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re: Wife has decided to close up shop
Posted on 11/16/21 at 3:41 pm to The Spleen
Posted on 11/16/21 at 3:41 pm to The Spleen
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It's like y'all didn't even read the rest of her post.
I did
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Posted on 11/16/21 at 3:41 pm to 777Tiger
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it's the man's fault and it's up to the man to straighten his act up
That's not entirely what she said. She said if a man feels owed sex simply because he's married, it is likely the underlying cause for his wife not wanting sex.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 3:41 pm to OU812ME2
And the real issue is if their is a divorce, she will find a new boyfriend and frick him 6 ways to Sunday when if she just did that with her husband who she claimed to love she wouldn’t be divorced. Honestly, the answer to the OP is divorce. She’s done with you, but is comfortable. Screw that, you deserve intimacy in your golden years. My wife and I are in our mid-30s and after five kids we still have a very healthy and frequent sex life. It may slow down as the years go on, but it ain’t gonna shut down. Divorce is the answer to the OP, but he appears to be too much of a vagina to accept that.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 3:43 pm to Badman
quote:they get old we don’t, take it easy baw
has had some "woman" problems the last couple of years.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 4:13 pm to jennBN
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There is a lot to unpack here. Your wife doesn’t owe you sex. Maybe you owe your wife better sex. There is no obligation to spread for a “man’s needs”. It isnt acceptable for a wife to get emotional needs met elsewhere nor is it ok for you to get off at the hands (or other body parts) of others. Invest in your marriage. Work on yourself and keep trying. Don’t make sex another chore in her life make it something she wants as well.
Let me guess you’ve either never been married or are divorced at least once.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 4:21 pm to beebefootballfan
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Let me guess you’ve either never been married or are divorced at least once.
Nobody wants Jenn’s crusty dusty pussy. She needs to save her bullshite for the 17 cats she undoubtedly owns.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 4:29 pm to Badman
Start skimming and hiding cash whenever you can.
Began to court her like you did when you first met.
Began to court her like you did when you first met.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 5:41 pm to beebefootballfan
Happily married and have already had sex today.
But my point is is you treat it as though she is obligated it’s a buzz kill.
But my point is is you treat it as though she is obligated it’s a buzz kill.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 5:44 pm to jennBN
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as though she is obligated
And again, that's a critical part of a healthy marriage. The rest of your other post was wild assumptions about the OP and his tendencies.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 5:44 pm to Badman
Her hormones are probably screwed up that or it's your tiny penis.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 5:46 pm to Badman
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Wife has decided to close up shop
I did not read every post in this thread, but everything I see kept pointing the finger at issues with her, when maybe the problem is actually you? Or at least you are playing a bigger role in the situation than you realize. Maybe she has lost interest because you have let yourself go physically and she is tired of a slobbering fat-arse trying to hump her. Are you only trying to get it on after some drinks? Maybe you are tuned out and no longer connecting emotionally. Maybe shes gotten tired of sex being too much wham-bam thank-ya ma'am! Maybe sex with you has become a chore and no longer an act of love and pleasure. Are you making sure she is getting off at least close to as often as you? Or are you just rolling over and saying thanks when you're done? Just saying that keeping things romantic, making sure she is getting pleasure and feels loved instead of like a hole for you to stick it in goes a long way with the ladies. I am not saying this is what you do, just saying make sure you are also assessing your role in the situation and I wish you the best of luck.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 5:46 pm to Oates Mustache
I wasn’t talking to the OP. He is spot on for his issues. I was responding to a different poster.
Posted on 11/16/21 at 5:47 pm to jennBN
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There is a lot to unpack here.
REEEEEEEEEE33EEEEEEEEEE
Posted on 11/16/21 at 6:58 pm to USMEagles
Her hormones are jacked up which is not uncommon for a woman her age. She needs to see a doc and likely needs to start harmone therapy. Some women won’t like to hear this, but the sexual dynamic of a marriage is just as crucial as the communication aspect, the emotional connection aspect, etc. Just like it would be unfair for a dude to just decide one day he doesn’t want to talk to his wife anymore, or waste money on dates, or tell her he loves her, it’s unfair for the wife to cut out such a huge piece of a healthy marriage. Medical doc would be step one, marriage counselor would be step two. Hopefully those steps take care of it and you have a long and healthy marriage.
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