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re: Why is having an extra marital affair wrong

Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:19 am to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:19 am to


You made a vow to have and to hold, for Better or for worse, richer or for poorer.

‘Til death do us part.

I realize that doesn’t mean shite to some people but that’s why it’s wrong.
It’s an absolute betrayal of your partner.


Although, I understand why people fall into the trap.

It’s a high like a drug. Feeling that feeling of being wanted and desired again when the passion has died.

It becomes an addiction.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
24864 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:22 am to
Congrats on being a home wrecking piece of trash.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
Yankees Fan
Member since Apr 2012
17754 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:26 am to
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Congrats on being a home wrecking piece of trash.



Immediately after finding out my wife cheated I would have killed the guy

Now, 9 years later I'd buy him a beer.

Thanks buddy for catalyzing an end to an unfulfilling relationship. It was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me.
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7882 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:27 am to
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do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.


OK Logan548, are you Andy Cannizaro or Tom Shedler !
Posted by sabanisarustedspoke
Member since Jan 2007
5964 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:28 am to
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I do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.


It wouldn't bother you knowing your wife had one in her arse ten minutes before she had yours in her mouth? Good to know
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
26234 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:28 am to
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I do not see what is wrong with it. Who cares if you do? Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.


Since you seem to think there's nothing wrong with it, then I assume you'd tell your wife about it. If it's just fine and dandy, then no need to keep it a secret.
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:33 am to
Stds
DNA parentage outcomes.
Criminal and civil law.
Religious law.
Trust.
Sex without love.

Some of that.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
86415 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:34 am to
Nothing wrong with it if your wife is cool with it.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:35 am to
If you want to ethically and morally sleep with a bunch of women, don't get married.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20557 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:53 am to
It's one of the worst things you can to do to someone that you love.
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
62313 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:57 am to
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Even if you get it at home what is wrong with getting it on the side too.



If this is your attitude, why get married? You know, one isn't forced to marry.
Posted by Corkfather
Dallas
Member since Sep 2007
19756 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:59 am to
There’s really nothing wrong with it from a non-emotional standpoint. Humans are one of the only species that is monogamous, even our primate ancestors are polyamorous. Monogamy even among humans is still a relatively new thing.
Posted by Revelator
Member since Nov 2008
62313 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 8:59 am to
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Well Logan, it’s ok as long as you are a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. But even then I think the government might have a problem with it.


Not that I agree with polygamy, but the women involved in this practice know ahead of time what they are getting into, and the activities of the husband aren't done in secret.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135036 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:03 am to
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Immediately after finding out my wife cheated I would have killed the guy Now, 9 years later I'd buy him a beer. Thanks buddy for catalyzing an end to an unfulfilling relationship. It was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me.


Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16797 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:04 am to
There are lots of open marriages, if your wife is fine with it, go for it.

However, most people’s wives including my own don’t think it’s a good idea, so we are left with monogamy. I’m fine with this, I don’t think I could deal with the extra people in the relationship that would bring.
Posted by cwill
Member since Jan 2005
54755 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:13 am to
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Who cares if you do?


There's a reason you are posting this anonymously on the OT and not chatting about this in the kitchen with your wife.
Posted by JETigER
LSU 2011 National Champions
Member since Dec 2003
7082 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:19 am to
if you do everything with your significant other whatever you do with the other there is nothing wrong with an affair.
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10954 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:40 am to
It defy a marriage. Why get married and promise all that stuff if you don’t really mean it? Nobody is forced to get married in America. Not sure why people are in a hurry to get married so young (under 25). It’s not a race.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
109175 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 9:43 am to
If not wrong, why do people hide their affairs?

If you made vows to your husband/wife then why break them? If you weren't serious about it you should let her/him know of your desire to have relations with other women/men. If they agree no problem if not then your next move will determine if it's wrong or not.
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20743 posts
Posted on 2/23/18 at 11:04 am to
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Immediately after finding out my wife cheated I would have killed the guy Now, 9 years later I'd buy him a beer. Thanks buddy for catalyzing an end to an unfulfilling relationship. It was the worst and best thing that has ever happened to me.


Same. It’s only been about 6 years, and I still think I’d chin check him because he knew she was still married to me, but I would leave a drink at the bar for him after.
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