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re: What the F is an "Emotional Affair" ?

Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:46 am to
Posted by SixthAndBarone
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:46 am to
Flirting and carrying on a flirting relationship for a long time. Getting emotional with the other person.

Imagine being married and your wife has a second secret phone. She calls the guy when you’re not there and they talk for hours. They pour their hearts out to each other. They haven’t fricked. So by your logic, they are either fricking or not, no?
Posted by Auburn80
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:47 am to
Why are you still with her?
Posted by lsu777
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:47 am to
apparently that is awesome because he gets to do the fricking while the other guy is an "emotional tampon" who will never have a chance to frick her :rotflmao:
Posted by Odysseus32
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:51 am to
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This post was edited on 3/12/24 at 4:10 pm
Posted by St Augustine
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:54 am to
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I don't think I could agree with something more. Some of the shite yall dudes post on here and then chalk it up to women being women is bonkers.


Probably a lot of the same ones bitching about child support payments and how all women are whores .
This post was edited on 2/2/24 at 11:55 am
Posted by SUB
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:58 am to
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If I was gay


Say no more.
Posted by theunknownknight
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 11:58 am to
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Say no more.


You that excited?
Posted by Ace Midnight
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:00 pm to
When you have all the texts and evidence of communication, flirting, etc., but you can't conclusively prove they banged.
Posted by lsu777
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:04 pm to
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Probably a lot of the same ones bitching about child support payments and how all women are whores


go look at post history, same ones that post stupid shite are the ones bitching about never getting any, posting about getting divorced, the shite you said and the same mother frickers talking about they watch porn all the damn time.

its fricking sad, i mean laughably sad

quote:

Odysseus32




its the same assholes that talk about nothing but drinking beers at the camp every weekend and if you arent doing that....you arent living.

frickers never date their wives and are always the ones posting...caught my wife cheating...im devastated.


young guys....look up the 777 rule. better date your wife like you still chasing her before someone else is.
Posted by Mouth
Member since Jan 2008
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:10 pm to
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What the F is an emotional affair ?


lets say your wife is talking to another guy every day. flirting, confiding, laughing, sharing stories.

She loves hanging out with him and looks forward to their conversations.

but you don't know about him. At least you don't know how close they are. you just think they're acquaintances.

she doesn't hang out with him outside of wherever they know each other. so it's not an actual friendship that you approve of.

there is no sex, but everything I said above is happening.

you would be ok with this?
Posted by madmaxvol
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:16 pm to
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EDIT: This started because my girlfriend accused me of having an affair with a woman from work that she met at this years Christmas Party.
When I convinced her that I wasn't sleeping with the woman at work, she then accused me of having an Emotional Affair.




You sure she isn't projecting her infidelity onto you.
Posted by Rick9Plus
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:54 pm to
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The study found that women 2 to 1 were more jealous about an emotional affair than sexual and it was the exact opposite for men.


If you don’t understand that about women or don’t care to, you will be that 55-year-old guy in the club with his shirt too tight.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100391 posts
Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:57 pm to
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When I convinced her that I wasn't sleeping with the woman at work, she then accused me of having an Emotional Affair. I laughed and said "What the F is even that?"


Probably means that you have a platonic normal friendship/business relationship with a woman at work. Women are crazy
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:58 pm to
I’d argue emotional affair is worse than physical for a lot of women
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
100391 posts
Posted on 2/2/24 at 12:59 pm to
quote:

is a fictional construct used by women to keep their husbands/boyfriends from having any female friends whatsoever.


This.

What men see: a professional environment where it is necessary to be courteous and get along with/chat with a coworker

What women see: you talking to/giving attention to another woman besides her
Posted by BluegrassBelle
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 1:01 pm to
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When it's everything but the physical elements. Texting constantly every day, sending good morning & good night texts, talking about emotional shite, sharing good news / venting about bad news, etc

People in emotional affairs are basically designating the replacement partner in waiting. Once the relationship ends, it's the person they'd immediately go frick.

I know it sounds stupid, but I've been on the wrong end of one and it sucked arse.


I was going to say emotional affairs are almost always where physical ones start too. Virtually every couple I've ever worked with that had infidelity it started with an "emotional affair".
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 1:04 pm to
Long term the emotional affair is worse the the physical affair.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 1:05 pm to
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I only date beautiful women. Of course other men want to F them. All that matters to me is if she F's them or not. Some pathetic doofus orbiter being her emotional tampon doesn't concern me. Better that he have to listen to her drama than me, as long as I am the only one banging her.


How old are you?
Posted by The Pirate King
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Member since May 2014
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Posted on 2/2/24 at 1:21 pm to
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Some pathetic doofus orbiter being her emotional tampon doesn't concern me.

Better that he have to listen to her drama than me, as long as I am the only one banging her.


There is no way you're not a troll. I refuse to believe anyone could be this big of a meathead in modern-day America.
Posted by ThuperThumpin
Member since Dec 2013
9042 posts
Posted on 2/2/24 at 1:31 pm to
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Platonic friendships aren't a real thing. Someone wants something from it.

Why would a man want female friends any way?


There have existed women in my life that I thought were cool and funny but I was not physically attracted to in the least. I called them friends.
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