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re: what is your definition of adultery?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:05 pm to UKWildcats
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:05 pm to UKWildcats
quote:Same thing with me. I have no desire to ever get married.
was engaged for 5 yrs, broke it off
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Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:05 pm to SECdragonmaster
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SECdragonmaster
thank you for those kind words.
i'm just going to chalk this one day as a bad day and not let it become a second bad day or third.
it's up to me to make the most of my life.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:06 pm to Lincoln Dawson
Adding foreign substances to good whiskey.
Ice cubes in beer.
Obscene and vulgar condiments on a good steak.
Harmful fuel additives in a classic car.
Get over the past. Or don't. It's your life.
Ice cubes in beer.
Obscene and vulgar condiments on a good steak.
Harmful fuel additives in a classic car.
Get over the past. Or don't. It's your life.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:07 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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why should it tolerate her "adultery" of refusing to have sex with me?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:08 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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the male body produces a new batch of sperm about every 72 hours; that’s the way God made us men.
Where does the batch that was already there go?
Also, the more of your posts I read in this thread, the more I'm convinced that your definition of a "good career" doesn't align with mine.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:08 pm to Chucktown_Badger
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It will make him feel better about his divorce if he can chalk her withholding sex up as adultery. Which to me, sounds like the "or worse" part of his vows. And he seems like a religious person so, yes, he should feel badly for bailing.
i have never told any of my friends about my definition of adultery. i never described my ex as one who was adulterous. i only brought it up on here. i take blame for the mistakes i made in my past relationship. i can only fix me moving forward.
as far as bailing, i stayed in it at the "end" for 6 plus years of not having sex with my then wife. i feel like i didn't bail. we also did counseling. she had the knowledge. so did i on what to do. it just didn't get done.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:08 pm to windshieldman
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I’m 38 and still a virgin, it’s not because of religious reasons, just don’t know how to talk to chicks
Hey stud. I'll pop that cherry.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:09 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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i can almost recite by just one look the names of the newest adult female stars.
Do you have an Abella Danger t-shirt?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:10 pm to Lincoln Dawson
The term you're looking for is 'abandonment'.
That can be literal (one spouse packing a suitcase and saying have a nice life) or constructive (one spouse alienating from the other emotionally, physically, financially, etc. to such extent that it has a comparable effect).
You can place whatever legal, religious or social emphasis on abandonment and adultery as you want, but technically, they aren't the same thing.
When "dead bed" sets in, some wives will give their husband a Hall Pass to have casual sex with other women because they don't want the husband and his paycheck to leave the family nest and go start fresh somewhere else.
Sex was critical for the early bonding process, essential for having children and important for stabilizing the marital home. Now, it's just a chore she doesn't want to do.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:10 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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the male body produces a new batch of sperm about every 72 hours; that’s the way God made us men.
if sex with spouse were achieved on average every 72 hours, that would be approximately 2 to 3 times per week.
not a verse, but science.
Use this as a pickup line when you're back on your feet and come tell me how much sex you didn't have.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:10 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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i have never told any of my friends about my definition of adultery.
You don't need to tell them, you just need to do the mental gymnastics in your own head to feel better about being divorced, and to pin more of the blame on her.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:10 pm to tigergirl10
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tigergirl10
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Same thing with me. I have no desire to ever get married.
this is as good as any. i'll meet you for drinks late tomorrow afternoon.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:11 pm to mikelbr
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Hey stud. I'll pop that cherry
Thanks uncle Mike, you’ve always been there for me when I needed you the most
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:11 pm to AUFANATL
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AUFANATL
damn, you nailed it. are you a practicing in this field? or personal experience?
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:13 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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my understanding, whether right or wrong, of the defintion is a violation of the marriage contract. she withheld sexual interaction with me and she committed adultery of a sexual nature, albeit a very different kind of adultery.
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, selfishness, disrepectful at times, kids, work, priorities unfortunately changed, all that stuff that we take for granted while caught up in it.
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off work, got time, no kids for a short while, pretty down at the moment. i'll bounce back up and my spirit will lift. i always do.
Wait. You left your wife and gave up 50% of your time with your kids all b/c you couldn't handle beating off in a sock when your wife didn't wanna frick?
WOW. This place never ceases to amaze.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:15 pm to Lincoln Dawson
quote:That's good, because its not even close to being right
i have never told any of my friends about my definition of adultery.
quote:This term fits much better
The term you're looking for is 'abandonment'.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:16 pm to mikelbr
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Wait. You left your wife and gave up 50% of your time with your kids all b/c you couldn't handle beating off in a sock when your wife didn't wanna frick?
WOW. This place never ceases to amaze.
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mikelbr
you must not be married. havign a girlfriend is entirely different then having a wife.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:16 pm to The Nino
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i have never told any of my friends about my definition of adultery.
That's good, because its not even close to being right
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The term you're looking for is 'abandonment'.
This term fits much better
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The Nino
yes i agree. i'm not going to edit my original post but i do see everyone's point.
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:19 pm to Lincoln Dawson
putting a weenie in the vajayjay
Posted on 11/18/20 at 2:20 pm to Lincoln Dawson
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what is your definition of adultery?
If you do something with someone else's penis/vagina, or someone else does something with your penis/vagina.
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she withheld sexual interaction with me and she committed adultery of a sexual nature
So she wouldn't put out. Frustrating? Yes. Does it mean there is likely another underlying problem? Yes. ADULTERY? Nah,bro.
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