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re: Was I Really That Out Of Bounds Asking A Woman Friend To Be FWB?
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:43 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:43 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Ok wow. I honestly thought this wasn't serious. Here is where you messed up. Actually, nevermind you messed up by doing it. But next time you decide to do something stupid, do it at night, like you did, and make sure to have spelling errors and Grammer mistakes all throughout it. That way when the response comes in the morning, and it obviously won't be a good one because this was very much a bad decision, you can claim you were drunk as shite and apologize profusely to save the friendship.
That being said... You blamed her with the last response. You don't get to decide what makes someone comfortable. What you did was strictly on you and you alone. Blaming her for anything was a bitch move.
That being said... You blamed her with the last response. You don't get to decide what makes someone comfortable. What you did was strictly on you and you alone. Blaming her for anything was a bitch move.
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Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:43 pm to WylieTiger
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Didn't you screenshot a text message. If so, then why this question on pg 2?
SCAM
TROLL
She replied via text message, not by email.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 12:45 pm
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:44 pm to WylieTiger
She answered by text fo sho.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:46 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Screenshot your email.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:48 pm to TheInvisibleMan
How about a link to the Reddit thread. I want to see how they responded
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:48 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Based on what you told us, you should never have propositioned this woman. You already dated and she said she wasn't interested. You've known her for 6 years. If she wanted it to happen, would have already happened. Nothing you said gave ANY indication she wanted a sexual relationship.
Even if you had gone about every other aspect of your "proposal" perfectly, take comfort in knowing it wouldn't have resulted in sex.
Even if you had gone about every other aspect of your "proposal" perfectly, take comfort in knowing it wouldn't have resulted in sex.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:48 pm to James11111
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12 pages says otherwise
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:52 pm to Buryl
I think a woman knows within 15 seconds of meeting a guy whether or not she’s gonna give up the menge.
Just a theory I happen to subscribe to.
Just a theory I happen to subscribe to.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:53 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Not only is this a setback for you, but the reverberations from this is going to set us all back. One giant leap backwards for mankind.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:53 pm to TheInvisibleMan
This isn’t real.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:55 pm to tigerfan in bamaland
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I think a woman knows within 15 seconds of meeting a guy whether or not she’s gonna give up the menge.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:55 pm to davyjones
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Not only is this a setback for you, but the reverberations from this is going to set us all back. One giant leap backwards for mankind.
Haha now I think you're giving me too much credit.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 12:55 pm to TheInvisibleMan
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I was just too reserved to ask something like that in person to her
There's another word I would sub in here
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:02 pm to tigerfan in bamaland
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I think a woman knows within 15 seconds of meeting a guy whether or not she’s gonna give up the menge
This word made me laugh.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:04 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Exquisite, simply a exquisite response.
Again, please describe in two or three paragraphs your relationship with your father.
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So be it. I won't contact you again. I don't regret asking and I won't apologize. If you're going to be that immature about it and not be an adult then I guess I didn't know you as well as I thought. I asked because I trusted you. It seems that trust was misplaced. You are the one who ended the friendship, not me. But I'm not sorry for asking and I know at the bottom of my heart that I did the right thing. I took my chance. Goodbye.
Again, please describe in two or three paragraphs your relationship with your father.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:06 pm to soccerfüt
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Again, please describe in two or three paragraphs your relationship with your father.
Don't really know what this has to do with it but I'll bite.
Relationship with my father, decent but distant. We don't have a lot in common. He worked a lot while growing up. Too much of an old school black and white mentality. No hostility or anything and overall it's a decent relationship but I wouldn't say I'm crazy close to him. Luckily I have a small immediate family and get along with everyone.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 1:07 pm
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:08 pm to Cosmo
Ok, so this was a loss.
It’s ok we all have a few embarrassing losses out there. Most of us have these kind of experiences at 14 or 15 but 38 is still in the game.
Advice from this thread to take with you.
1. Don’t wait years building a friendship with a women.
2. If you get along with a women and find her attractive shoot your shot in weeks not years.
3. Take her to dinner have a few drinks then make a beyond friendship move even if small (hand hold, kiss goodnight)
4. Avoid mentioning: Strippers, Reasons she can’t be your girlfriend, lack of sexual experience, lack of previous girlfriends, this experience, communication by email.
6. Don’t talk about the future. Keep the conversation about the present and let her bring up the future after a few dates if you get that far.
Also, don’t discount the benefits of a slump-buster. Women respect momentum and your first girlfriend is the hardest to get then they get easier with each new girlfriend.
Good luck.
It’s ok we all have a few embarrassing losses out there. Most of us have these kind of experiences at 14 or 15 but 38 is still in the game.
Advice from this thread to take with you.
1. Don’t wait years building a friendship with a women.
2. If you get along with a women and find her attractive shoot your shot in weeks not years.
3. Take her to dinner have a few drinks then make a beyond friendship move even if small (hand hold, kiss goodnight)
4. Avoid mentioning: Strippers, Reasons she can’t be your girlfriend, lack of sexual experience, lack of previous girlfriends, this experience, communication by email.
6. Don’t talk about the future. Keep the conversation about the present and let her bring up the future after a few dates if you get that far.
Also, don’t discount the benefits of a slump-buster. Women respect momentum and your first girlfriend is the hardest to get then they get easier with each new girlfriend.
Good luck.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 1:11 pm
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:11 pm to TheInvisibleMan
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It is true and yes I did send that to her. I'll admit that response was probably pure emotion. No real thought put into it.
Don't sweat it.
Everyone is telling you to get a hooker. From experience you are better off jacking it and saving your money. Most of them are in it for the money and the sex sucks because they aren't in it emotionally.
If you want a hooker that's 100% into it, you need to go out of the country. It's cheaper and they can't get enough of you.
If I was you, I'd go on tinder, set the age from 18 to 50 and swipe right on every profile. At least one will go on a date. Impress her and frick her, rinse and repeat. You can try the escorts but be warned, most of the them are like jacking off in a sock with tits. If that's all you need go for it.
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:12 pm to TheInvisibleMan
Let me get this straight. You actually thought it was a good idea to just out of the blue ask via email a female friend to be frick buddies?
Posted on 4/10/22 at 1:12 pm to bird35
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Ok, so this was a loss. It’s ok we all have a few embarrassing losses out there. Most of us have these kind of experiences at 14 or 15 but 38 is still in the game. Advice from this thread to take with you. 1. Don’t wait years building a friendship with a women. 2. If you get along with a women and find her attractive shoot your shot in weeks not years. 3. Take her to dinner have a few drinks then make a beyond friendship move even if small (hand hold, kiss goodnight) 4. Avoid mentioning: Strippers, Reasons she can’t be your girlfriend, lack of sexual experience, lack of previous girlfriends, this experience, communication by email. Also, don’t discount the benefits of a slump-buster. Women respect momentum and your first girlfriend is the hardest to get then they get easier with each new girlfriend. Good luck.
This dude crushed it. He’s exactly right on everything especially number 4. Crap like that is extreme put-offs in general so why even bring it up. As for lack of experience, who cares? Walk in like you own the place. You need to have more confidence. Fake it till you make it.
This post was edited on 4/10/22 at 1:45 pm
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