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re: Why is having an extra marital affair wrong

Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:50 am to
Posted by CoachDon
Louisville
Member since Sep 2014
12409 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:50 am to
Prior to being married, you got it in ad nauseam.

Then you find someone special and decide together it was time to settle down and start a family. Even if that family is the two of you. That means that there is no more interest in having anyone else to share your physical and emotional life with that that special person you are giving yourself to.

Then you marry. You make promises. You are now family - a team, and "forsaking all others" as long as you both shall live.

There's no room for anyone else when you really love another person, and you respect one another.

Everything about the courtship and marriage is a culmination of trust. Extra marital affairs reek of distrust, deception, and lies. These behaviors have nothing to do with the reason you chose to get married.

That's the short of it dummy.
This post was edited on 2/23/18 at 6:52 am
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
132679 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:53 am to
Sup jody
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80840 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:54 am to
You don't have a significant other right now, do you? You don't have much experience with women it appears.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
88345 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:54 am to
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I do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.



Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
34803 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:55 am to
quote:

Who cares if you do?


Maybe your spouse.... ? I dunno...
Posted by terriblegreen
Spokane, LA
Member since Aug 2011
12458 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:56 am to
Obvious troll.
Posted by p&g
Dixie
Member since Jun 2005
12995 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:57 am to
I hop you get married one day and come home to find your wife getting pounded in the arse by your brother or best bud.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
69243 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:59 am to
quote:

I do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.


Do you fap in front of your grandma? Why not? Who cares?
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91874 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 6:59 am to
Gotta love an OP who throes out some ridiculous shite and then never returns.
Posted by Tridentds
Sugar Land
Member since Aug 2011
24181 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:11 am to
We know a woman whose husband was having an affair. She found out when she ended up with genital warts. She didn't do anything wrong or do anything to deserve it. They got divorced but now and for the rest of her life she has to tell her partner or potential husband that she has them because they can get them from her at certain times depending on condition.

She has to live with that embarrassment for the rest of her life. She didn't do anything wrong and is a very very nice person. Genital warts sounds slutty but she is as far from slutty as you can get.

No one gets hurt?? Hardly.
Posted by tigeraddict
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2007
15178 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:13 am to
1) destroy your marriage
2) devastate you kids (if you have any)
3) wife will get all your money
4) if its OK for you is it OK for her to do the same. Also, knowing that a woman can get it a lot easier then you, just because she is a woman....
5) sloppy seconds to BBC......
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:14 am to
She needs to find a partner with it too.

As the saying goes: you can't get more herpes.
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
8870 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:14 am to
You might end up with a bullet in the back of the head.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:16 am to
At least it was only genital warts and won't kill her.


I've read of women that got HIV from their cheating spouses.



Why be in a relationship(married or not) if you can't be faithful?


Or....find someone that is agreeable to an open marriage.

Just don't see how someone can say they love someone...and then hurt them that way.
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
7269 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:18 am to
You are so dumb. Really really dumb.
Posted by Indfanfromcol
LSU
Member since Jan 2011
14935 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:20 am to
Why the frick would you even get married if you were going to cheat on them? Just don’t get married. Putting your spouse through that is just selfish as hell. What is it with people now not giving a frick about anyone other than themselves?

I get there are people who do the whole swinging shite. But it sounds like your just straight talking about getting some without you wife knowing.
This post was edited on 2/23/18 at 7:21 am
Posted by SSpaniel
Germantown
Member since Feb 2013
29658 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:20 am to
quote:

Why is having an extra marital affair wrong


Seriously?
Posted by crtodd
Member since Nov 2005
1723 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:21 am to
quote:

Gotta love an OP who throes out some ridiculous shite and then never returns.


He had to catch the school bus. His 1st hour teacher is a stickler for tardiness.

eta...Wait. is this the guy that had to marry his girlfriend who he couldn't stand anymore?
This post was edited on 2/23/18 at 7:23 am
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:33 am to
quote:

You are so dumb. Really really dumb.
fo real
Posted by toddzilla
Gulf of Mexico
Member since Nov 2012
1596 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 7:41 am to
Do you even Fatal Attraction bro?
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