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re: Was I Really That Out Of Bounds Asking A Woman Friend To Be FWB?

Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:35 am to
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
29988 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:35 am to
Dude, FWB comes after a break up with a woman that you were already in a sexual relationship with. But you still remained friends, and the sex was great.

You totally screwed that up..

However seeing this... I'm beginning to smell BS...

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TheInvisibleMan
Member since Apr 2022
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This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 9:37 am
Posted by cssamerican
Member since Mar 2011
7724 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:36 am to
Posted by El Segundo Guy
SE OK
Member since Aug 2014
10912 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:36 am to
If it's not a troll, no you didn't do anything wrong. Shooters shoot.

She wasn't that important of a friend anyway.
Posted by TheInvisibleMan
Member since Apr 2022
38 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:36 am to
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ro, all you had to do was tell her that you've been attracted to her for a while. Read her body language and see if that gets her juices flowing. Don't try to take her on a date though or that will be her expectation. You have to get her back to your place or her place. Don't expect sex the first couple of times, but work on getting her to trust you.


That wouldn't have worked. We met off a dating site 6 years ago. We went on two dates and I was attracted to her and it seemed like she was interested as well. Then she surprised me and friend zoned me. Even if I had told her I was still moderately attracted I don't think it would've helped.
Posted by RealDawg
Dawgville
Member since Nov 2012
10737 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:36 am to
quote:

Luckily I only know 2 of her other friends and I never hung out with them unless she was part of the group. We had different friend groups so there was no risk of that. Her girlfriends aren't the type I would be interesting in getting laid with anyway. I mean we knew each other for 6 years. I think it's safe to say she was never going to hook me up with one of her friends anyway.


Do you have money = escorts make the best fwb

Are you moderately attractive = big girls need love to

Are you into soaking=SLC is nice this time of year

Fwb is a thing that rarely exists in the real world. Especially if you’ve never fricked before.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
13095 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:37 am to
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I had gotten the idea while on vacation last week and decided to go with it.



Vacationing alone at Universal Studios will give you crazy thoughts.
Posted by JayDeerTay84
Texas
Member since May 2013
9853 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:38 am to
She is lying. If you were a Chad, she would drop them panties. Focus on yourself and bios yourself up. It a Chad would t write that horse shite lol


Good luck.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 9:39 am
Posted by wickowick
Head of Island
Member since Dec 2006
46139 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:38 am to
If this is real, there went your only friend.
Posted by LPTReb
Member since Jul 2016
478 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:38 am to
If she wanted to frick you, you would have known by now. There’s a reason you were in the friend zone.
Posted by Turf Taint
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2021
6010 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:38 am to
Cheap and free are the same words here. Get what you give. You gave pity, cheapness from a place of pity. Ignatius Reilly sensibility. Selfish. Pathetic even.

If a football score, 0-31. You lose.

Now go develop your relationships from a place of richness, quality, and strength. For, with and about the other person, value them, the opposite of selfish. Giving. Togetherness. Much better results. Friendship is the core. FWB is not friendship. Cheap and valueless.

Now go win the game of life, Champ!

Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
34484 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:39 am to
Damn that’s creepy AF. That’s like vagina repellent.
Posted by jorconalx
alexandria
Member since Aug 2011
9833 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:40 am to
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TheInvisibleMan


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Posted by Stealth Matrix
29°59'55.98"N 90°05'21.85"W
Member since Aug 2019
10005 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:40 am to
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I wanted to send this by email

is the exact moment I stopped reading and cringed.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
15883 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:40 am to
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Good Morning! It was good catching up last night. I wanted to reach back out with a question.

I wanted to send this by email so I could provide specifics on my reasoning for this request.

I'll preface this by saying if you aren't interested it's okay and I wouldn't want this question to hurt our friendship.

Let's be completely honest for a second. Both our dating lives are utter disasters and the prospects aren't good. Both of us aren't particularly sexually experienced. Especially as a guy that's a big deal as most women are going to expect a 38 year old man to have significant sexual experience. I worry regularly that even if I found a woman I really liked that it would end with her laughing me out of the bedroom when it becomes obvious I'm not sexually experienced.

As you know starting earlier this year I've really been wanting to explore my sexuality and grow sexually as a man. I have been to a strip club 4 times now and I've realized how much I love physical contact with a woman.

With that said, I need to take the next step and gain additional experience in having sex before I get into a relationship with a woman.

There are two options for this. One would be to find a sex worker/escort but I don't want to do that. Two is where you would come in and this leads to my question. Would you be interested in being friends with benefits and having purely physical sex at times?

It would benefit both of us a we could become better at sex in a completely casual and non-pressure filled environment. We could take it slowly and I believe we would both benefit from the arrangement.

It would purely by physical. No emotional connection. Obviously no relationship. Just two friends who have sex.

We could take it slow and just figure out what works and what doesn't work. I trust you and I assume you trust me after all these years. It would be a fun no pressure situation. Would this be something you would be interested in or be willing to consider?









Where on the spectrum do you fall?
Posted by TheInvisibleMan
Member since Apr 2022
38 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:40 am to
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Vacationing alone at Universal Studios will give you crazy thoughts.


Actually Smokies/Gatlinburg but I guess the same could apply. Could've been all the moonshine.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
42057 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:41 am to
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As someone who has been friend zoned by many women and always rejected


Get in the gym or get a bigger wallet. This will change the above.
Posted by SA4LSU
AZ
Member since Sep 2005
4597 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:41 am to
quote:

, they just have to put in their time with the entry level jobs.


Nice
Posted by statman34
Member since Feb 2011
3288 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:42 am to
1. Should have run this by someone BEFORE you sent it. Even here
2. Why send an email like that? Like someone said you have to read the room and that cold call email was tone deaf because it was too desperate and you tried to lump her into the desperation
3. If it was that big of a surprise to her that you felt that way she was never interested in you and it wouldn’t have worked regardless
4. The friendship was doomed the moment you sent it also regardless of the answer
Posted by VolsOut4Harambe
Atlanta, GA
Member since Sep 2017
12856 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:42 am to
Holy shite dude. I hope for your sake this is an elaborate troll.
Posted by Maynard James Keenan
Jerome. AZ
Member since Jan 2012
430 posts
Posted on 4/10/22 at 9:42 am to
1) This didn't happen
2) If it did, you're literally an incel




But it did not happen
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