re: "Why I don't want six pack abs"

And that is hard for so many people to deal with. Someone may do little work and maintain a great looking physique, but someone else may have to devote tons more time to it and be way more restrictive on their diet and lifestyle. The understanding that the visual abs is not indicative of how strong someone's core is or how healthy they are helps people grasp that being very healthy is not only attainable, but much more common than they think. They are just brainwashed to think what healthy and strong looks like.

Agreed. Before I got into traithlon and what not, I was focused on weight loss and looking good.

Then, the more I learned my focus morphed into being healthier, not just what looked best. Then as I started to use triathlon for exercise and cardio I enjoyed the racing and training component so now my goals are different and not as concerned with whether or not it's a 4 or 6 pack. Some times of the year, as the training really amps up I get leaner but it isn't like I am trying to get leaner. Especially if it negatively impacts my performance. I've got about a 8lb swing between my biggest months and my leanest months and anything outside of that and I start to feel bad.

Six packs on a chick are disgusting. I don't want a fat girl, but I don't mind a little padding. I like soft women, not running my hands over a 6 pack.

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Is this where I check in with my "Dad Body"?

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But you aren't a "dad" right?


I don't have a 6 pack now, but i've been laying on my arse with broken bones since Halloween pretty much. Put on probably 20 lbs

But If I decided to get a pretty defined 6 pack, I could work out and eat healthy and have one by May.

Thank god for good genes and metabolism

At this stage of my life (I'm 38), I can understand this viewpoint. My abs are still visible, but to have a true, ripped six pack I need to lose about 15 lbs. when I was younger and competed in bodybuilding, having a perpetual six pack was super important to me. I did 2 hrs of cardio per day, every day, and carried tuna fish and oatmeal in a gym bag wherever I went. It didn't matter to anyone else but me. Doors of financial freedom didn't magically open, Penthouse pets weren't throwing themselves at me, ...I was an insecure guy who thought a certain look would change my life. It didn't. The effort and sacrifice required was brutal to get to that point, and after s few years, I decided that it just wasn't worth it. I'm still better built than 95% of the other men out there and have no problem attracting gorgeous women now. Sexiness is how you project yourself. Not a body fat percentdge

Excuses for why she could get them or never had them....quite okay but jus saying

But can she suck a dick?

I think women with 6 packs still get their periods. It's all about your health/weight.