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re: Was I Really That Out Of Bounds Asking A Woman Friend To Be FWB?
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:37 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:37 pm to TheInvisibleMan
First, use or learn to quote. I want you to know that I am currently in a wonderful no stress fwb relationship. I asked in person one night when we were having drinks. Be casual- you put too much pressure on her.
quote:You realize you're giving this advice to a 38 year old?
Try relaxing and working on other aspects of your life. It will improve your confidence in yourself and before you know it, all this will seem very unimportant. That’s whe love unexpectedly falls into your lap, and having an adjusted attitude, it will be successful for you.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:39 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:39 pm to TheInvisibleMan
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TheInvisibleMan
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Guy who is completely oblivious on dealing with women starts thread about having woman trouble.
Name checks out.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:43 pm to TheInvisibleMan
OP.
Have you thought about going the Splenda Daddy route? There's a website called Seeking Arrangement. There are women of all shapes, sizes, and ages. There are plenty of chicks within your salary range that you could meet up with for 2-3 times a month.
Have you thought about going the Splenda Daddy route? There's a website called Seeking Arrangement. There are women of all shapes, sizes, and ages. There are plenty of chicks within your salary range that you could meet up with for 2-3 times a month.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 1:43 pm
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:44 pm to TheInvisibleMan
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I promise it's not a troll. I sent that message to her last night and she replied this morning. As you can tell it didn't go well, lol.
then there's no reason not to post a pic
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:47 pm to cattus
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You realize you're giving this advice to a 38 year old?
It's never too late.
In general, I'm a believer that by age 30, you're basically who you're going to be for the rest of your life. However, as with any rule, there are exceptions. And that doesn't mean you should stop trying to grow as a person.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:49 pm to FinleyStreet
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platonic friends
my friends' wife or girlfriend
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predatory relationships where one person thinks they have a friend and the other person is just using that friendship for personal gain (sex).
my relationship with every woman that is not a wife or girlfriend of one my friends.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 1:50 pm
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:00 pm to FinleyStreet
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Men like you are why I pack heat
Dang…
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:01 pm to TheInvisibleMan
quote:If this is indeed not a troll- I'm going to give you the good news. It seems like a big deal right now because you just got the email this morning. But if you guys are actually good friends the probability is that that you will remain friends after some time and if you sincerely drop this and never mention it again, months or a year from now when you least expect it she is probably gonna bring it up and take you up on it.
TheInvisibleMan
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:09 pm to TheInvisibleMan
I know one thing is for sure, that email
is gonna get out to the group of friends and you’re going to be a total embarrassment for a long long time
is gonna get out to the group of friends and you’re going to be a total embarrassment for a long long time
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 2:10 pm
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:10 pm to TheInvisibleMan
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Please don't contact me again.
quote:You showed her!
Needless to say I sent her a "nice" response telling her what I thought and ended the friendship.
You tried to quit after getting fired, no need to act tough about it. She ended things, not you.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:18 pm to cattus
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least expect it she is probably gonna bring it up and take you up on it.
The ole Forrest Gump.
Dude just chill if she said no it’s cuz she’s already got a FWB.
That dude will piss her off eventually.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:32 pm to extremetigerfanatic
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Dude just chill if she said no it’s cuz she’s already got a FWB.
That dude will piss her off eventually.
And that’s going to send her running to the escorts referencing email guy?

Who the frick even uses email for non work communication these days anyways
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:36 pm to FinleyStreet
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Also, there is no "friend zone." That's a term made up by people who have unrequited feelings toward another person.
What you wrote is pure feminist bullshite. There most definitely IS a friend zone, and most women admit it. Some even admit that they use it as a backup plan and holding pen for Plan B orbiters.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:40 pm to Darth_Vader
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just want to know how you came to the absurd conclusion it’s a good idea to randomly ask a woman to be your frick buddy through an email. Do you not know anything about women
If it’s real and not a troll, then surely he’s some flavor of Autiste. Maybe full blown Asperger’s and he just doesn’t get social conventions.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:45 pm to TheInvisibleMan
I am not reading the whole thing, but from what I can see is that you don't let shite happen naturally.
You have no game. You have to make them want you. And there are two ways this happens.
1. You meet someone and the chemistry is there right away. You don't have to play any games, just let things happen. That's your best bet for a healthy relationship.
2. Don't force anything. Play the field and don't put all your eggs in one basket at first. And don't be a geek. With that said, I know the rules have changed so I don't know how things are done today.
Oh and there is a #3 and you might really want to consider this.
3. Hire a sex worker. And be 100% honest. Tell her it is your first time having sex.
You have no game. You have to make them want you. And there are two ways this happens.
1. You meet someone and the chemistry is there right away. You don't have to play any games, just let things happen. That's your best bet for a healthy relationship.
2. Don't force anything. Play the field and don't put all your eggs in one basket at first. And don't be a geek. With that said, I know the rules have changed so I don't know how things are done today.
Oh and there is a #3 and you might really want to consider this.
3. Hire a sex worker. And be 100% honest. Tell her it is your first time having sex.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:47 pm to Frank Black
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So hop on over to her apartment
That sounds like a quick way to get arrested.

Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:51 pm to OweO
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You have no game. You have to make them want you. And there are two ways this happens. 1. You meet someone and the chemistry is there right away. You don't have to play any games, just let things happen. That's your best bet for a healthy relationship.
2. Don't force anything. Play the field and don't put all your eggs in one basket at first. And don't be a geek. With that said, I know the rules have changed so I don't know how things are done today.
Chris, you couldn’t get laid in a whorehouse with a suitcase full of cash and a brick of coke
Posted on 4/10/22 at 2:56 pm to fr33manator
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Chris, you couldn’t get laid in a whorehouse with a suitcase full of cash and a brick of coke
Or in a women's prison with a fistful of blank pardons.
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