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re: Wife's "guy" friend from college
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:54 pm to The Pirate King
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:54 pm to The Pirate King
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the fact she restarted this friendship means she's not being fulfilled at home
Please tell me you're joking
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Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:56 pm to FlowMaster
Sloppy seconds in your own house is a bad deal.
Good luck with the divorce and slaying new vag.
Good luck with the divorce and slaying new vag.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 6:58 pm to FlowMaster
You told her it was OK.
Then got insecure, which she noticed.
Then snooped in her phone.
Then admitted that snooping to her.
Then told her you demand she no longer see the guy.
You proved to be jealous, manipulative, controlling, untrustworthy, and obnoxious.
Damage has been done my friend. If you love her and you want to be with her you need to get over your issues. Trust her or leave her.no matter who she's with.
Any guy with an attractive SO knows that dudes come sniffing. You have to show you care more than them and it doesn't bother you. You become a jealous little bitch and show insecurity you are already losing.
Trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. Hard to gain, harder to keep, and damn near impossible to rebuild
Then got insecure, which she noticed.
Then snooped in her phone.
Then admitted that snooping to her.
Then told her you demand she no longer see the guy.
You proved to be jealous, manipulative, controlling, untrustworthy, and obnoxious.
Damage has been done my friend. If you love her and you want to be with her you need to get over your issues. Trust her or leave her.no matter who she's with.
Any guy with an attractive SO knows that dudes come sniffing. You have to show you care more than them and it doesn't bother you. You become a jealous little bitch and show insecurity you are already losing.
Trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship. Hard to gain, harder to keep, and damn near impossible to rebuild
This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 6:59 pm
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:00 pm to Breesus
Good post breesus. I agree
You have to not care about what happens. You can love her and still show her she means the world to you. But the moment you show your insecurities you have lost her IMO.
You have to be able to imagine a scenario where she leaves you and you have to be ok with that. Because that's her loss and you'll be better off long term.
You have to not care about what happens. You can love her and still show her she means the world to you. But the moment you show your insecurities you have lost her IMO.
You have to be able to imagine a scenario where she leaves you and you have to be ok with that. Because that's her loss and you'll be better off long term.
This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 7:02 pm
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:06 pm to FlowMaster
Does her loser "friend" look like this guy? If so, she'll be asking for her jewelry soon.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:06 pm to TulaneUVA
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You have to not care about what happens. You can love her and still show her she means the world to you. But the moment you show your insecurities you have lost her IMO.
horrible advice....
if there is inappropriate behavior that is happening, he needs to confront it and let her know that it is not acceptable. by acting like nothing is wrong, he is rewarding her bad behavior and leting her think what she is doing is ok.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:06 pm to Slim Chance
Lester!
The pimp from Oakland!
The pimp from Oakland!
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:08 pm to TulaneUVA
quote:.
And she didn't delete the messages so she probably didn't think too much of it. If she was truly cheating in you already, her guilt would have shown her cards and she would have deleted it. She would be more discrete.
I disagree.
She left that text there because it really isn't proof of anything and she is testing their boundaries. Now she knows texting isn't safe and the OP is on to her. She will be more discreet from this point on; and she has a reason to.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:10 pm to prplhze2000
I have college friends that I used to nail who are married now. It wasn't ever a serious thing, just random hook-ups. I don't think their hubbys know about it, and I wouldn't ever tell them. I also wouldn't text them the BS that this dude's wife got texted. In fact, I am friends with all of their husbands and respect them enough to never hang out with the chicks without their men. I respect their marriages, and wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole, even if they were stark naked and grinding on me.
This guy's wife is already emotionally involved and attached to the other guy. You can tell by the way she got all defensive and came at him when he questioned everything. She will be deleting texts and calls from now on, and probably secretly meeting up with the guy she is "helping". All the while, she'll justify everything by blaming it on her husband. Textbook woman
This guy's wife is already emotionally involved and attached to the other guy. You can tell by the way she got all defensive and came at him when he questioned everything. She will be deleting texts and calls from now on, and probably secretly meeting up with the guy she is "helping". All the while, she'll justify everything by blaming it on her husband. Textbook woman
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:11 pm to jrodLSUke
Have him killed. Problem solved.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:13 pm to Hammertime
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Textbook woman
It really is. She has clearly demonstrated that the boyfriend is more important than the husband.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:14 pm to Displaced
quote:
if there is inappropriate behavior that is happening, he needs to confront it and let her know that it is not acceptable. by acting like nothing is wrong, he is rewarding her bad behavior and leting her think what she is doing is ok
Exactly. This is marriage we're talking about, not "Cool College Dating 101".
"No, bro, you just let her know you're insecure. Gotta be cool about it."
frick all that noise. There aren't supposed to be mind games in marriage. You have to put in the work to make it through, and that requires cooperation from BOTH sides.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:15 pm to Hammertime
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Sorry to say it, but she's built an emotional attachment to another dude. Next, she'll be sneaking around to hang out with him. You'll be constantly lied to, and she'll be fricking the dude behind your back soon because you're such a "bad husband" and "overbearing". She'll find am excuse to get with the other dude, and use that excuse to allow herself to sex him, blaming it on you the whole time. All women are the same at their core. They are predictable.
Truth.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:19 pm to FlowMaster
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FlowMaster
Pls respond to someone on this thread. Pls
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:20 pm to FlowMaster
Sounds like she needs to grow up.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:22 pm to Bunk Moreland
No, most men have never dealt with this nonsense.
At least, in a married relationship.
What man would tolerate this bullshite?
At least, in a married relationship.
What man would tolerate this bullshite?
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:23 pm to Displaced
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if there is inappropriate behavior that is happening, he needs to confront it and let her know that it is not acceptable. by acting like nothing is wrong, he is rewarding her bad behavior and leting her think what she is doing is ok.
That's the problem. There is no certainty that inappropriate behavior is occurring. His and your insecurities "think" something is happening
I agree if there is known hanky panky and shite is getting weird and you have clear evidence of it, squash it immediately.
ETA: fwiw, I personally would have simply asked her to disclose any time he continues saying things like "love". That is where I would draw the line but I wouldn't immediately assume she is cheating.
This post was edited on 4/14/15 at 7:25 pm
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:26 pm to TulaneUVA
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That's the problem. There is no certainty that inappropriate behavior is occurring. His and your insecurities "think" something is happening
if she is spending so much time texting / "helping" another man that her husband feels uncomfortable, then it is inappropriate behavior.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:26 pm to SabiDojo
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frick all that noise. There aren't supposed to be mind games in marriage. You have to put in the work to make it through, and that requires cooperation from BOTH sides.
And if she doesn't cooperate, become a raging frickin a-hole constantly reminding her that she is the reason you are acting like and a-hole.
Especially when doin secks. When she says that she doesn't like something, remind her you don't like what she is doing.
Posted on 4/14/15 at 7:27 pm to TulaneUVA
The wife and boyfriend texting back and forth without the husband knowing is inappropriate. The boyfriend saying he loves her is inappropriate. The wife not wanting to stop talking to the boyfriend is inappropriate. The wife defying her husband is inappropriate. The wife chewing the husband out because of her inappropriate relationship with the boyfriend is inappropriate.
Need any more explanation?
Need any more explanation?
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