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re: Which husbands on the OT do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry.etc?

Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:24 am to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:24 am to
I was mowing yards as a teenager for extra money.

But the house we currently rent....all landscaping included in rent. Mexicans come every other week to do yard work. No rock yard either...grass in front and back with sprinkler system.
Posted by Bow dude72
Member since Mar 2017
2719 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:27 am to
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My wife has never started a lawnmower or weedeater in her life


At one time I would let the ole lady use the lawn mower because she loved getting the sun but since we put the pool in and we are usually in grand isle or vacationing somewhere 6 weeks during every summer. I pay my nephew to mow the lawn.
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43482 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:28 am to
We split most chores. It's really probably a 60/40 split where my wife does more cleaning than I do, but I do more of the shite or laborious chores like the yard, fixing little issues and repairs. I cook more often. She lets me know if she feels like the split has gotten really imbalanced and I'm not holding up my end of the deal, and she's usually right about it.
This post was edited on 12/21/18 at 8:33 am
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
17789 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:28 am to
So she lets you make your own decisions if you do all the chores around the house.

Your wife owns you.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:32 am to
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So you work a job and do the housework and all she has to do is screw you?
Yea, it's pretty funny that he thinks that's a great arrangement.

He's going to be pissed when he realizes he could have found a girl that gives him #1, 2, and 3 and also does the bulk of the cleaning.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
112944 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 8:34 am to
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I was expecting dumb arse remarks like this one. That’s why I listed my agreement. I can promise you not many men have it made like I do!

It'll be really awkward for you when you realize just how badly you're being played here.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
17054 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 9:21 am to
What does your "ole lady" do? I mean besides leverage her vagina?
Posted by p&g
Dixie
Member since Jun 2005
12995 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 9:40 am to
I do the cooking
Pay to have house cleaned
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39555 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 9:41 am to
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That’s pretty awesome. Itd cool being a dad.

It works and is pretty fair. I sometimes feel weird that I don’t spend more time hunting and fishing even though I grew up doing that all the time, but maybe will get back into one or both soon.

Being a dad has its ups and downs but the net effect is great.
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
20362 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 9:46 am to
I'm retired and my wife still works outside the home. So, I do all the cooking, house cleaning, all the wash except her clothes which she would rather take care of, cut the grass and do all maintenance to the house.

Also do maintenance on the vehicles when needed.

This keeps me busy and it's really not all that hard to do when you stay on top of it with a bit of work daily. I would not expect my wife to come home and deal with things after working all week.
Posted by Bow dude72
Member since Mar 2017
2719 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 9:46 am to
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Being a dad has its ups and downs but the net effect is great.


As a dad, there are some things I will never forget. Im very proud of the kid I raised and wouldn’t trade one moment of time I spent with my kid. But I do understand the way you feel. My kid is currently in college and have been enjoying my hunting and fishing.
Posted by DivotBreath
On the course
Member since Oct 2007
3733 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 9:48 am to
OP - I’m not sure if you are actually bragging about your arrangement or not? Hell, your wife is going to get fat sitting on her arse watching you do all the work. Replace golf with the hunting and I have all your “benefits” without having to sell my manhood to get them. I cook a lot on the grill because I like to, but other than that I do the outside work and she does the inside work . . . the way it is meant to be.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
73729 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 10:11 am to
Not I.
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
105146 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 10:21 am to
She cooks, the other two are shared duties to a degree.

I can do clothes but mainly her scrubs, school uniforms, towels, my clothes, and my son’s clothes, as all are pretty damn obvious as to how they are washed and who they belong to.

Trying to deal with clothes for my wife and my daughters is a pain in the arse due to women’s sizing. Doesn’t help that numerous articles for all three aren’t dryer safe.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 10:22 am to
I do the cooking.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
38225 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 10:24 am to
I do all the cooking, most of the grocery buying, yard work, outdoor chores. we split the house work but I do the bathrooms.

Works for me. I like to stay busy and she can't cook for shite. Besides, I'm a neat freak and usually do things before her anyway.
Posted by OceanMan
Member since Mar 2010
23415 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 10:41 am to
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Nurse Practitioner
Also I forgot to add this we have no kids and are not having any. I have one from a previous marriage and my kid is in college.


But what does she do around the house?

Your hobbies are out of the house so I assume she uses that time to do whatever the hell she wants

Do you actually get anything out of this other than the privilege of sleeping with your own wife?
Posted by WildManGoose
Member since Nov 2005
4613 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 11:09 am to
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Shame you had to make a deal with your woman to have sex.
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I work a decent paying job allowing wife to stay at home.
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still gets to rest and relax.


You made a worse deal and don't even realize it. At least his wife is contributing to his early retirement.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
76084 posts
Posted on 12/21/18 at 11:10 am to
My wife works about 55 hours a week. So I end up doing at least half, if not more, of the chores. I think it is unhealthy to "keep tabs" in that way, it will just build resentment for whoever is getting the short end of the stick, nothing is ever exactly 50/50.

I recommend anyone that can afford it, get a house cleaning service to come twice a month to clean your bathrooms and floors. It's worth every penny.
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