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re: What's more important in a potential wife
Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:49 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:49 am to olgoi khorkhoi
1) Religious compatibility.
2) Shared values (family, moral, political, etc.)
3) Similar interests overall
4) Physical attractiveness.
Of course, this is the complete reverse order of how we usually go about looking for wife material.
Spend time talking with her about various topics and then think to yourself, "Can I be happy sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch and having a conversation with her when I'm a toothless old fart?"
If the answer isn't yes, then continue looking elsewhere.
2) Shared values (family, moral, political, etc.)
3) Similar interests overall
4) Physical attractiveness.
Of course, this is the complete reverse order of how we usually go about looking for wife material.
Spend time talking with her about various topics and then think to yourself, "Can I be happy sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch and having a conversation with her when I'm a toothless old fart?"
If the answer isn't yes, then continue looking elsewhere.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:53 am to olgoi khorkhoi
E) double jointed and big breasted
Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:54 am to Steadyhands
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If she was a dude, well then she's not a she
:how dare you:
Posted on 5/17/22 at 6:59 am to Swamp Angel
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Spend time talking with her about various topics and then think to yourself, "Can I be happy sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch and having a conversation with her when I'm a toothless old fart?"
Somebody's been spending way too much time watching Nicholas Sparks movies.
The way to find out if you're compatible in old age is to get there. In the words of Frank Ramone, you don't leave and you don't die.
Find someone actually committed to a family and staying together who you are attracted to. Bonus points if she doesn't believe in separate bank accounts and keeping her last name.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:02 am to tigerpawl
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Where do common sense and logic come into play?
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:02 am to Gris Gris
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You love her.
Loving her is a decision.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:07 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Personality
Face
Body
Politics
But it’s a sliding scale, and those ranking can change.
Face
Body
Politics
But it’s a sliding scale, and those ranking can change.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:09 am to squid_hunt
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keeping her last name.
Red flag and deal breaker for me.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:18 am to squid_hunt
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The way to find out if you're compatible in old age is to get there. In the words of Frank Ramone, you don't leave and you don't die.
Find someone actually committed to a family and staying together who you are attracted to. Bonus points if she doesn't believe in separate bank accounts and keeping her last name.
I have no freaking clue who Nicholas Sparks is, but I like your response. It's right on target!
Signed,
An old man who is happily married to his first wife
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:22 am to olgoi khorkhoi
e) loves her father.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:31 am to olgoi khorkhoi
This exists for a reason:
Looks fade over time, so that position on the Hot axis decreases. This means the more you focus on physical attributes for marriage material, the more likely you are to end up in a miserable marriage.
Looks fade over time, so that position on the Hot axis decreases. This means the more you focus on physical attributes for marriage material, the more likely you are to end up in a miserable marriage.
This post was edited on 5/17/22 at 7:41 am
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:33 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Personality and body. You can change the other two
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:34 am to olgoi khorkhoi
You are marrying your kid's mother. I would think that being a good mom is a top priority.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:34 am to olgoi khorkhoi
I'd rank them
1 personality - I couldn't marry someone that wasn't a good/nice person even if they looked like megan fox. Really need a second thread just ranking personality traits since this is so broad.
2 face - this is tough, but the face is what you see the vast majority of the time you're with her.
3 body
4 politics - may seem unimportant, but I'm not sitting through trans rights or blm lectures in my own house. She has to have a common sense approach to issues and not just emotion.
1 personality - I couldn't marry someone that wasn't a good/nice person even if they looked like megan fox. Really need a second thread just ranking personality traits since this is so broad.
2 face - this is tough, but the face is what you see the vast majority of the time you're with her.
3 body
4 politics - may seem unimportant, but I'm not sitting through trans rights or blm lectures in my own house. She has to have a common sense approach to issues and not just emotion.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:36 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Personality
Revenue generating
Everything else is easily altered
Revenue generating
Everything else is easily altered
Posted on 5/17/22 at 7:43 am to olgoi khorkhoi
1. Her parents are not divorced.
2. Doesn't smoke
2. Doesn't smoke
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:06 am to Dragula
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Personality
Revenue generating
Everything else is easily altered
You can’t fix ugly.
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:11 am to MikeBRLA
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You can’t fix ugly.
The hell you can't.... Personal trainers, plastic surgery and oral surgeons work miracles
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:14 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Face
Body
Brains and a career
Body
Brains and a career
Posted on 5/17/22 at 8:19 am to olgoi khorkhoi
Honestly, the ability to give a good apology and the humility to accept apologies. If she can't do that, she may look great, but she'll seem uglier by the day.
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