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re: What do you divorced baws pay in child support?

Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:09 pm to
Posted by Love me some Les
Member since Mar 2014
281 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:09 pm to
Not a dime! Joint custody! Mom ran out yrs ago! I'm still fighting the good fight! I don't ask her for a thing! I don't say shiiit, I let mine make their own decisions! Her attorney said their her kids too!

It took me awhile to understand that! But once I realized that, one day they'll make decisions. After 14 yrs, I can't get rid of them! Not that I want too, but they know where home is!
Posted by dawgsjlw
shite hole with your momma
Member since Sep 2014
826 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:16 pm to
quote:

I know a friend pays 1500 for 2 kids and he doesn't make but maybe 3300 after taxes. He us seriously getting raped and lives back with his parents because of it
And how does his bitch ex live?

Why do women get most of the custody when they can't afford to take care of the kids? Seems like the judge would be smart enough to give custody to the parent who can actually provide for the kid instead of giving it to the parent who doesn't have a job or a shitty one?
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
25418 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:17 pm to
Jack shite. The ex pays me....... Believe it or not.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69706 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:18 pm to
1 kid

1,680
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133411 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:45 pm to
These numbers are insane. It makes it so hard To have a working relationship with your ex when you have that financial dagger being driven into your back every month. And then having to watch that money a lot of the time not spent on your children.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
133411 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:49 pm to
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So thats where the hate comes from


You have the situation and me completely wrong. But that’s par for the course for you
Posted by Falco
Member since Dec 2018
2216 posts
Posted on 3/9/19 at 11:53 pm to
If you use the search function you see from comments he allowed his wife to email/chat with another poster on this website who she ended up cheating on him with.
Posted by touchdownjeebus
Member since Sep 2010
26055 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 12:20 am to
quote:

These numbers are insane. It makes it so hard To have a working relationship with your ex when you have that financial dagger being driven into your back every month. And then having to watch that money a lot of the time not spent on your children.


If you add up everything I was paying (car note, insurance, she lived in my separate property residence for 2 years, all utilities, child support, etc) I was paying over 3k a month for 2 years for one child.

I cannot begin to explain how difficult she made my life. If I wasn’t paying all of her bills, I was paying child support or attorneys. It took a judge almost 3 years to un-frick all the damage she caused. I had to deploy just to keep up the payments. Life is so much better now. She can keep the money as long as she stays far away.
Posted by Mr Clean
Power I-Formation
Member since Aug 2006
53128 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 2:35 am to
I know a guy who makes 21 dollars an hour and has been riding a bicycle for years because of past due child support.
Posted by dbuchanon
Member since Nov 2014
21042 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 5:56 am to
I spent 15K for my divorce and I have custody of the kids along with the house and cars. SHE pays ME




Posted by sosaysmorvant
River Parishes, LA
Member since Feb 2008
1466 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 6:11 am to
This is so depressing.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53099 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 6:30 am to
quote:

I know a guy who makes 21 dollars an hour and has been riding a bicycle for years because of past due child support.

That's like 40k per year man.
Posted by tigeraddict
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2007
14411 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:03 am to
In Louisiana it’s a fixed rate based on his income vs her income and number of childern.

Take combined income and look up on for number of childern at that net income. Then you factor in full vs shared custody to get rate.

Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
69706 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:11 am to
That’s also including her medical insurance
Not to mention I pay almost 1,000 in bills since she ran up credit cards ?? in my name.

It wouldn’t be bad but frick LA state taxes
This post was edited on 3/10/19 at 12:41 pm
Posted by SteadyHand
Out and About
Member since Nov 2018
267 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:19 am to
I got divorced and my dumb arse ex took things to the extreme. We had 50/50 custody.
, with me paying her child support...but she went back to court to try and get full custody.

She lost. I have sole custody and she pays me child support.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53099 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:22 am to
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That’s also including her medical insurance

You have to pay her insurance? That's messed up if so. My work wouldn't allow an ex to remain on our company health plan
Posted by Biloxi Bacon
Member since Aug 2018
164 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:25 am to
I actually get 800 a month from her for 1 kid.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
466232 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:27 am to
quote:

Unfortunately Louisiana child support laws can be vague

spousal support is vague

child support is a set amount, for the most part. i can link the charts if you'd like
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
19390 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:35 am to
Can't speak on current terms since my divorce happened in 86 and at the time I had one 7 yr. old son with my former wife. My court ordered child support payment was $500 a month and I also had to pay the note on the car I had bought for her several months prior to us splitting up for an additional $250 a month.

If I remember correctly, I was making about $45K a year at that time.

I did stay in the house and she moved out and rented something smaller and more affordable for her with no maintenance or upkeep issues.
Posted by WylieTiger
Member since Nov 2006
14419 posts
Posted on 3/10/19 at 8:36 am to
Yes, link them.
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