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Wedding guests paying for honeymoon

Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:11 pm
Posted by joeleblanc
Member since Jan 2012
4114 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:11 pm
What is with this generation! We received two invitations for weddings where both of the couples asked for donations to pay for their honeymoon.

When did this start?

How tacky....nothing says trailer trash more than this........
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12489 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:12 pm to
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How tacky....nothing says trailer trash more than this........

And they're your friends.....
Posted by MoreOrLes
Member since Nov 2008
19472 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:13 pm to
Well

Tacky or not, money dance has been around forever. Not all do it
Posted by joeleblanc
Member since Jan 2012
4114 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:15 pm to
no they aren't...one is a friend of my daughter and the other is a family friend son
Posted by TunaTigers
Nola
Member since Dec 2007
5370 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:16 pm to
Would you rather buy them a spatula?
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86492 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:18 pm to
Mrs Pimp is Vietnamese. When we were married everybody on her side handed us cash envelopes. I think after my wedding and honeymoon expenses (I paid) I ended up up about 20k and this was in 1994. I certainly didn't feel trashy in Bora Bora and Moorea a week later or starting our married life without debt.

I guess blenders and china is classy and cash is trashy to some people. But if I like somebody, I give them what that want. If that's cash, so be it.It's their life.
This post was edited on 12/12/15 at 5:19 pm
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:19 pm to
If they want that instead of the gift that's fine, I'm still paying the same amount. If they want a gift too they can go frick themselves.
Posted by joeleblanc
Member since Jan 2012
4114 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:19 pm to
yeah, I would...its part of the invitation that gets me...not registered anywhere except with a travel agent and the other with the resort in Jamaica. Millennials...gotta love em...
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106105 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:22 pm to
This is why I don't go to weddings.
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
35541 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:23 pm to
that's incredibly tacky. the only reason we even registered for gifts is because people kept asking us where we were registered, and it seemed rude NOT to register at that point.

i hope it rains the whole time and they both get the bends and/or Montezuma's Revenge. Oh, and gonorrhea and HPV, which I'm sure they already have.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
159077 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:23 pm to
"Thirty, forty grand. In small bills cash. In that little silk purse. Madon', if this was somebody else's wedding, sfortunato!"

Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
159077 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:25 pm to
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This is why I don't go to weddings
This is why you're not invited to weddings

well, one reason anyway
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
67007 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:25 pm to
Everybody wanting a handout.

America is so screwed.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:25 pm to
If it's a close friend I would be more than happy to help out.

Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86492 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:27 pm to
It's always been the norm with Southern Europeans and East Asians among others to get cash at a wedding. The idea is to give a young couple a nest egg. Sounds reasonable and maybe even wise to me. Maybe they could have quietly got the word out that they preferred a cash donation . Would that have been more palatable?
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
61609 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:29 pm to
so you're mad that instead of asking for presents they asked for a donation to their honeymoon?

you sound like a real swell guy.
Posted by GeauxGoose
Nonya
Member since Dec 2006
2696 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:29 pm to
Somebody is paying for your arse to go eat and drink on their dime and I bet you don't complain about that! Just donate whatever you were going to spend on cookware or whatever you were going to get. It's that simple. Not sure y you are so offended.
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
33222 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:31 pm to
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Not sure y you are so offended.

I don't get it either, I'm spending the same amount and a added bonus I don't have to go out and look for a gift that they will probably never use.
Posted by joeleblanc
Member since Jan 2012
4114 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:31 pm to
I wouldn't be surprised to be asked to donate to the wedding reception also at this level of uncouth in todays world
Posted by joeleblanc
Member since Jan 2012
4114 posts
Posted on 12/12/15 at 5:32 pm to
i'm not mad at all. I just find it uncouth
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