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re: Why do good people so often have crappy grandkids?

Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:35 pm to
Posted by hawgfaninc
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:35 pm to
they failed at raising their kids properly

who in turn really failed at raising the grandkids
This post was edited on 8/26/17 at 9:36 pm
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:36 pm to
Most people are crappy. The ones who aren't are an exception. Their descendants revert to the crappy mean.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:41 pm to
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If their kids suck, then they sucked as parents. If their kids were crappy parents, don't automatically absolve them of any blame.



This is a general rule, but there are instances where the actions of a child doesn't reflect how they were raised.. And that can go both ways. Someone turning out good despite the way they were raised.

Also, it also depends on how many kids people have as well. If parents have 4 kids and three of them turned out to be respectable folk.. And one turned into a complete frick-up, was it something the parents did?

But for the most part, yeah.. Good people doesn't really mean good parents.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:44 pm to
So you have to suck old man river off helping him out to get use of his land, meanwhile his grandkids alpha your arse doing whatev they want and get use of same land and you jealous?
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:46 pm to
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OR I wanted my kids to have it better than me so I "spoiled" them.

My kids want their kids to have it better than them so they "spoiled" them.

Neither my kids or their kids followed the parents lead.

I'll admit to not being quiet the man my dad was.

This has been going downhill since before WWII when people got better paying easier jobs in the city.

The old farm life kept everybody too busy to become shitheads.


Lots of truth in this.
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:48 pm to
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The old farm life kept everybody too busy to become shitheads.


you ever been to Livingston parish?
Posted by Geauxtiga
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 9:52 pm to
White priv.
Posted by thermal9221
Youngsville
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 10:20 pm to
Grandfather paves the way.
Son fourishes and follows footsteps.
Grandson spoiled, feels entitled, usually ends up being a frickup.

That is happening on a country wide scale in the USA at the moment.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 10:23 pm to
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Most people are crappy.


Most people have some redeeming qualities

Posted by Phil A Sheo
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Posted on 8/26/17 at 10:26 pm to
Dunno, but my X-wifes grandparents are Frickin saints.. And she's the devil incarnate.
Posted by Capo Losi
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 8/27/17 at 12:46 am to
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Grandfather paves the way. 
Son fourishes and follows footsteps. 
Grandson spoiled, feels entitled, usually ends up being a frickup. 


Probably too busy flourishing to be a good parent or something.
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 8/27/17 at 6:36 am to
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Dunno, but my X-wifes grandparents are Frickin saints.. And she's the devil incarnate.


It could be a perception issue. My 1st wife's dad was hailed as the greatest parent/grandparent in the world. Truth is, he was way too indulgent. He let his kids and some grandkids walk all over him. It shows in how those closest to him have turned out. They are miserable and think the world owes them something. Those who were not as close are living productive, happy lives.
Glad I left that vortex before getting totally sucked in.
Posted by Cowboyfan89
Member since Sep 2015
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Posted on 8/27/17 at 6:53 am to
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Why do good people so often have crappy grandkids?


The problem here is...you are leaving out the middle man. Tell me about the parents, and I'll tell you why their kids are little shits.
Posted by weagle99
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Posted on 8/27/17 at 7:02 am to
Posted by PowerTool
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Posted on 8/27/17 at 7:35 am to
I'd tell you to ask my grandparents but they're dead.
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
24360 posts
Posted on 8/27/17 at 8:19 am to
Corporal punishment was the first introduction children had to the concept that their actions have consequences. Our more and more enlightened generations have been doing away with corporal punishment since the Dr. Spock 60s.

Anything goes.
Posted by The Nino
Member since Jan 2010
21820 posts
Posted on 8/27/17 at 10:50 am to
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No clue. Three of us tend to the lawn of the elderly widow across the street. Son and two grandchildren (who live with her) would be pressed to say thanks.
Same here. My next door neighbor is elderly and in poor health. Her daughter, who also has health issues, takes care of her. Neighbor's grandson (20-25 years old) lives there as well and does jack shite. So I started mowing their front yard several months ago. A few weeks ago the grandson had the nerve to tell me to start edging their driveway as well. I told him if he'd get off his arse and clean out his grandmother's gutters, I'd edge the driveway. He told me to frick off
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 8/27/17 at 11:08 am to
All kids (teenagers) are little shits. That old man was a shite in his youth. Be thankful he grew out of it.
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