him at the holidays but I stop trying to fight that

I love monogrammed clothes, but have only bought two pieces for my son. One was his coming home outfit (which didn't fit until he was 2 months) and the other is a shirt for his first birthday. I don't buy others because honestly I don't feel like spending $20 on a shirt he will fit into for a month. He is 10.5 months and already on his 6th set of clothing.
Posted by Choctaw
Pumpin' Sunshine
Member since Jul 2007
77774 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:57 am to
i don't know what this is
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
59320 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:59 am to
quote:

i don't know what this is

Posted by Isabelle81
NEW ORLEANS, LA
Member since Sep 2015
2718 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 9:00 am to
I believe some see smocked clothing on children as a status symbol.
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