re: Why Women Cheat (per CNN)

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I frankly disagree with this assertion. Humans are wired to be polyamorous

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I don't believe this shite for one second. There's a reason humans have been marrying each other for thousands upon thousands of years. We have reason, we have logic, we have feelings other than "I'm hungry", "that hurt", or "she's in heat". We can think deeper besides our basic instincts, and it's a reason we can love one person but not another.

We don't go and kill another person and steal their food because we're hungry like an animal would do to another animal, so why can't we be higher than an animal when it comes to relationships?

There's a reason humans believe that cheating is wrong and don't give me societal norms and all the other bullshite and there's a reason why the person that was cheated on feels hurt or angry most of the time when they find out. Same with why there is a reason the cheater feels the need to sneak around. If it wasn't wrong or immoral, there would be no need for the cheater to sneak around and the person that was cheated on wouldn't feel hurt by the actions.

Idk, I guess I just hold my fellow man in a higher regard when it comes to this.

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I don't believe this shite for one second. There's a reason humans have been marrying each other for thousands upon thousands of years. We have reason, we have logic, we have feelings other than "I'm hungry", "that hurt", or "she's in heat". We can think deeper besides our basic instincts, and it's a reason we can love one person but not another.

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you should... yes, we have been marrying people for roughly 2-3000 years now.... however, humans have been around for over 200,000 years.... you do the math... that's a shite ton of time where we DIDN'T have monogamy... in fact, if we did have that then, we likely would have died out as a species...

yes, when you boil it down, humans, specifically male humans have an innate need to try to procreate with as many potential mates as possible, as that is what we did as a species for HUNDREDS of thousands of years, before the institution of marriage came along and fricked it all up for us... women have an innate maternal response and need to want to have a mate for procreation and protection...

and the whole "marriage" thing means different things to different cultures.... it's not a cut and dry, one size fits all moniker to all things monogamous and legally binding.... your idea of "marriage" differs vastly, when you look at it, than someone of the Hindu faith, or the Muslim faith, etc...

now, we have continuously gained intellect to know what "feelings" are and how to respond, and in the same vein, we've progressed as a society to act more accordingly to standards of acceptable behavior and expected conduct...

but to think our desire to get married is more inherent or significant than our basic primal urge to sow all the oats possible with as many as possible is fallacy...

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LSUtoBOOT

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thank you

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I wished peace to everyone on here one time

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Let's just say I've got a face for radio and nice stout legs. But, as I said earlier, I make a hell of a sandwich.

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yeah, but wat da mouf do?

For that young lady, I give you an up vote.

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fishfighter

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How you doing fishy?

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Taking it day by day.

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NoHoTiger

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How is Jolly?