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re: When online pictures don't match real life
Posted on 11/22/25 at 2:45 pm to Will Cover
Posted on 11/22/25 at 2:45 pm to Will Cover
quote:unless she’s a
At age 41, this is a plus in my book.
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Posted on 11/22/25 at 2:51 pm to Will Cover
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And honestly, her pictures on the app are what originally caught my attent
were there clear body shots?
The angle pics are pretty easy to tell right away imo.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 3:05 pm to Will Cover
Got to look for full- or 3/4-length photos where the body is visible (no baggy clothes, strategically-placed items, etc.). If you saw those, and they weren't representative, then you were basically lied to. If after meeting her you can see how the pictures were reasonably accurate but just well-chosen to hide the weight, then learn how to conduct due diligence.
Either way, it sounds like weight is a deal-breaker or very close to it, and that plus some degree of deception means no repeat. The key difference, IMO, is if you were straight-up deceived, then you're fine saying so and leaving. Otherwise, stick it out, be polite, and just don't go for a second date. Well, IMO, anyway.
Either way, it sounds like weight is a deal-breaker or very close to it, and that plus some degree of deception means no repeat. The key difference, IMO, is if you were straight-up deceived, then you're fine saying so and leaving. Otherwise, stick it out, be polite, and just don't go for a second date. Well, IMO, anyway.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 3:31 pm to Will Cover
Did she have any full body pics on her profile? If not then I’d take that as a red flag as if they’re trying to hide something.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 3:37 pm to Will Cover
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show up … and she’s at least 40 lbs heavier than in those photos.
But I can’t help wondering how intentional this was.
Foods expensive and clearly she likes to eat. So yea it was intentional. She wanted you to pay for her food.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 3:44 pm to el Gaucho
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Just what you need. An ex stripper
None so righteous as a reformed whore
Posted on 11/22/25 at 4:05 pm to blueridgeTiger
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My wife tells me it works the other way, also. She was single for about 15 years before we met in 2017, and she met dates frequently online. Often when they met IRL, the guy was obese, and on one occasion, he was paraplegic (didn't show up in his profile and didn't mention it on the phone).
Posted on 11/22/25 at 4:35 pm to shutterspeed
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I couldn't imagine showing up and seeing an obviously disappointed expression on someone's face.
Exactly. I’d be so mortified.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 4:39 pm to Lester Earl
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were there clear body shots?
Posted on 11/22/25 at 5:09 pm to Will Cover
You have to stalk them for awhile before agreeing to anything, including meeting, baw
Posted on 11/22/25 at 5:22 pm to Will Cover
quote:Very intentional.
I show up … and she’s at least 40 lbs heavier than in those photos. I’m not trying to be shallow, and I really don’t want to be that guy. But I can’t help wondering how intentional this was.
The more important message relates to honesty going forward.
Assessing that message is NOT shallow.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 5:53 pm to NOLATiger163
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Either way, it sounds like weight is a deal-breaker or very close to it,
I mean, 40 lbs is a pretty big discrepancy.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 6:42 pm to TBone1983
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Did she have any full body pics on her profile?
Yes, but based upon her appearance today, that picture must have been an older one.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 6:43 pm to Mo Jeaux
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I mean, 40 lbs is a pretty big discrepancy.
Yes, I agree. And that is no exxageration on my part either.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 6:44 pm to I20goon
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You have to stalk them for awhile before agreeing to anything, including meeting, baw
Unlike most that I "talk" with, she had her social media pages secured fairly well.
And usually, if I can get a phone number, I can reverse search them, and find more information about them, but not for this one.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 6:50 pm to Will Cover
Your 41? I thought you were at least in your 50s based off your car buying advice. Most women your age aren't worth your time but props for putting yourself out there. Good luck.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 7:08 pm to Will Cover
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at least 40 lbs heavier
Posted on 11/22/25 at 7:10 pm to PetroBabich
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Your 41? I thought you were at least in your 50s based off your car buying advice.
I'm 50. She was 41. I'd rather date younger.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 7:14 pm to GreenRockTiger
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yes, because a lot of men are fat as frick, and they use a whole different picture on their profiles
And? I don't have to convince you to like me. I just have to convince you that you need me to like you.
I look like an early graying human Shrek, my wife is a cute little thing. I can assure she didn't look at me and think, he's a beautiful adonis.
It was more of...this 300lb bear is in human clothes.
Posted on 11/22/25 at 7:15 pm to Will Cover
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Unlike most that I "talk" with, she had her social media pages secured fairly well.
And usually, if I can get a phone number, I can reverse search them, and find more information about them, but not for this one.
She's quite the savvy one.
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