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re: Why is having an extra marital affair wrong
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:19 am to Logan548
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:19 am to Logan548
You made a vow to have and to hold, for Better or for worse, richer or for poorer.
‘Til death do us part.
I realize that doesn’t mean shite to some people but that’s why it’s wrong.
It’s an absolute betrayal of your partner.
Although, I understand why people fall into the trap.
It’s a high like a drug. Feeling that feeling of being wanted and desired again when the passion has died.
It becomes an addiction.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:22 am to Spaceman Spiff
Congrats on being a home wrecking piece of trash. 
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:26 am to JumpingTheShark
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Congrats on being a home wrecking piece of trash.
Immediately after finding out my wife cheated I would have killed the guy
Now, 9 years later I'd buy him a beer.
Thanks buddy for catalyzing an end to an unfulfilling relationship. It was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:27 am to Logan548
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do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.
OK Logan548, are you Andy Cannizaro or Tom Shedler !
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:28 am to Logan548
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I do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.
It wouldn't bother you knowing your wife had one in her arse ten minutes before she had yours in her mouth? Good to know
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:28 am to Logan548
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I do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.
Since you seem to think there's nothing wrong with it, then I assume you'd tell your wife about it. If it's just fine and dandy, then no need to keep it a secret.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:33 am to Logan548
Stds
DNA parentage outcomes.
Criminal and civil law.
Religious law.
Trust.
Sex without love.
Some of that.
DNA parentage outcomes.
Criminal and civil law.
Religious law.
Trust.
Sex without love.
Some of that.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:34 am to Logan548
Nothing wrong with it if your wife is cool with it.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:35 am to Logan548
If you want to ethically and morally sleep with a bunch of women, don't get married.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:53 am to Logan548
It's one of the worst things you can to do to someone that you love.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:57 am to Logan548
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Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.
If this is your attitude, why get married? You know, one isn't forced to marry.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:59 am to Logan548
There’s really nothing wrong with it from a non-emotional standpoint. Humans are one of the only species that is monogamous, even our primate ancestors are polyamorous. Monogamy even among humans is still a relatively new thing.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:59 am to dyslexic
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Well Logan, it’s ok as long as you are a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. But even then I think the government might have a problem with it.
Not that I agree with polygamy, but the women involved in this practice know ahead of time what they are getting into, and the activities of the husband aren't done in secret.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:03 am to Tigeralum2008
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Immediately after finding out my wife cheated I would have killed the guy Now, 9 years later I'd buy him a beer. Thanks buddy for catalyzing an end to an unfulfilling relationship. It was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me.

Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:04 am to Revelator
There are lots of open marriages, if your wife is fine with it, go for it.
However, most people’s wives including my own don’t think it’s a good idea, so we are left with monogamy. I’m fine with this, I don’t think I could deal with the extra people in the relationship that would bring.
However, most people’s wives including my own don’t think it’s a good idea, so we are left with monogamy. I’m fine with this, I don’t think I could deal with the extra people in the relationship that would bring.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:13 am to Logan548
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Who cares if you do?
There's a reason you are posting this anonymously on the OT and not chatting about this in the kitchen with your wife.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:19 am to Logan548
if you do everything with your significant other whatever you do with the other there is nothing wrong with an affair.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:40 am to Logan548
It defy a marriage. Why get married and promise all that stuff if you don’t really mean it? Nobody is forced to get married in America. Not sure why people are in a hurry to get married so young (under 25). It’s not a race.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:43 am to Logan548
If not wrong, why do people hide their affairs?
If you made vows to your husband/wife then why break them? If you weren't serious about it you should let her/him know of your desire to have relations with other women/men. If they agree no problem if not then your next move will determine if it's wrong or not.
If you made vows to your husband/wife then why break them? If you weren't serious about it you should let her/him know of your desire to have relations with other women/men. If they agree no problem if not then your next move will determine if it's wrong or not.
Posted on 2/23/18 at 11:04 am to Tigeralum2008
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Immediately after finding out my wife cheated I would have killed the guy Now, 9 years later I'd buy him a beer. Thanks buddy for catalyzing an end to an unfulfilling relationship. It was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me.
Same. It’s only been about 6 years, and I still think I’d chin check him because he knew she was still married to me, but I would leave a drink at the bar for him after.
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