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re: What's it like living with a menopausal woman?

Posted on 10/26/26 at 12:50 pm to
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 10/26/26 at 12:50 pm to
Menopause with your wife is like owning a car you’ve really loved for years and all the sudden all the warning lights start coming on
Posted by castorinho
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Posted on 10/26/26 at 12:51 pm to
Well isn't this thread just lovely.
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
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Posted on 10/26/26 at 1:39 pm to
About the same as living with a woman who isn't menopausal except for the whole "no sex thing". Unfortunately the "sex thing" is what makes living with a woman tolerable....


Just kidding. But only about the latter. My wife is now post menopausal and there is significantly less sex but we still enjoy one another's company. I would be lost without her and at 61 I ain't the stud I once was anyway.....
Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
44113 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 1:50 pm to
Hell
Posted by lsugradman
Member since Sep 2003
9031 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 1:58 pm to
Mine did not unfortunately. Was threatened with divorce on 9 different occasions over the last 3 years before she finally filed. Emotional swings all over the dang place.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
110074 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 2:09 pm to
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Thank you for this I’m going to ask for a cortisone shot.


Definitely do. It helped.

quote:

My oncologist absolutely won’t let me get on HRT but menopause hasn’t been too bad for me except for the hot flashes. I did buy a bed jet.


The high risk breast clinic gave me the OK for HRT within reason and monitored by the doc. So I’m holding off a bit until I’m more symptomatic.

I’ve found some relief going the more organic route and adding flaxseed, pumpkin seeds, and more cruciferous vegetables. With some occasional tofu. They can all help regulate estrogen levels (make the drops less severe) without raising too much (increasing risk).

ETA: Also magnesium for issues with sleep
This post was edited on 10/26/26 at 2:33 pm
Posted by Vacherie Saint
Member since Aug 2015
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Posted on 10/26/26 at 2:12 pm to
what about sex drive?
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
110074 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 2:30 pm to
Drive is good but I’m also not in full blown menopause.

Part of the issue with the estrogen dropping (the largest hormonal shift in peri/menopause) is it causes a lot of dryness. Everywhere. Also causes a drop in collagen, which reduces elasticity in tissue. So menopause can make sex painful for women for those reasons. Can also increase UTIs. And make it harder to orgasm.

Highly recommend helping your special lady friends to find a good OB/GYN who has a good knowledge base of treatments. There are some medications out there to target drive issues.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
36972 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 2:34 pm to
Shoot, I’m not even supposed to eat tofu. I’m actually on Arimidex which is supposed to further suppress my estrogen.

Joint pain is a beast.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
110074 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 2:51 pm to
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Shoot, I’m not even supposed to eat tofu. I’m actually on Arimidex which is supposed to further suppress my estrogen.

Joint pain is a beast.


I bet it is. And that stinks, but makes sense given your history (from what I can recall what we’ve discussed here). I’ve heard of them prescribing Cymbalta in those cases.
Posted by Vacherie Saint
Member since Aug 2015
48604 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 2:57 pm to
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
5224 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 4:00 pm to
Now the broads infiltrate the thread and make us feel empathy for females. Yuck!
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
110074 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 4:01 pm to
I know! How dare we!
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
20252 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 4:06 pm to
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Every divorced guy I know was living in marital bliss(according to him) right up until the minute he got divorced.


You're so full of shite
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
62156 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 4:39 pm to
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guys are being held hostage in their relationship.
most guys say this on here no matter what
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
62156 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 4:51 pm to
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Why is it called menopause
because the word is derived from the Latin word for month (mensis)

Nothing to do with a man. Man in Latin is homo
Posted by Floyd Dawg
Silver Creek, GA
Member since Jul 2018
5807 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 5:09 pm to
My wife (no pics) is perimenopausal and it's awful. Constant struggles with hot flashes followed by freezing shivers. She's meeting with an oncology OBGYN on Friday and expects to have a radical hysterectomy via robot on Election Day. She has lymph nodes in that area that don't look good and the doctor suspects cancer (she's had an abnormally thick uterine lining for a couple of weeks with nonstop bleeding as well).

If you're so inclined, throw up a prayer for Laura; she's really worried since we have a 15 year old at home. Her mom (also no pics) has her own place on our property and recently had a mastectomy.
Posted by F1y0n7h3W4LL
Below I-10
Member since Jul 2019
4735 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 5:13 pm to
Like bathing your cat.
Posted by faraway
Member since Nov 2022
4422 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 5:21 pm to
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The thermostat fight is not worth it.

this is true. i failed here
Posted by faraway
Member since Nov 2022
4422 posts
Posted on 10/26/26 at 5:22 pm to
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You can forget about sexual relations
maybe after not during
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