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Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:19 am to
Posted by Art Vandelay
LOUISIANA
Member since Sep 2005
11400 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:19 am to
I'm 39 and mine just passed a week ago. Saw him just about everyday. So it sucks just about every day
Posted by ElderTiger
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2010
7662 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:32 am to
8 months - I never knew my biological father.
My step father and I had a difficult relationship - but it made me a better father to my kids.
Posted by GeauxTigerTM
Member since Sep 2006
30596 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:37 am to
Dad when I was 32 and my wife was 6 months pregnant with our first child, who was a son. I was the only son of an only son, so the fact that I was able to tell my dad three days before he died that we knew the sex of the baby was both great and heartbreaking.

Lost my mom when I was 5. Bad medical advice back in the mid 70's sent her home from the ER with chest pains with advice to go see her primary the following Monday. Never made it...

Happy Monday, ya'll!
Posted by Gulffisherman
Bogalusa
Member since Oct 2009
3531 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:39 am to
37 and miss him every damn day
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
8499 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:39 am to
18, 3 weeks after I graduated high school. Woke up Sunday morning and found him in the den, he had passed sometime during the night in his chair.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33094 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:42 am to
23
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72704 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:47 am to
I was 28. He was at the end of a long fight with cancer at Baptist and the Saints were nearby winning on MNF.

PS: Cancer sucks.

Posted by bayoudude
Member since Dec 2007
25836 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 7:53 am to
I was 34. He died suddenly at work of a heart attack 11-24-2014. He was 53 years old. It will be two years on Thanksgiving day but it seems like yesterday. It gets easier but it will definitely never be the same. My younger brother was 25. Worst part is being reminded of the event everyday since i still work in the same office where he died.
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
40522 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:07 am to
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ETA: Watched him die laying in the garage. We lived out in the country, ambulance couldn't find our house for 30 minutes.
This post was edited on 11/21/16 at 8:23 am
Posted by litenin
Houston
Member since Mar 2016
2652 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:19 am to
Also 39 and mine passed earlier this year. I try to look at the bright side that we had so many great years together but it can also be hard at times.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
27441 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:25 am to
42 - Miss him everyday.

Thanks for ruining my week
Posted by widespreadpiggy
Member since Feb 2013
367 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:45 am to
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Posted by DelU249
Austria
Member since Dec 2010
77625 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:50 am to
30. I move through the stages in about a few hours typically. This took me a couple of weeks
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
73513 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:51 am to
35 for my mom
42 for my dad.
Posted by pdubya76
Sw Ms
Member since Mar 2012
6466 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 8:53 am to
I was 34. He died the night before Thanksgiving in 2010. He was 66.
Suicide
Posted by Titan
Member since Apr 2008
2480 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 9:02 am to
25. He died at 55 of cancer
Posted by Relham10
Ridge
Member since Jan 2013
19881 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 9:03 am to
24
Posted by FLAK88
Gonzales La.
Member since Jan 2015
494 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 9:23 am to
35
Posted by tigerweb
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2009
1175 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 9:24 am to
My dad died in December of 81 on a motorcycle accident. I was born in March of 82. I've never seen him. It's weird because I don't think there is a day that has ever passed where I don't think about him. I have 3 boys now and want to always be there for them. I want to be the dad that I didn't have growing up. I have a step dad now and he is great.
Posted by TexasTiger90
Rocky Mountain High
Member since Jul 2014
3576 posts
Posted on 11/21/16 at 9:26 am to
I was 19 when my mom passed, 2 days before Christmas. I was a freshman in college and had just finished my first semester. It was due to an accidental overdose of anti-depressants and sleeping pills (several of her medications caused short-term memory loss, and the doctors all concluded that she had forgotten she had taken her medicines and took them all again). This was the hardest thing for me - that it was avoidable to a degree (although I knew that due to her conditions and mental state, it was only a matter of time). To combat this anger and disappointment with the cards I was dealt, my second semester consisted of meaningless relationships with women, one after the other, as well as copious amounts of alcohol.

I grieved in my own way, and realize now that it wasn't in the healthiest ways. That being said, it will be 7 years this Christmas, and that makes it very hard - the happiest day of the year for most will be a constant reminder of the most trying day of my life so far. But as cliche as it sounds, that happening that early on in life coupled with me having to mature and grow up way earlier than most due to her sickness during 90% of my high school years, I wouldn't be who I am without those moments forging my mindset.
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