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Wedding guests paying for honeymoon
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:11 pm
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:11 pm
What is with this generation! We received two invitations for weddings where both of the couples asked for donations to pay for their honeymoon.
When did this start?
How tacky....nothing says trailer trash more than this........
When did this start?
How tacky....nothing says trailer trash more than this........
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:12 pm to joeleblanc
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How tacky....nothing says trailer trash more than this........
And they're your friends.....
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:13 pm to joeleblanc
Well
Tacky or not, money dance has been around forever. Not all do it
Tacky or not, money dance has been around forever. Not all do it
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:15 pm to Grim
no they aren't...one is a friend of my daughter and the other is a family friend son
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:16 pm to joeleblanc
Would you rather buy them a spatula?
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:18 pm to joeleblanc
Mrs Pimp is Vietnamese. When we were married everybody on her side handed us cash envelopes. I think after my wedding and honeymoon expenses (I paid) I ended up up about 20k and this was in 1994. I certainly didn't feel trashy in Bora Bora and Moorea a week later or starting our married life without debt.
I guess blenders and china is classy and cash is trashy to some people. But if I like somebody, I give them what that want. If that's cash, so be it.It's their life.
I guess blenders and china is classy and cash is trashy to some people. But if I like somebody, I give them what that want. If that's cash, so be it.It's their life.
This post was edited on 12/12/15 at 5:19 pm
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:19 pm to joeleblanc
If they want that instead of the gift that's fine, I'm still paying the same amount. If they want a gift too they can go frick themselves.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:19 pm to TunaTigers
yeah, I would...its part of the invitation that gets me...not registered anywhere except with a travel agent and the other with the resort in Jamaica. Millennials...gotta love em...
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:22 pm to joeleblanc
This is why I don't go to weddings.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:23 pm to joeleblanc
that's incredibly tacky. the only reason we even registered for gifts is because people kept asking us where we were registered, and it seemed rude NOT to register at that point.
i hope it rains the whole time and they both get the bends and/or Montezuma's Revenge. Oh, and gonorrhea and HPV, which I'm sure they already have.
i hope it rains the whole time and they both get the bends and/or Montezuma's Revenge. Oh, and gonorrhea and HPV, which I'm sure they already have.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:23 pm to joeleblanc
"Thirty, forty grand. In small bills cash. In that little silk purse. Madon', if this was somebody else's wedding, sfortunato!"


Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:25 pm to Jim Rockford
quote:This is why you're not invited to weddings
This is why I don't go to weddings
well, one reason anyway
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:25 pm to joeleblanc
Everybody wanting a handout.
America is so screwed.
America is so screwed.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:25 pm to joeleblanc
If it's a close friend I would be more than happy to help out.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:27 pm to Kafka
It's always been the norm with Southern Europeans and East Asians among others to get cash at a wedding. The idea is to give a young couple a nest egg. Sounds reasonable and maybe even wise to me. Maybe they could have quietly got the word out that they preferred a cash donation . Would that have been more palatable?
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:29 pm to joeleblanc
so you're mad that instead of asking for presents they asked for a donation to their honeymoon?
you sound like a real swell guy.
you sound like a real swell guy.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:29 pm to joeleblanc
Somebody is paying for your arse to go eat and drink on their dime and I bet you don't complain about that! Just donate whatever you were going to spend on cookware or whatever you were going to get. It's that simple. Not sure y you are so offended.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:31 pm to GeauxGoose
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Not sure y you are so offended.
I don't get it either, I'm spending the same amount and a added bonus I don't have to go out and look for a gift that they will probably never use.
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:31 pm to Lsupimp
I wouldn't be surprised to be asked to donate to the wedding reception also at this level of uncouth in todays world
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:32 pm to Dr RC
i'm not mad at all. I just find it uncouth
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