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re: What's more important in a potential wife

Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:49 am to
Posted by Swamp Angel
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:49 am to
1) Religious compatibility.
2) Shared values (family, moral, political, etc.)
3) Similar interests overall
4) Physical attractiveness.

Of course, this is the complete reverse order of how we usually go about looking for wife material.

Spend time talking with her about various topics and then think to yourself, "Can I be happy sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch and having a conversation with her when I'm a toothless old fart?"

If the answer isn't yes, then continue looking elsewhere.
Posted by Relham10
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:53 am to
E) double jointed and big breasted
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:54 am to
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If she was a dude, well then she's not a she


:how dare you:
Posted by squid_hunt
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2021
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:59 am to
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Spend time talking with her about various topics and then think to yourself, "Can I be happy sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch and having a conversation with her when I'm a toothless old fart?"

Somebody's been spending way too much time watching Nicholas Sparks movies.

The way to find out if you're compatible in old age is to get there. In the words of Frank Ramone, you don't leave and you don't die.

Find someone actually committed to a family and staying together who you are attracted to. Bonus points if she doesn't believe in separate bank accounts and keeping her last name.
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:02 am to
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Where do common sense and logic come into play?


you almost had me.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:02 am to
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You love her.


Loving her is a decision.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:07 am to
Personality
Face
Body
Politics

But it’s a sliding scale, and those ranking can change.
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
25806 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:09 am to
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keeping her last name.


Red flag and deal breaker for me.
Posted by Swamp Angel
Somewhere on a river
Member since Jul 2004
9636 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:18 am to
quote:

The way to find out if you're compatible in old age is to get there. In the words of Frank Ramone, you don't leave and you don't die.

Find someone actually committed to a family and staying together who you are attracted to. Bonus points if she doesn't believe in separate bank accounts and keeping her last name.


I have no freaking clue who Nicholas Sparks is, but I like your response. It's right on target!

Signed,
An old man who is happily married to his first wife
Posted by AlxTgr
Kyre Banorg
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:22 am to
e) loves her father.
Posted by Bard
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:31 am to
This exists for a reason:



Looks fade over time, so that position on the Hot axis decreases. This means the more you focus on physical attributes for marriage material, the more likely you are to end up in a miserable marriage.
This post was edited on 5/17/22 at 7:41 am
Posted by Naked Bootleg
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Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:33 am to
Personality and body. You can change the other two
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
22878 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:34 am to
You are marrying your kid's mother. I would think that being a good mom is a top priority.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
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Member since May 2011
16290 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:34 am to
I'd rank them

1 personality - I couldn't marry someone that wasn't a good/nice person even if they looked like megan fox. Really need a second thread just ranking personality traits since this is so broad.
2 face - this is tough, but the face is what you see the vast majority of the time you're with her.
3 body
4 politics - may seem unimportant, but I'm not sitting through trans rights or blm lectures in my own house. She has to have a common sense approach to issues and not just emotion.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
6433 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:36 am to
Personality
Revenue generating

Everything else is easily altered
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
107474 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:43 am to
1. Her parents are not divorced.
2. Doesn't smoke
Posted by MikeBRLA
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2005
17123 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:06 am to
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Personality
Revenue generating

Everything else is easily altered


You can’t fix ugly.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
6433 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:11 am to
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You can’t fix ugly.


The hell you can't.... Personal trainers, plastic surgery and oral surgeons work miracles
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27431 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:14 am to
Face
Body
Brains and a career
Posted by JiminyCricket
Member since Jun 2017
5907 posts
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:19 am to
Honestly, the ability to give a good apology and the humility to accept apologies. If she can't do that, she may look great, but she'll seem uglier by the day.
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