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Ways to maximize my last two months without a kid?

Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:36 pm
Posted by whichyalnoaboutseven
Metairie
Member since Dec 2009
2026 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:36 pm
Baby due in late May. What are some things I can do to really cherish these last two months?
Posted by bayoutiger08
Cajun Country, Louisiana
Member since Apr 2008
610 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:36 pm to
Sleep
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48551 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:37 pm to
Sleep. A lot.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
32090 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:37 pm to
Take a babymoon
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30561 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:37 pm to
Sleep or go on a vacation
Posted by roguetiger15
Member since Jan 2013
16158 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:38 pm to
Sleep. Go fishing. Go golfing. Get on a diet now bc you’re gunna eat like shite when the baby comes. Get ahead of work stuff now.
Posted by scott8811
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
11326 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:38 pm to
Go out!!! dont say no to a party, go out to eat..sit at bars. You can't save sleep, but your social life and ability to do things you want will be shite.

It hit me hard quick that I wasn't getting adult social time with my wife
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35086 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:39 pm to
Have sex with your wife. It will be a while and that pregnant sex is some of the best.
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
18277 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:39 pm to
Skeet in your ole lady while there's still built-in birth control
Posted by Summerchild
On top of the world.
Member since Dec 2022
382 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:39 pm to
We took a trip in early April before our son came Memorial Day weekend. I quit working two weeks before my due date and slept a LOT. Got the house in order and cooked for the freezer.

As a dude? I would do whatever you do…fish, golf, hunt, see friends. The first months will not be conducive to that.
This post was edited on 3/20/23 at 1:41 pm
Posted by auwaterfowler
Alabama
Member since Jan 2020
1937 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:40 pm to
Congratulations, but glad it’s you and not me. Just became an empty nester about 7 months ago.
Posted by OK Roughneck
The Sooner State
Member since Aug 2021
9313 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:40 pm to
Sleep relax and watch every movie you ever wanted to see but never got around too.

When my kids learned to read I had to semi retire my TUCK FEXAS shirt.
Posted by scott8811
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
11326 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:41 pm to
quote:

Take a babymoon


Also this...me and my wife rented a houseboat on a lake before ours came and really glad we spent that time.

All yall saying sleep I don't know why...you can't bank it up. I sure don't regret not sleeping more before my kid came...but that's just me
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52968 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:42 pm to
Do y’all know who the father is?
Posted by bikerack
NH
Member since Sep 2011
2127 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:42 pm to
quote:

watch every movie you ever wanted to see


This...plus a lot of the other things mentioned.

It'll be several months to a year before you go see anything in theaters.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
24576 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:42 pm to
Wow you sound like a POS. Poor kid.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48477 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

Congratulations, but glad it’s you and not me. Just became an empty nester about 7 months ago.

I'm not particularly in any rush to see the last one go but most likely we'll be empty nesters in about 2 years.
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
4853 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:44 pm to
Enjoy going out to restaurants. Might be a few months until the little guy goes out in public.
Enjoy wife and you time.
Get ducks in a row financially and start that saving a acct you never did before but for later use.
Posted by WG_Dawg
Hoover
Member since Jun 2004
86467 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:45 pm to
the kneejerk "sleep" response is overrated. Sure getting a heavenly night's sleep is great but where are you like 12 hours later? Right back where you were 24 hours prior. It's not something you can take with you or reminisce about when the baby comes.

I can't count how many times I'll think in my head "oh this sounds like fun" or "Man I'd really like to [blank].." before realizing oh yeah, I can't do anything, I have a kid.

I would recommend getting out and DOING stuff as much as you can, because once the baby comes your free time and outside the home life is going to dwindle to practically nothing. Take a vcation even if it's somewehre within 2 hours, jsut get away from the house for a weekend. Binge watch whatever you've got saved on the DVR. Do work in the yard. Anyting that requires going out and DOING stuff, go do that.

You're going to sleep every day whether you want to or not. Granted it's not always going to be great sleep, and it will frequently be interrupted, and it may not be at a regular schedule. But you're going to sleep. You can't say the same about all the other stuff up above.
Posted by thenza
Member since Sep 2013
796 posts
Posted on 3/20/23 at 1:45 pm to
Kinda harsh...

But to echo the previous posters, bang as much as possible. She’s gonna learn the word “no” before your kid does.
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